Becky @becky18 - Tumblr Blog

For whatever you’ve done or whoever you’ve been in your past, you are here now. Forgive yourself for anything and everything. It’s the first step in healing. If you forgive yourself, you will be okay.

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never.

give.

up.

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This might be a very controversial post, but this fandom needs to stop assuming that Taylor is going to solve all of their problems with her money. The number of direct messages and asks I get from swifties who talk about their health problems, their financial problems, their family problems, etc, and then say "I just want Taylor to see it so that she can help me!" is genuinely getting disturbing. Primarily because of how unhealthy it is to use your pain to get other people to do something for you in the hopes that a celebrity will see it, but also because it is getting to a point where you cannot tell who is telling the truth and who just wants to lie to be noticed by Taylor Swift - or, worse, steal people's money.

Please just remember that Taylor is not going to solve your problems. Her music can help and her presence can help, but expecting or even hoping that she will give you money is unhealthy and turns this fandom into a pity exchange center.

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THIS NEEDS TO BE SAID!!!! There is an amazing community on here full of people who care. USE THEM. If you need help finding a job, finding a home, etc and you know someone in that area, it’s okay to be like “hey do you know any places that provide x service” and (at least for me) I would be like “yeah I’ve heard this shelter, doctor, etc is good” or “this website seems like it might have some info”. Hell if you set up a gofundme for something and post it on here I’m sure there will be people to help.

What is NOT okay is latching onto a celebrity to try and help you just because you know they are nice and have a lot of money. Not only is it kind of exploiting them but also you need to be able to exhaust your resources before you turn to them otherwise it just looks like you’re doing this all for attention. Please get out of this mindset that Taylor Swift is necessary for your healing or wellbeing when she is just one person on planet earth please learn to ask for help appropriately

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Lover tracks + favorite lyrics (part two)

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It’s actually a song about when you’ve gotten through a really bad relationship and you finally dust yourself off and go on that first date after a horrible break up. And the vulnerability that goes along with all of that. Even after a relationship explodes into a million pieces and burns down and you’re standing in a pile of the ash of what it once was, thinking, ‘Why did I have to meet this person? Why did this have to happen?’ But then, when you make eye contact with someone across the room and it clicks and, bam, you’re there. In love again.

SEVEN YEARS OF BEGIN AGAIN (October 1, 2012)

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when it comes to a lover, i promise that you’ll never find another like me

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taylor swift | butterflies + iheartradio tour of the year acceptance speech

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all you end game haters did not deserve how hot taylor looked doing her choreography during end game on rep tour

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You gotta step into the daylight and let it go

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Taylor Swift’s Headlining Tours

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I see constant posts by/for americans about registering to vote (which is great) but I'd just like to say to all my uk followers: please make sure you're registered to vote. you can do it here and it only takes five minutes. if you're a student, register at both your home and term time addresses (tories will be counting on you not bothering/forgetting to register in time for your uni address). a general election in the near future is seeming like a strong possibility, and the only way to escape our current cycle of terrible tory prime ministers is to vote!!!!