mlm positivity ⋆¸*ೃ

[overgrown-kid]

[aburamee]

Me, an lgbt person: sees a cute lgbt ship/ drawing- is happy and pleased and heartwarmed.

Me: sees tags; yuri, yaoi, gay smut, nsfw, a Bunch of popular yaoi fandom ships, sinning, fujoshi, fujoshi for life, fangirl, killingstalking, crossdressing, trap, shouta,

Me:

[hausofabel]

Abel made history tonight.

[sunnnyshark]

[nentindo-deactivated20210501]

Hecookinsexual: sexual attraction to a partner only when HE COOKIN

[holyflamingo-deactivated2023111]

Heeeeeey look at this more memes making fun of ace/arospec people I fuckin love it :) Thanks please invalidate me some more :) Mm yes this would be funny if we were just laughing at ourselves but everyone fuckin knows at this point that we’re having a good laugh at (mostly neurodivergent) kids trying to figure themselves out :) Boy oh boy more absurdist attraction jokes so we can brush all that confusion and pain under the rug :) Hahaha those “actually cishets” trying to sneak into the community amirite? :)

[nentindo-deactivated20210501]

HE COOKIN!!!!!

[bxunny-bxbes-deactivated2021060]

transmedicalism dying off after a few years while mogai is thriving just goes to show that hatred doesn’t build communities but mutual love and support for each other does

[transmeds]

or that harassment n suibaiting makes a community less vocal. of course transmeds r “dying out” when mogai harassed all of us into “believing” it.

[transmedcrocodile]

Also u only think it’s dying out bc u only use like tumblr and Twitter.

[transmeds]

love (hate.) seeing posts that r like "im so sorry i used 2 be a transmed, ive taken a break from discourse and realized i was wrong. im so much happier now" and then u go back and see the reason they Took a break from discourse was because they got harassed off of the internet. once again, proving that transmeds r not miserable because theyre transmeds but because of harassment n suibaiting. like you are not mature for changing your opinion to fit in, youre not right for that. i get it, discourse is hard especially when you're facing people harassing you all day but at that point thats when you Quit discourse. not change your opinion to fit in.

[transmedcrocodile]

It’s always a 180 turn as well with no sort of sight beforehand that their opinions are changing which makes it especially obvious that these are not their true beliefs.

[battlesaxe-deactivated20230322]

this discourse is so stupid, how do people not understand this?

[bloom-mlm]

aren't you just misgendering yourself by trying to say you're part of the mlm community when you're nb🤦‍♂️

[opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2]

I stg people on this site will be like "neopronouns have existed since ancient rome!!" and when you look at the source it talks about gay men being called "it" because they weren't seen as human or something

[bloom-mlm]

wait till they find out what the prefix "neo" means 💀💀

[everythingfox]

me in the kitchen at 1 am

[astralynx]

15 year olds on the internet when a 70 year old gay man calls himself femme

[bloom-mlm]

PLSLJSHSHSHSHS

[gglilyallin-deactivated20250618]

people on tumblr will see a post about lgbt people being systematically slaughtered in some countrry and go actually it's lgbtpqia+

[biomagnify]

what I want: for tucutes to realize being trans isn’t fun and makes everything a goddamn ordeal. for tucutes to get the help they need to figure out if they are actually cis or trans so they don’t have to live in a constant state of confusion and identity crisis. for tucutes to realize “experimenting with gender to normalize trans-ness” has the opposite effect. for actual debate to spark between tucutes and truscum/transmeds. for tucutes to honestly sit down and form some independent thought so they can stop co-opting trans experiences then excluding us from them.

what I don’t want: tucutes to die. tucutes to get constantly hated on in posts with no purpose because a lot of the people that subscribe to that ideology are confused, mislead, and/or young. tucutes to think if they fuck up once or stray from the pack even a little they are irredeemable. for tucutes to think it’s bad to be cis or shameful to admit mistakes.

[kiriyuin]

@ people who make anti men posts

You’re hurting trans men.

You’re hurting bisexual men.

You’re hurting gay men.

You’re hurting men with mentally illnesses and disabilities.

You’re hurting disabled men.

You’re hurting male victims.

You’re hurting men of color. 

Don’t talk as if you support people with these qualities if what you do is spread hate against them.

If your way of supporting people is putting down others, you are not helping anyone at all, more or less, you’re just damaging.

[pissinginariver72-blog]

I do not care one fuckin bit lol

[lachonk]

Imagine being this fucking proud of your shitty personality

[this-account-is-dead-ya-noobs-d]

Imagine thinking damaging peoples self-esteems is something to be proud of

[ancap-curt]

[bloom-mlm]

food for thought

[thorcourse]

i frequently get asks that i never respond to about my opinions so here’s my two cents :

-aces/aros are not lgbt. neither are aroaces.

-demisexual isnt real

-asexuality isnt a spectrum

-the concept of “kin” is stupid and weird

-the full acronym is lgbt - lesbian, gay, bi, trans. if you are none of these things you dont belong here.

-bi = pan

-validity culture is harmful

-you 100% need dysphoria to be transgender

-for the most part, attraction is based on sex

-there are two genders until scientfically proved otherwise

-queer is a slur

-tumblr really needs to stop demonising and blaming everything on “cis white gays”

-butch, femme and d*ke are lesbian-exclusive words. using them while not being a lesbian is lesbophobic.

-mogai is hella toxic

-the only “”“valid”“” pronouns are she/her, he/him and they/them

-dumb and stupid arent slurs

[vampireacid]

Here’s something to consider-

You can find a Roman Catholic trans woman

You can find a conservative gay man

You can find gay/bisexual/ trans people of all religions and beliefs

But anyone who identifies as some 97 genders bullshit has the exact same political views

That’s gotta say something, right?

[bloom-mlm]

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