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Non-Cheating Hotwife Challenge
This is for a non-cheating “Hotwife”. These dares involve flirting and risqué behavior only which are designed to increase trust, confidence, desire, appreciation, lust, intimacy and FUN in the marriage. NO ACTUAL CHEATING TAKES PLACE!! Make up your own “rewards” for achieving certain point levels.
1 Point
#1 – Suck a lollipop seductively in public.
#2 - Play naughty ‘truth or dare.’
#3 – Send your hubby a kinky pic of you while shopping.
#4 - Let your hubby take sexy pics of you flashing in public.
#5 - Talk to someone on the phone whilst you use a dildo or a vibrator. Bonus point if it’s one of your husband’s friends or a male family member.
2 Points
#6 - Go out in public in a short skirt with no panties. Bonus point if you bend over with people around!
#7 - Wear a skirt and remove your panties in public not far from people.
#8- Get your hubby a cock cage and lock him up while you dress provocatively all week.
#9 – Role-play that your hubby is a stranger and you’re a horny, cheating wife.
#10 - Flash your boobs to a stranger. Bonus point if it’s “accidentally” to a male acquaintance!
3 Points
#11 – Eye fuck a guy. Bonus point if it’s in front of your husband!
#12 – “Forget” to wear your bra in public when it’s somewhat noticeable.
#13 – Wear a loose fitting top in public. Bend over in front of attractive people. Bonus point if no bra!
#14 - Have your hubby make his dick bigger with a penis extender and role-play that he’s a big-dicked stranger.
#15 – Tell your hubby he can cum only at the thought of you with another man.
4 Points
#16 - Go out without a bra on while wearing a sexy shirt with your hubby.
#17 - Hubby picks out a revealing outfit for you for the day. Whenever you catch someone looking, smile. At the end of the day, tell your hubby about it while he strokes himself.
#18 - Flirt with another man while you’re seated. Cross your legs slowly as you talk and see his reaction. Bonus point if you’re wearing a skirt/dress. 5 bonus points if wearing a skirt/dress and no panties!
#19 – Flirt strongly with a girl. Tell your husband all about it if he’s not there. Bonus point if your hubby is present!
#20 – Go to dinner with a low cut top and your tits out. Put your tits on display every time the server comes to your table. Bonus point if the server gets caught obviously looking!
5 Points
#21 – In front of people (strangers or acquaintances), say slutty things.
#22 - Get a lap dance at a strip club with your husband watching.
#23 – “Accidently” show someone a hot pic of you while showing them something on your phone.
#24 - Get hit on and picked up by a hot guy. Your hubby can “rescue” you at the right time.
#25 - Go to dinner with your husband. After the meal, slip your panties off and sit at the bar and flirt with other men as he watches.
6 Points
#26 - Go out without a bra on while wearing a sexy shirt without your hubby.
#27 - Go out in public with a remote vibrator in you and talk to attractive guys. Your hubby watches and controls it.
#28 - Dress revealing. Look at an attractive guy until he looks away. Bonus point if he approaches you!
#29 - Make up a story about getting it on with another girl while you give your hubby a handjob until he cums.
#30 - Have an anonymous dirty conversation with a stranger online.
7 Points
#31 – Time how quickly your hubby cums when you talk about:
a. Fucking another man
b. Sucking another man
c. Him and a stranger (guy or girl) sharing you
#32 - At a party, leave at least one extra button unbuttoned.
#33 – Make up a story about fucking or sucking another guy while you give your hubby a handjob until he cums.
#34- Wear a button-up top. Hubby dictates how much cleavage is shown. Smile and flirt with every person that looks. At the end of the day, tell your hubby about it while you blow him.
#35 – Next girls’ night out, wear a dress or skirt with no panties.
8 Points
#36 – Hubby gives you money to buy new shoes. Wear a skirt with no panties while trying them on while someone assists you.
#37 - Wear a short skirt, dress or revealing top with no wedding ring. Have fun and see how much attention you get. Share it with your husband as you stroke him.
#38 - Have your hubby fuck you slowly while you tell him a made-up fantasy about fucking someone else.
#39 - Use a vibrator while watching porn (any genre - your choice) while describing how hot the guy is or how big his cock is while your husband is forced to masturbate.
