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I am me. moslem. unique things. music. books. movies. random. c'est la vie. Indonesia.

[bigandlong]

If you see this on your dashboard, reblog this, NO MATTER WHAT and all your dreams and wishes will come true.

[jae-felidae]

Oh hey! Haven’t seen this in forever! Didn’t reblog it when it came across me before, not gonna skip it this time, I need some good vibes.

[lionofchaeronea]

Far be it from me to miss this chance.

[a-name-for]

IP

[a-name-for]

Beautiful things that I cant see. Closely. Everyday. You; cloud.

[a-name-for]

I know how it works, I know how it'll affect me. And I know there's a huge difference between a player and a game character. I know what it takes, when I let it be.

[jenglely]

Karena Aku Anak Tunggal, dan Aku Perempuan

Karena aku anak tunggal, dan aku perempuan. Hidup sebagai anak tunggal tidak semudah yang orang katakan. Yah, setidaknya itulah yang mereka bilang saat aku kecil. Katanya, apa yang diberikan orang tua hanya untuk aku. Aku tidak perlu berbagi uang jajan, aku tidak perlu berebut mainan. Saat bapak dan ibuk pulang bekerja, oleh-olehnya cuma buat aku. Saat lebaran, uang yang mereka kumpulkan hanya untuk membeli bajuku. Aku bebas meminta apa yang aku mau. Ya benar, dan itu tidak salah. Aku memang merasakannya. Mereka memberiku kasih sayang penuh tanpa ada ketakutanku akan terbagi suatu saat ini. Aku anak tunggal, dan aku tidak bersaudara. Orang tuaku hanya milikku saja. Tapi kini aku sudah tumbuh dewasa, orang tuaku mulai menua. Tulang punggung mereka tak sekuat dulu. Meskipun begitu mereka terus berusaha keras mencari uang untuk biaya kuliahku. Berharap agar kelak aku menjadi bintang di tengah kegelapan mereka. Saat inilah aku merasa menghadapi pilihan yang sulit. Aku harus menyusun rencana hidup sebaik mungkin dengan menjadikan orang tuaku sebagai prioritas utama. Aku tegaskan jika aku tidak lagi bisa bertindak semauku hanya untuk kepentinganku saja. Aku satu-satunya harapan untuk mewujudkan mimpi mereka. Apa kau mengerti? Aku sedang berbicara tentang pernikahan. Teman-temanku berencana untuk menikah diusia muda, katanya biar punya anak saat usia tidak terlalu tua. Katanya, ingin membangun keluarga dan usaha bersama pasangannya. Taukah, jika aku juga memiliki mimpi seperti itu?. Tapi sekali lagi aku tetap tidak ingin egois. Bagaimana nanti jika aku menikah muda dan segera berkeluarga. Bukankah, aku harus membagi perhatianku untuk orang tuaku dan keluarga baruku? Baik itu kasih sayang, waktu, dan uang yang aku hasilkan nanti harus di bagi dua dan aku tidak menjamin itu akan sama rata. Karena suami dan anakku adalah keluarga baruku. Keluarga yang akan mendampingi dan mengisi masa depanku, maka sudah pasti merekalah yang secara manusiawi akan aku utamakan. Lalu bagaimana dengan orang tuaku? Mereka sudah bekerja keras membesarkanku, mendidikku, dan membahagiakanku. Hanya untukku dan tidak pernah terbagi sampai kapanpun bahkan jika keluarga baruku datang. Lantas kapan mereka akan menikmati hasil kerja kerasnya terhadapku? Inilah alasannya aku tidak ingin dulu memiliki keluarga baru. Aku tau jika untuk urusan umur pernikahan, wanita lebih mengkhawatirkan. Untuk mengandung, wanita tidak selamanya bisa, dan bahayanya wanita lebih cepat terlihat tua. Aku juga takut, karena kaum wanita itu hanya bisa dipilih, oleh kaum laki-laki yang suka pilih-pilih. Mau bagaimana lagi. Meskipun orang tuaku tidak akan memaksaku menunda pernikahan demi mereka, aku tetap ingin membalas jerih payah orang tuaku terlebih dulu. Mewujudkan semua impian dan keinginan mereka dengan kerja kerasku. Sampai akhirnya tiba waktu dimana aku siap untuk mendua. Menyambutmu sebagai keluarga baruku dengan tenang. Jadi apa tanggapanmu wahai jodohku?. Apakah kamu akan menungguku sampai kuselesaikan semuanya, sehingga nanti aku akan bisa fokus untuk kita? Ataukah mungkin kamu akan menyangkal keputusanku dan berkata jika kamu akan berjalan disisiku. Bersama-sama kita saling membantu membahagiakan orang tuaku dan orang tuamu dan kamu berjanji tidak akan menuntut seluruh waktu dan perhatianku. Ingatlah meskipun begitu, saat kamu datang nanti kamu tetap tidak bisa membawaku pergi. Aku akan tetap tinggal disisi orang tuaku. Aku anak tunggal, hanya aku yang akan menjadi tumpuan mereka ketika mereka sudah tidak bisa saling merawat satu sama lain. Maukah kau menemaniku melewati semuanya??

