Lilac Sky

Em. Any pronouns. Nikkei. Tkaronto, Canada. Asexual. Aromantic.

[lilaccastle]

The signs as actually problematic Taylor Swift things from a swiftie since debut era

Aries: the overconsumption of it all Taurus: appropriating AAVE and then trademarking it so no one else even Black people who made it can use it Gemini: straight-up lying all the time Cancer: dating underage and barely legal boys in her twenties Leo: the misogynoir of it all Virgo: playing both sides and neutrality in a time of oppression takes the side of oppressors Libra: the environmental impact of her private jet and how she claims she's not always in it but have you heard about how yachting doesn't just happen on yachts it also happens on jets? nothing confirmed just a thought. allegedly. Scorpio: refuses to go to therapy because she thinks her mom can be her therapist and bleeds all over the rest of the world because of it Sagittarius: "the man" is a patriarchal anthem about how she doesn't want to get rid of the patriarchy, she just wants to be the one on top Capricorn: there are no ethical billionaires Aquarius: the suspicious pattern of nazi shit like if any of them were a one-off incident it's a side-eye but it's been on repeat since 2009 Pisces: let's not ignore the racial aspect of what she did to the young Filipina Olivia Rodrigo

[nonexistentnull]

gonna start reverse-shipping. that canon couple is not dating actually. that kiss was entirely platonic and i dont see why you’re reading into it any other way. their parents are clearly roommates with benefits. when they say “boyfriend” they actually said “boy friend”. every character will become aromantic when i’m done with them

[abitonthepoliticalside]

[alleesaur]

ghost cover doodles

[voidspacecowboy]

Not only should it be law that anything AI generated on the internet should be labelled as such but every website, app, and digital service should have a button I can click that removes any AI from my interactions with that site/service. I don't want your AI assistant I don't want your AI-generated ad copy I don't want this insidious little thing that has crept into so much of the internet that I can be using it without even realising or knowing. If you couldn't be bothered to have a human make it I can't be bothered to look at it sorry bye

[sackboys-moved]

Love not having a ”””fandom””” specific blog. Something new will just consume my mind and everyone has to accept it. My house

[butterflypeaflowertea]

after seeing your friends for a few hours sometimes u walk away and return home with a little ball of glowing golden light in your chest

[cryptotheism]

The unsavvy talk about furries like they're some hypersexual excretion of modernity, but drawing animal-people is one of the top 10 neolithic human activities. It's up there with collecting berries and producing clay figures of fat women.

[arcadekitten]

Happy Ace Week! For a long time I debated if I wanted to post this old comic of mine on tumblr. I was never really sure. But now that it's ace week it feels appropriate and I'm feeling brave. I hope you like it 💜 (Reblog Friendly)

[nyquil-guzzler-420]

I hate that every social media platform has switched to a video centric format. I fucking hate it. Every app is so loud now. Instagram used to be quite. You could put on music and scroll to see what people are up too. Nope. Now everything has music on it or gets turned into a reel. This is why I fuck with tumblr. It's the quiet website. Just you and and the voices.

[mimikyuno]

cast fat people in normal roles that do not revolve around being fat/ridiculed, I dare you

[anistarrose]

If the people in a relationship say it's platonic, then it's platonic, regardless of your preconceived notions about commitment, cohabitation, gender, sex or other physical intimacy, and anything else you associate with a strict position on a romantic/platonic binary. Likewise, if the people in a relationship say it's romantic, then it's romantic, again regardless of your preconceived notions about commitment, cohabitation, gender, sex or other physical intimacy, and anything else you associate with a strict position on a romantic/platonic binary. Friends can have sex and/or live together, and romantic partners don't need to. People can also do either of those things or neither without placing themselves in a platonic-romantic binary.

Platonic and romantic relationships (as well as, frankly, sex itself, if you take a look at the way sex has been typically defined in such a cisheteronormative way) are way too socially constructed for your stereotypes to overrule the actual intent and self-understanding of the people those relationships most matter to.

[anistarrose]

#and if they say it's queerplatonic it's queerplatonic no matter how much it looks like just friendship/just romance to you

[thebibliosphere]

When I say editing software is getting dumber, this is what I mean.

In what world is "What dinnered?" more legible than "What happened to dinner?" I just... what?!

[emperorpenguin]

[gazazabad]

Sorry to inform you that searching tirelessly under rocks for your [x] attraction, is probably a sign of some sort in itself. This is not a common experience of *most non-aspec people.

And trying to convince or force yourself into being allo is not how that works either!

[onyxthelion]

The 2025 Ace Community Survey is now open! Anyone who is 15 or older are encouraged to respond. This includes folks who do not identify as ace! (those responses help for comparison purposes) The survey is also available in 16 languages!

Find the survey link here: https://acecommunitysurvey.org/

[this-is-amato-heteronormativity]

Sexual Attraction: Feeling sexual desire or having sexual thoughts for someone or something. Libido: Having a physical desire for sexual release. Sexual Arousal: The physical response of a body when it is preparing for sex or is sexually stimulated.

These three things often overlap, but can occur separately. Sexual attraction often causes a libido spike, and a libido spike often causes sexual arousal, but "often" =/= "always"/"for every person."

An asexual can have a libido. A non-libidoist can be allosexual. A person can become sexually aroused even if they are unattracted to someone, or are not experiencing a libido spike.

You can have sexual desires/thoughts for someone (sexual attraction) but no physical desire for sex (libido) - or vice versa. You can become sexually aroused from random stimulation (ie; rubbing genitals against something on accident) or from random hormone spikes.

This separation is necessary when explaining the asexual spectrum and allosexual spectrum to people.

[specialagentartemis]

Asexuals can do anything they want. Asexuals can date. Asexuals can have sex. Asexuals can throw large rocks at your head if you feel the need to pop into every post about asexuality to remind every aro, nonpartnering, sex-averse, or celibate asexual that asexuals can date and have sex. Asexuals are people and are thus as widely varied as any other group of people!