#40 – Fuck in the bathroom of a club or bar after flirting with strangers.
9 Points
#41 – Tell your hubby a made up story about having sex with someone else while he fingers you. Bonus point if it’s a true story from your past and you let him know!
#42 - “Accidentally” rub against a guy’s dick through his pants with your hand or ass.
#43 - Wear a short skirt. Do things like crossing your legs, adjusting your shoes, etc. to see if any strangers try and look up the skirt. If you catch them, smile. Bonus point if no panties!
#44 - Dress sexy and sit at a bar by yourself. Smile, flirt, bend over, etc. as your hubby watches. Then go home with your hubby and fuck!
#45 – Hubby dresses you as he sees fit. Go out and do whatever he asks.
10 Points
#46 - On a girls’ night out, send your husband pictures of you flirting and having fun with other men.
#47 - Get 3 guys to buy you a drink at the bar. Do whatever it takes to make it happen!
#48 - Go to a club and dance with another man while your husband watches.
#49- Go out without your hubby, flirt with strangers, and keep texting your husband giving him updates about it.
#50 - Wear sexy, tight, short or revealing clothes when his friends are over. Do things like bending over, etc. to show it off! See how often you both catch them sneaking peeks.
Some Nice movies to watch if you are into alternate lifestyle.
1) Mechanics of Desire -- One of the best! Husband can't get it up, so he encourages his wife to fuck other men, while he watches. The wife doesn't want to, but she agrees to save her marriage. The best scene is in the bar. They show the wife's face as she realizes this is really going to happen. Another great scene is just before the end of the movie, where the husband tries to set up the wife in the dirty bathroom of a gas station. I wish the last scene was longer.
2) Bitter Moon -- Leggy wife forces her paralyzed husband to watch as she seduces a black man. I wish they showed the man fucking the wife!
3) Depraved -- The only way a man gets off is by watching his fiancée with other men. The girl doesn't seem to mind.
4) End of Days -- A too short scene of an aggressive man (the devil!) kissing and fondling a woman right in front of her husband.
5) Tough Guys don't dance -- A man fucks a woman in front of her husband. The man likes it so much he convinces his wife to swap with another couple. There's a scene of the man with the other woman, and he hears his wife moaning from the fucking she's getting from the other man. The woman laughs, and says "I guess your wife really likes my BIG husband."
6) Unfaithful -- Pretty good, many scenes of a wife cheating on her husband.
7) Erosion -- A naughty wife fucks another man while watching her husband through the window. Later, she lets him fuck her again, saying "You like fucking another man's wife in the ass, don't you?"
8) Internal Affairs -- Two great scenes. In the first, Richard Gere is fingering a man's wife while talking to him across the table (the husband doesn't know what Gere is doing to his wife). In the second, Gere is fucking another man's wife while she talks to her husband on the phone.
9) Postman Always Rings Twice -- Jessica Lange cheats on her husband in this great scene. Jessica is wearing a garter belt and stockings, and you can see the man fingering her panty-clad pussy.
10) Sex and Consequences -- An older but very sexy Joan Severance (can you say cougar!) cheats on her husband with a much younger man. In one great scene, Joan encourages her lover to finger her to orgasm in a car. They should have made the scene longer, no way she cums that fast.
11) Husbands and Lovers -- A wife spends weekends with her lover. Great stocking scenes.
12) Intimate Obsession -- Jodie Fisher, a very pretty blonde wife, gets picked up in a bar
13) Damage -- Juliette Binoche (great legs) repeatedly cheats on her fiancée, with her fiancee's father
14) Survival Island -- Kelly Brook (very pretty face and a nice body) is stranded on an island with a muscular, handsome stranger (not her husband). She eventually succumbs to the stranger's advances, and lets him fuck her brains out. Later, she's reunited with her hubby, but you can tell she's addicted to the stud's hard body (and probably much larger cock).
15) Ken Park -- Wife (a cougar) cheats on her husband with her son's best friend. She tells her lover his cock is bigger than hubby's.
16) Door in the Floor -- Kim Basinger cheats on her husband with a much younger man. Kim isn't as pretty as she used to be, but her body is still very fuckable.