Tulungagung, 24 juli 2014

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My heart is not captured easily. I am disinterested in small talk, disillusioned with love, and too focused on my dreams and aspirations to lend anybody my attention for long. But if we make that connection, if you find your way into my heart, God, I will fall for you like gravity has let go of the earth.

Beau Taplin (via lirismo-infinito)

[a-name-for]

[a-name-for]

[a-name-for]

50 Philosophical Questions

Send Me a Number and I'll answer that Question!

1: Is it worse to fail at something or never attempt it in the first place?

2: If you could choose just one thing to change about the world, what would it be?

3: To what extent do you shape your own destiny, and how much is down to fate?

4: Does nature shape our personalities more than nurture?

5: Should people care more about doing the right thing, or doing things right?

6: How can people believe in truths without evidence?

7: Where is the line between insanity and creativity?

8: What is true happiness?

9: What things hold you back from doing the things that you really want to?

10: What makes you, you?

11: What is time?

12: Is mind or matter more real?

13: Do you make your own decisions, or let others make them for you?

14: What makes a good friend?

15: Why do people fear losing things that they do not even have yet?

16: Who defines good and evil?

17: What is the difference between living and being alive?

18: Is a “wrong” act okay if nobody ever knows about it?

19: Who decides what morality is?

20: How do you know that your experience of consciousness is the same as other people’s experience of consciousness?

21: What is true strength?

22: What is true love?

23: Is a family still relevant in the modern world?

24: Where do thoughts come from?

25: What is beauty?

26: How do you know your perceptions are real?

27: How much control do you have over your life?

28: What is freedom?

29: What is infinity?

30: What happens after we die?

31: What defines you?

32: Is it more important to be liked or respected?

33: Do we have a soul?

34: Where does the soul live?

35: How should people live their lives?

36: If lying is wrong, are white lies okay?

37: Is trust more important than love?

38: Is it easier to love or be loved?

39: Is it better to love and lose or never to love?

40: Do aliens exist?

41: The structure of DNA appears to be intelligently designed, what are the implications?

42: Is there a reason to life?

43: Is life all a dream?

44: When does consciousness begin?

45: Do dreams mean anything?

46: Can we have happiness without sadness?

47: How did the universe begin?

48: Is there a supreme power?

49: Do soulmates exist?

50: What is a normal person like?

[a-name-for]

Tomorrow, is the blank page of a 365 page book. Write a good one.

Brad Paisley

[a-name-for]

Setiap anak diwariskan tingkat intelektual dari kromosom 1 gen ibunya, bukan dari ayahnya. Oleh karena itu carilah calon istri yang pandai, bukan yang cantik.

dr. Dr. Rina Masadah Sp. PA, M.phil

[officialintj]

26 year-old female INTJ here. I have a terrible time reading social cues, especially flirting, any tips?

From one female INTJ to another, let me just tell you…I feel your pain.  The definition of flirting still confuses me, actually, and I’m usually not much better with social cues.  I’ve managed to pick up some things by closely observing how people around me react to certain words/actions, but it’s a work in progress, so I’m afraid I can’t be of much help in this area.  If you can’t figure out how to read cues by noting how the people around you react to things, and it’s having a notable negative impact on your life, I’d suggest doing some research.  I assume there are tons of books about the way people communicate via social customs, body language, etc.  I can’t recommend any specific books, since I haven’t read any, so I’m going to leave this up to the larger INTJ/MBTI community:

Does anyone else have the same problem?  How do you handle it?  Know any good books on the subject?

[a-name-for]

rite.

[heidipriebe]

27 INTJs Explain The One Thing They Wish Others Understood About Their Personality

INTJs are the strategic, forward-thinking masterminds of the MBTI. Intensely independent and deeply analytical, this type is often perceived as intimidating by those who do not know them well. This week on my MBTI Facebook page, I asked INTJs what they wish the other types understood about them. Here is what they had to say.

1. “We actually do experience rather intense emotion; we just tend to not express it.”

2. “INTJs are constantly seeking new knowledge. Extroverts are so attractive to us because they come at things from such a different angle it surprises us and makes them fascinating. If you’re an extrovert, just be yourself.”

