Extending Empathy Starters
“I don’t know what the fuck to do to help but… I’m here.”
“You’re not a talker, I know… but, I’ve got you.”
“Up here all alone… wanna talk about it?”
“Consider this a peace offering and an invitation to talk.”
“Now, I know I’ve been… well me, but gimme five minutes.”
“I understand you more than you might think.”
“Been there before… sort of. It’s not the best thing.”
“You don’t have to say anything. You can show me instead.”
“Nothing says talking over woes like having a drink in questionable places.”
“You’re stuck with me for as long as it takes to get through this.”
“You don’t get how I’m feeling! Stop pretending like you do!”
“I’m awful with this stuff but I’m always open to trying.”
“No one deserves going through this alone.”
“When you’re ready. I can wait. Don’t force yourself.”
“When did you suddenly start caring?”
“Just because I’m an asshole, doesn’t mean I don’t care.”
“No! That’s not what I meant, or how, I’m just… trying okay?”
“This touchy feely talking about yourself crap wasn’t okay growing up alright?”
“Even I can tell when you’re being bitchier than normal. What’s up?”
“You’re right, I don’t understand, but I’m willing to make that attempt.”
“Oh it’s all doom, gloom and irreparable despair? Try me.”
“It’s going to hurt, but the release will be worth it.”
“You’re upset, I can tell.”
“How do you always know when I’m in a mood?”
“There’s… some weird thing with you. It feels… safe. Talking about things.”
