17) Les Valseuses -- a new mom lets two strangers fondle her in a train
18) Maria's Lovers -- Wife needs more than what her husband can give her. She's seduced on the ferry by a stranger (He pushes her skirt up to reveal her stocking tops. Then he pins her against the door and rubs her pussy over her dress. As he presses his cock against her, he says "You like the feel of that?). Later she lets the stranger fuck her.
19) Married People Single Sex -- Wives cheat on their husbands
20) Dead Calm -- Nicole Kidman and her husband are on their boat. A stranger takes over the boat, and sends hubby away on a damaged boat. Nicole lets the stranger fuck her, and even cum inside her! (What a slut! But she's got an incredible ass and legs.)
21) Eyes Wide Shut -- Nicole Kidman fantasizes about fucking a blonde sailor. A great dream scene of Nicole pulling off her panties as the sailor fondles her tits. Nicole admits to her husband that she would have fucked the sailor if he had asked her. Nicole has great legs!
22) Normal -- Camille Sullivan, a very pretty blonde with small perfect tits, lets a young stud fuck her. Just as they finish, her husband comes home early. Husband goes to the bedroom to find his sweet, pretty wife naked in bed (her lover is hiding behind the door). Husband fucks wife. What's great is you can tell from Camille's pretty face that she isn't enjoying her husband near as much as she enjoyed her young hard lover.
23) Price of Passion -- A good movie about a husband who likes to watch his wife flirt and make out with other men. A little like "Indecent Proposal." This movie would be better if the wife's sex scenes were longer.
24) Killer Looks -- One of the best wife watching movies. The husband encourages his wife to seduce other men. He likes to watch. The wife goes along with it, admitting that variety is exciting, but she's reluctant about it. Sara Suzanne Brown plays the wife with an alluring, southern accent. She has long blonde hair, a very pretty face, large shapely breasts and a flat stomach. Her legs are okay, especially in stiletto heels, but they're not long enough to qualify as killer legs. Does anyone know if Sara ever made any adult movies? Her face is so pretty, I'd love to see her lips around a big hard cock.
25) Scorned -- A great scene where the husband urges the wife (Shannon Tweed) to let another man fuck her to close a business deal. The agony on the wife's face as the man pulls up her dress and penetrates her is exquisite. I wish the scene was longer. (There's another great scene in this movie where a young blonde coed seduces her professor.)
26) Straw Dogs -- A great, long scene where a man forces himself on a wife while her husband is on a hunting trip. The wife initially resists but then enjoys it, lovingly stroking the man's chest and kissing him. Then, after they cum, another man (who was hiding and saw it all) fucks the wife in the ass.
27) Forbidden -- The wife fucks a young man in the car. You can see her wedding ring while her lover pounds her. Tracy Smith (aka Tracy Ryan) plays the wife. She's blonde with a very pretty face, and an incredible body. She's also done x-rated movies. In my book, Tracy is second only to Sara Suzanne Brown in hotness. (Sara has the prettier face and sexier voice, Tracy has better legs).
28) Tryst -- Great movie where the husband and wife go on vacation. The wife is clearly attracted to the French inn keeper, and the husband gives his permission for the French guy to dance with and then kiss his wife. The wife then goes down on the French guy. Later the wife urges her husband to take her from behind, to prove to him she still loves him. Very hot, I wish it had ended differently (with the French guy between the wife's legs.)
29) Voyeur Confessions -- Great scene where the boyfriend urges his hot girl friend to fuck another man. The girl friend is clearly reluctant, but she agrees and goes into a bar to pick up a guy. She brings him back to the hotel room and fucks him, while the boyfriend watches from the next room. Very hot, but too short.
30) Young Adam -- Wife fucks a young guy in the cabin of a boat, while her husband is upstairs steering the boat. This would be hotter if the wife was prettier and had a better body (she's too skinny with sagging breasts). This movie just proves that young handsome men like to fuck married women, even if they're dogs.
31) Zebra Lounge -- A couple decides to swap to make their sex life more exciting.
32) Trapped -- Charlize Theron plays the wife. She's so fucking sexy! She guides a stranger's hand up her shirt, so he can fondle her nipples. He says "your husband doesn't know how to handle you." "So you know how to handle me?" Charlize answers in a sexy, sultry voice.
33) Crash -- Wife fucks a man in the back seat of a car while hubby watches. Sexy stockings!