3. “I’m not angry, I don’t hate you, I’m not having a terrible time, and I don’t think I am better than you or this place. I just haven’t yet decided how to interact with this group of people or how to join this conversation appropriately, so instead of looking like a fool, I will remain quiet and just observe while I figure it out.”

4. “Being direct and rational is not the same thing as being rude.“

5. “Most common stereotypes about INTJs are only true for underdeveloped, relatively immature INTJs. They come across as aloof or smug because they’re very much in touch with their logical and intellectual side, but not at all in touch with their emotions. Once they expand their introverted feeling and get in touch with their extroverted sensing, they evolve into a richer and much more genial version of themselves, to the point that they might become unrecognizable to everybody that knows them!”

6. “I’m not a bitch. I’m just a woman who tells it like it is. We’re not all feelers; please stop expecting us to be.”

7. “I take a long time to make some decisions because I need to think abut the full experience and create it in my head first and plan how it might go. I can’t just decide to go rock climbing or go to the movies on the spot.”

8. “My resting bitch face means I’m in a good mood and am open to answer any questions.”

9. “We don’t want world domination. We just want everyone to shut up and do what we tell them.”

10. “We are more than our insensitive, cold stereotypes. Even though we may not reveal the depths and wide range of our emotions, we do have them, and it would do well for others to realize that.”

11. “I probably like and appreciate you more than you think I do.”

12. “Stop assuming I don’t care about your feelings or needs just because I don’t always anticipate them. Don’t expect me to guess, there are way too many variables to think about. Ask me for what you want. Tell me what’s going on with you and I will help if I can. I might even hug you if you feel bad.”

13. “I am not mad at you, That’s just my face.”

14.  “Though we tend to be good at hiding our emotions (for personal reasons perhaps), we still have them and need to express them.”

15. "We’re not antisocial, we just need alone time to recharge. If I’m not agreeing to hang out right away it’s because I may not know how I’ll be feeling later and whether or not I’ll need alone time to collect myself." 

16. "I take a long time to make some decisions because I need to think about the full experience and create it in my head first and plan how it might go. I can’t just decide to go rock climbing or go to the movies on the spot; I need to create a picture in my mind of how it might go first and see it from different angles before I can decide.”

17. “We are not all villains; we just have a hard time relating to you. Approach us calmly and look for common ground, and we can be very warm-hearted individuals.”

18. “My need to be alone does not mean I don’t like you or enjoy your company.”

19. “I’m not as detached or uninterested as you think. In fact, I usually have a lot to say in response to others’ thoughts/opinions and I often draw up an incredibly intricate argument in my head. I just don’t say anything because it’s difficult to put such intricate thoughts and arguments into mere words.”

20. “Most of the time, I just don’t know how to communicate my thoughts or feelings in the most effective translation, so I settle on not saying anything at all to avoid an overly-lengthy conversation about a topic I’m not incredibly invested in. But INTJs are still nice, sort of caring people.”

21. “If I retreat I am processing. I (probably) don’t hate you.”

22. “I’m extremely insightful. Other people’s inability to see what I see doesn’t make me a nutcase.”

23.  “I’m not actually trying to be condescending (all the time).”

24. “I’m not a snob, I’m actually petrified of small talk. In most cases, you’re going to have to initiate the conversation.”

25. “Nothing’s wrong! I’m just focusing on something right now.”

26. “We have feelings and emotions. We just regulate them and don’t act on them. We’re feel and empathize just as much as anyone else. We just use logic and reason to guide our expression and acceptance of these.”

27. “We push ourselves harder because we know what we are capable of, therefore we also hold ourselves (and others) to a higher standard.”

[intj-irl]

People’s first impressions of me are so mixed. Some tell me right off that I’m a cold hearted bitch. Some say I’m funny. Some say I’m super sweet and couldn’t hurt a fly. The truth is that I’m all of these things; it just depends on what I decide to show to you first.

Submitted by anonymous (via intj-irl)

[intj-irl]

Although I don’t like to admit it, I need people. But when so many encounters and potential friendships end in disappointment, it’s easy to convince yourself that you can chronically handle being alone.

Submitted by peter-pettishrooms (via intj-irl)

nahhh

[stilltiedtothetracks-deactivate]

[anginbermonolog]

Berdoa memang perlu, tapi kaki dan tangan juga harus bergerak harmoni, menyatu lalu menghasilkan sesuatu. Kalau cuma lidah dan air mata yang bersatu, itu namanya mengeluh.

Angin. (via anginbermonolog)

stop ngeluh. dunia terlalu fana untuk dinikmati, terlalu indah untuk dikeluhkan, terlalu singkat untuk dipertaruhkan 😏