34) Cruel Intentions 3 -- A guy forces a girl to call up her boyfriend as he eats her out. A wicked scene!
35) Leo -- Elisabeth Shue lets a painter fuck her. You can see her wedding ring as she gets pounded by her new lover. Very hot! Elisabeth has made so many kinky, hot movies, you just know she's a horny slut in real life!
10 dares for a curious wife and a supportive hubby. This could be the start of our adventures. Each with increasing difficulty
10 days easy vacation dares for the wife :
Day 1. Go braless around hotel/town with a light sundress. Make love 1 time. Stay braless every day.
Day 2. Buy and keep wearing a showy anklet from now. Start a chastity week for hubby.
Day 3. Afternoon alone by the pool, with smiles et small talks to others tourists/men/couples. Make friends.
Day 4. With hubby, socialize and sympathize with another fine couple. Be flirty. Give yourself an orgasm alone in the bathroom thinking about them or other persons you met there.
Day 5. Beach day. Wear a nice bikini and get a nice tan. Show the goods. Walk along the beach, with and without hubby, several times. Try to get noticed by a lot of people. Tease hubby.
Day 6. Talk day with hubby. Ask him about his fantasies, tell him about yours. Keep playing all day long. Make him as hard as you can, but only with your words. Don’t touch him. Remember him he’s in the middle of a chastity week. He can’t touch himself, he can’t cum.
Day 7. Pool day with hubby and the couple you met. Compliment them on their fit, their tan, parts of their bodies (you’re tall, you’re muscular, you’ve got nice breasts, nice legs, etc.) Stay balanced between the husband and the wife. Force them, with questions and fakes complaints, to examine your body too (what do you think about my swimsuit?, it makes my ass look fat, I wish my boobs were bigger, I don’t like my feet, etc.) Back in your room, tell hubby how you stared at the man’s bulge and how big you imagine his cock can be. Give yourself an orgasm in front of hubby.
Day. 8 Beach day with hubby and the other couple. Wear a beach dress without any underwear to go there. Put down your towel, take your bikini out of your bag and put it on while removing your dress in front of everybody. Make sure they see you naked for a brief moment. Talk about sex at several times. Be a bit more kinky (I hate having sand/salt into my pussy, I think that guy over there was looking at my tits, this guy is hot, we can almost see his cock outline, etc.) While hubby is alone in the water, tell them you haven’t had sex since the first day you’re here (don’t tell them why) and it drives you mad. Tell them you can’t stop thinking about filthy things these days.
Day 9. Release day. Paint your nails. Go for a walk around town with hubby. Wear a sundress, a thong and no bra. Tell him you’re finally gonna make him cum today, but first make him walk a lot. Take some steps ahead. Let him watch how cute you are, dressed like this. Be confident, take him by the hand. Kiss him in public, and discreet corners. Make him hard, feel his cock through his shorts. Back to the hotel, pull out his cock in the elevator. Pull him like this through the hallway to the bedroom. Stroke it a few times on the bed. Get him to the edge, massage his balls. Ask him how much cum he got for you. Squeeze his balls. Look at his turgid penis leaking precum. Ask him to hold on, but subtly push him to cum. Order him to jerk off, and just look at him busting his big nut on his stomach, all by himself. Spread the sperm around with your hand, taste your fingers while looking at him in the eyes. Take a shower, come back naked, ask him to fuck you now. Make him hard again by telling him all the slutty thoughts you had during this week. Tell him how you imagined sucking and riding all those dicks. Ask him to fuck you the hardest he can to punish you for your dirty thoughts. Let him cum as much as he can.
Day 10. Last day. Offer the other couple to spend the last evening together at the restaurant. Tie your hair up, wear a black dress, no underwear, and a red lipstick. Now you're freewheeling, let things happen naturally, or not. Maybe you'll all end up in the same bedroom, swinging couples. Maybe alone, one on one with the wife or the husband, or both, while hubby is watching. Or maybe just with hubby, as a couple in love, making new memories or fantasies.
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How To Ask Her To Become A Slutwife
There are only 2 ways that a wife can become a slutwife.
The first is initiated internally, within her. Internal drive is something inside of her makes her desire to sleep with another man, to have attention from another, to seek a relationship outside of marriage. Internal drive is often the cause of cheating and also a great indicator of slutwife potential. Internal drive is absolutely necessary for a good slutwife.
The second is initiated by external influence. External influence is done by things that influence her internal drive and eventually make her seek the attention of another man and look at the possibility of sleeping with another. External influence can lead to cheating when the husband is not involved, but can lead to a very good slutwife/cuck style relationship when the husband is very involved.
That being said, you can safely assume that her internal drive needs to be kicked in, while simultaneously being a big part of her external influence, in order to get the slutwife of your dreams.
Now, there is only one realistic way of activating her internal drive and being her biggest external influence, you have to ask her to be your slutwife. Why? Because if her internal drive was raging, she would have asked you or already be cheating on you. If that is the case, you don’t need much from this post. For everyone else, it will be up to you to make it happen. You have to push forward.
When people ask me during private conversations, this is usually the biggest hurdle they have trouble getting over. How to ask?
Asking out of the blue can be very intimidating to most, because that is what most envision asking the question. In reality, there are many ways to lead-up to asking the question and warm her up to the idea. Here we will cover a few.
1. Let’s Watch Porn - Contrary to what some think, women can enjoy porn as much as men, they just perceive things differently. We have a natural curiosity towards sexuality and anything taboo, so exploring through porn is very common. Set up some time with your partner to explore porn together. Find out what she is curious about, see if there is something on her mind. If she mentions something, explore that topic. If she doesn’t know, guide her towards your goals. Topics like hotwife, threesome, size queens, and BBC are good starting points. When watching a video on a hotwife, mention how hot you think the scenario is and how much it turns you on. If watching BBC type video, mention how hot you think it looks watching a white woman being a slut for a black man, how black men seem better equipped for porn, and how they seem to have better endurance/stamina. Remember, regardless of the topic, only explore one topic at a time, give her mind time to absorb the idea. Towards the end of the video when you are both feeling hot, mention how you think she could do things better than the girl in the video, to give her a perspective of herself in that situation. Finish by giving her some very pleasurable sex and saying that you can’t wait to set up another night like that. This type of activity will open up the floor for bringing up the idea of her having sex with another man after doing it a few times.
2. Someone hit on her - If you are with a woman who’s looks rate anything above a 1, chances are she will be getting hit on at some point. You may witness it, or she may tell you about it some time later. The point is to be excited about it when she tells you, and ask her to give you every detail. You can then proceed to eat her out and give her a proper orgasm as you mention little suggestions where she could have done more. (Little things are her smiling more when she gets hit on, giving her phone number, adding him on facebook, wearing something slightly more revealing, etc.) This will teach her that you are cool with her having attention from other men, it turns you on, and that you think about her taking it slightly further. By eating her out while talking about it, it aligns these experiences with other good and pleasurable experiences, thus building a correlation between being hit on and pleasure. This opens up the doors for her to seek more attention and eventually pushing further. As far as asking her to be a slutwife when the time comes, you can go back to one of these scenarios and mention how you imagine her going all the way, how hot the idea sounds, and what are her thoughts on doing it in real life.
3. Asking her to Show Off More - You can always ask your wife to show off a bit more, then compliment her on how hot she looks. This doesn’t mean asking her to go full slutmode right off the bat (we will cover more on how to get her there in another post). You will simply ask her to show off a bit more. For example, have her pull her blouse down to show off a bit more cleavage, or let her skirt ride a bit higher than normal. Go out with her and mention how sexy she looked, how you caught a few guys staring, and how much it turns you on. This will no doubt bring a “Aren’t you jealous?” Your reply will be that you are not because you love her, know that she is yours, and that it turns you on when other guys admire your sexy wife. Tell her how proud you are to show off how sexy she is and that you do not believe you should keep such a beauty all to yourself. Over time, as you get her to dress sexier and she becomes more comfortable, this will set things up for the slutwife topic (More on that soon).
4. The Sex Shop Experience-Another way to ease her into talking about her becoming a slutwife is by taking her to an adult store. Not into a cheap small store that looks raunchy, go into an adult megaplex with a variety of stuff. The two of you will go on a date to explore different sexual kinks and to simply look around. While there, see if she is curious about anything in particular, costumes, toys, bondage, etc. and go with it. No one should know her kinks better than you, so go with it. If she is following your lead, start by going to the dvd section and explore your fantasy. Show her some BBC/3 some/ or slutwife DVD and tell her how it looks really interesting. Ask her what she thinks about it. Move on to the costumes and ask her which she finds sexiest. Go with her answers and suggest something sexy yourself, than have her visualize herself wearing it. If its something she could pull off on Halloween, mention how she should wear it on Halloween and turn some heads. Go to the toys section and see if any catch her interest. Go with it. Then point out some large dildos as well. Have her hold them and ask her how she thinks one would feel inside of her if she took her time to ease it in. Tell her how much it would turn you on to see her take one. You should aim to buy something that interests her from each section, to show her how much you lover her sexuality and want her to explore it. At the same time, you are dropping small hints as to your desires and feeling out her interests.
5. Who Would You Sleep With?-You will ask the question that if she could have sex with any one person in the world with zero consequences, who it would be. She may likely choose a celebrity. If she can speak about it openly, ask her to name another. Have her pick out about 3. If she insists that she couldn’t, then tell her that if she had to, due to a life and death situation, who would she choose. You can also apply a world catastrophe situation where you are gone and she is needed yo help repopulate the world and she has her pick of men. The only point here is to get her to talk about how she would have sex with other men. She may counter by asking you who you would sleep with. You will respond with a girl you have seen in porn as a hotwife, going black, doing a gangbang, etc. and you will say that because you would think back and ask her about that scene she did and it would really turn you on.
6. What is your Fantasy?- Last but not least, ask her what her fantasies are. It is important that you know her fantasies and curiosities if you don’t already. If you have done some of the stuff above, you might have done enough to get her curious about the hotwife scenarios, BBC, huge cocks, threesomes, etc. if not, just get to know her fantasies. When she asks about yours, this is where you tell her. Your fantasy is for her to be a sexy slutwife. Remember that you are not demanding anything, you are informing how hot you find the idea. (Go back to post #1) there is a chance she may be into it and willing to explore it further. If not, tell her how you would still like to roleplay that along with her own fantasies.
With the tools above, you should be able to ease into letting her know you love the idea of her becoming a slutwife and gives you a set up to gauge her interests. It also serves towards becoming her biggest external influence and could possibly kick in her internal drive, This on it’s own may not be the home-run, but it certainly sets things up to get her to fulfill your fantasy.
YOU WANT HER TO DRESS LIKE A SLUT?
One of the most fun and exciting aspects of the slutwife fantasy and lifestyle is when the wife starts dressing like a slut in public. There are a few reasons why both men and women could find this very exciting. All the sexual attention will be focused on her which will draw into many primitive reproductive aspects for both husband and wife. In a sense, she is out and looking to mate, which brings out hormonal responses from her body, the husband’s body, and the other people looking as well, creating a chain reaction of excitement throughout the place. Sexual energy is amongst the most potent human drivers for accomplishments, status, beauty, power, etc. but we will talk more on that on a later post. For today, let us focus on the topic, a girl dressed like a slut brings out a lot of benefits for everyone around her. To summarize briefly, you want her more, she boosts her sexual confidence, and every guy wants to test his luck with her.
It goes without saying, everyone wants to look good and everyone wants to be with someone who looks good. So what is the issue? Why isn’t every single wife out there not dressed like a slut? Why do most men who fantasize about the lifestyle complain that their wives refuse to dress slutty like they ask them too?
These are all good questions who’s answers could vary slightly from one girl to the next. In general, it comes down to her self view, which tells her that she is not looking to mate.
To grasp this perspective, why are teenage and college girls more willing to wear slutty clothing than married women? There are a variety of factors, but in general terms, those girls are looking for a mating partner on a hormonal level. They seek attention and are willing to show more to get it. So why do most girls lose this when they get married? Well, because she is no longer competing for a sexual partner to mate with. She no longer needs the same raging hormones to drive her to seek the perfect mate.
There are a lot of evolutionary and psychological factors as to why this happens this way, but we won’t dwell on that science this is not science class. What is important to know is that her being married is not an end to your dream of seeing her dress like a slut. Below, we will cover some good guidelines to use so that you can help your wife to go from dressing like a prude to dressing like a slut.
1. Tell Her Why and Go Slow - As with anything regarding a person you love, this is not about manipulation, this is about doing something together. So tell her what you would like and why. Wording is key. Do not say, “I want to you look like a cheap hoe”, say, “I love your boobs and wish you would show them off a bit more. Why? Because you think she is hot and you love knowing you have something every other man wants. You love how empowered you feel when you can tell every guy desires her and how you get to take her home. You love how good she looks and you want her to feel as beautiful as possible. Do not expect her to go out looking like a slut just because you asked, this may take time, so give it to her. The more prude she has been, the more insecurities she may need to overcome, so don’t rush it.
2. Build Her Up - Confidence in her body will be one of the biggest obstacles women will face. So before trying to rush her into wearing a thong bikini, build her up. You should always be complimenting how good X body part looks and how hot you think she is. This only gets you so far, so getting her into increasing her exercise and fine tuning eating habits will go a long way over time if you both do it. Celebrate small accomplishments and ensure you compliment how she is looking much better. Her hair, nails, time at the spa, massages, etc are all ways to pamper and build her up. Think of her as being a slutwife already, so worship her body, treat her right, take her out, and love her. A happy wife is a sexy wife, and a sexy wife is a slutty wife.
3. Start From The Inside Out - Before ever attempting to have her wear that slutty attire outside, have her wear it inside just for you. She needs time to process how she looks dressed like that, so don’t rush it. Appreciate her effort and let her know how much you love the way she looks. She may be happy dressing up a bit for you at home, but even if she wants to, she may need time to build herself up to go out showing. This could be in a physical and psychological sense as well, so take your time with her at home. A second factor to starting from the Inside Out is her underwear. When it comes to going out, she is much more like to wear something sexy under her clothes that you know about but others don’t. For example, she is more likely to wear some really sexy lingerie underneath her normal clothes than she is to wear a micro dress. So as far as going out goes, start by asking her to dress sexier under her clothes and work your way out. Example, have her wear a blouse that she normally wears, but now with a push up bra. A skirt she normally wears, but with a thong.
4. One Thing At A Time - Unless she is open to it from the start, do not go trying to get her into a micro dress that covers less than a bikini. In other words, do not have her show everything at once. Ask her to focus on a specific area first. Assuming she has big boobs, have her wear a push up bra under a tight blouse that hugs her boobs without showing skin. Then you can progress to having her show off her neck with another blouse still wearing that pushup bra on another occasion. On a later date, she could show the top of her chest. Then a slights glimpse of cleavage. Etc. If she is more of a leg/butt girl, she can start by wearing a sexy thong under a long and loose skirt. Over time, her skirts should get slightly shorter and tighter. This application goes with jeans, going from loose to really tight and torn, to shorts, to micro shorts and skirts, etc. Bikinis, from one piece, to more revealing one piece, to two piece, to small bottoms, to thongs, etc. You should get the point now. Again, this is not a race, do not rush. Start from the Inside out, get her comfortable, pace yourself, and let her flow.
5. Talk About Reactions/How Proud Are You? - When she does go outside wearing something sexy she normally wouldn’t, make sure you compliment her before even stepping out. This builds her ego and confidence. Once out, take note of guys that check her out. Once back in the safety of your car, home, or someplace distanced from the guy, bring it up to her who you saw checking her out. You want to wait for the right moment so that she does not become self-conscious about it. Just tell her who you saw, what they did, and how proud you are that she is so sexy, and how much the whole thing turned you on. If possible, finish this off by eating her out and give her the orgasm of her life. Condition her to associate dressing sexy = male attention = orgasm, this will get her going the right direction.
6. Give Her An Excuse - If you want your wife to dress like a slut, give her an excuse. In other words, take her out. You want her to spend over an hour getting ready to look her sexiest, make it worth her time. Promise and deliver on a nice dinner and night of dancing (See post on Dancing). Make her correlate dressing up sexy with fun and attention, and she will want more of it. Also, take her to places where there will be other guys who can check her out, and remember to tell her what you saw afterward and how much it turns you on. Other excuses for her to practice wearing less are Halloween, role playing sex, trips to the beach, faraway vacations, etc. the more you give her an excuse to dress sexy, the more she will do it. The more she does it, the more attention she gets, the more you pleasure her.
7. Go From the Outside In - Assuming she became comfortable wearing certain slutty clothes out in public but she has reached her limit, now you must go from the outside in. So lets assume she has become comfortable wearing a short skirt that just covers her butt. She may have reached her current limit and may not want to wear a skirt any shorter than that because she would literally be showing part of her butt. Do not try to fight this, just flow with it. You can still buy her and ask her to wear a shorter skirt, but tell her to wear it at home for you. Same applies for blouses with cleavage, etc. wherever there is a limit, ask her to wear it at home. The second aspect of going from the outside is that once she reaches her limit of what she is willing to wear externally, you focus on what she wears internally. That is, her underwear. We covered pushing into getting her to wear sexy lingerie as often as possible, so assuming she is already doing that, focus on getting her to go bra less or panty less while still wearing clothes within her limits. Remember, only focus on one thing at a time, so don’t ask her to go and get rid of all her bras and panties, you will only ask her to either not wear one or the either until she is ok to move on. However, remember the end goal is not for her to be bra less or panty less, the goal is to get her comfortable feeling sexy and looking slutty. So if a push bra makes her feel her sexiest, stick to that.
8. Push Her Geographical Comfort Zone- As stated, we use the privacy of our bedroom as a safe space to start from. She should feel comfortable enough there to wear just about anything in front of you and know you will enjoy it. The next step is making her confortable in the living room. When she becomes comfortable wearing something for you in the bedroom, start guiding her into wearing it for you in the living room. The best way is by taking her there for sex. Then you can ask her to get you a glass of water while wearing her sexy clothes (the kitchen). Then you can move on to stepping into the backyard to hangout at night with the lights off. Then front porch at night with lights off. Then taking her for a drive at night. Then picking up food at a drive through. Asking her to go pay for something at a gas station. Etc. You repeat this process during daytime hours as well. The point of this is getting her comfortable wearing sexy clothes for you and expanding the comfort she feels in the bedroom to the rest of the world. Never make assumptions that just because she wore something similar or less clothing on one occassion, she will be comfortable wearing something else next time. With each item of sexy clothing, plan on starting at the bedroom and take any immediate progress as a blessing. The more comfortable she becomes with slutty clothes, the easier this will be.
9. Dont Be Cheap/Invest in Her- There is no way around this. If you want her to dress slutty for you, you can’t be cheap. She is not going to dress as sexy as she can for you to take her to McDonalds. She is not going to feel confident wearing a dress you picked up at the dollar store. She is not going to be feeling very sexy with those 2 dollar panties from Amazon. She is not going to look forward for a date at a truck stop dive bar. If she is going to put in the work, show her you will too. So buy her a nice sexy dress that she will feel excited about trying on for you. Buy her that sexy lingerie that makes her feel like a sex goddess. Get her those high heels that she has been staring at. Invest in her. Now don’t go broke either, don’t sacrifice your livelihood trying to make her a slut, cause it will have the opposite effect. Plan accordingly and invest money in buying her nice and sexy things you want her to wear for you in public. For training purposes only, you can buy her cheaper and sluttier stuff she will only wear in the bedroom, but don’t be cheap when expecting her to wear something out in public for you.
10. Let Her Go Alone - When she is comfortable wearing something out with you, ensure she is comfortable wearing it without you. Meaning, if she wears something sexy at the bar with you, go to the restroom and leave her alone a few minutes. Let her experience how safe she is being alone dressed like that. If someones hits on her, tell her how sexy she is and how much it turns you on that every guy wants her. When possible, ask her to wear something sexy to work, even if it is just lingerie. Ask her to wear a sexy skirt next time she goes shopping. Have her wear one of those new smaller bikinis at the pool. Have her wear those shorts you love around your friends. Create personalized scenarios where she wears her sexy clothes, then give her time alone with other men. Show her you are not jealous, you trust her, and any attention she does get only turns you on. The more she gets to do this, the more confortable she will become around other men who check her out.
These are some general guidelines to use to get your wife to dress sluttier. Notice that these are guidelines with no particular order, they are meant to be used simultaneously and adjust as needed. I can not guarantee that your wife will dress like a cheap prostitute waiting to get picked up, but if you follow these guidelines, your wife is guaranteed to dress sluttier than she currently does. Furthermore, you will begin to condition your wife to expect male attention and correlate it with pleasure, just like those slutty college girls do. This will have her opening up more to other possibilities.