rules page.
GENERAL
BANNER AND ICON CURRENTLY PLACEHOLDERS.
THIS IS A SIDEBLOG. FOLLOWS COME FROM MY OCELOT @spetsnas.
this is a blog for metal gear's frank "gray fox" jaeger. i am a veteran of the series and have extensively played everything from metal gear 1 &2 to acid. i am comfortable placing fox in any time period and any game, and play him at every age.
originally est. 2017 under the url nonhaven.
moderate influence from extended canon material.
IF I FOLLOW YOU and you violate one of my rules or vise versa, please feel free to soft block or block me. it was an oversight. i don't intentionally go out to break mine or other peoples' rules, lmao, i just can't remember everything i've ever read.
nsfw will appear, especially violence, child death, death, torture, brainwashing, gore, ptsd. i’ll tag almost anything. nsfw of a sexual variety will appear as well; i am 28.
please tag a/b/o, mothers day, pet death, and pedophilia for me. i will unfollow if you don’t.
the usual goes. don’t god mod but minor inferences to move a thread along, be respectful and polite, no bigotry, etc.
i liberally block and expect the same. hard lines. if you do not like me, block me. i'll do the same. i would also appreciate the courtesy of blocking if you want to break mutuals. it confuses me if i'm soft blocked or just unfollowed. i need clear, concise boundaries established, or i may assume tumblr bugged.
i will not interact with blogs where a character's primary trait is 'rapist' (e.g. kilgrave of marvel comics), and i will not interact with nazi characters. as a jew and a survivor i am simply not interested in retraumatizing myself through rp. i care a little less about the former point if that character has an actual personality beyond this particular infarction.
i don’t engage in call out culture. period. do not involve me in it. i am nearly 30, i could not care less.
i do not think fictional taste equates to irl morals, but i also do not think fiction exists solely in a vacuum that does not influence or affect reality, it is a balance. use your brain. if you are unable to engage in critical thinking and believe an authors writing of a disagreeable topic is endorsement or unnecessary then simply do not follow me. likewise, if you believe human beings are impossible to affect or persuade via fictionalized media and propaganda, do not follow me. just use good judgment and you will be completely fine around me.
WRITING.
format however you like. i don't care. if its impossible for me to read, though, i will unfollow. likewise, i'm not big on super tiny icons; if i can't see what your icon is portraying, i'll be less inclined to follow you or may outright ask you to go iconless when threading with me.
no icons for now. it's a bit hard with frank's limited materials.
me being slow to reply to our thread =/= i dislike you or that thread. it just means i'm either busy, waiting to have enough muse to give you a better reply, or i'm fixated on something else and will get to it when my brain cycles back to our thread.
i TRY to reply in a 'timely' manner, but i cannot always accomplish this. please be patient with me. speak to me ooc if you're concerned. i promise, i do not follow people i bear any amount of animosity toward; a slow reply does not mean a disinterested reply. YOU ARE NOT REQUIRED TO GIVE ME A "TIMELY" REPLY. literally just do it whenever you're feeling it! i get excited for replies, but i'm never going to ask you to prioritize our fictional barbies over real life in any way.
i am preferential to para-to-multi para threads. i am a yapper. i can really get a narrative rolling if you let me. if this is a problem and you predominantly prefer short, one or two line threads, my blog is probably not for you and i'd just advise not following. cheers and respect, that's just not who i am.
you are encouraged to continue memes / asks as threads if you'd like, but please, please move it to a new post and tag me; do not reblog the ask unless it's to keep it on your blog.
you are not obligated to continue asks as threads. i just will be happy if you do. :-3
i am aware my prose method is somewhat disjointed and i apologize. please ask for clarification if you are confused about something i write. i will not be offended! especially if you aren't a native english speaker.
SHIPPING
i’m completely open to shipping.
i am most fond of snake/fox, but am willing to develop virtually anything. strongly disinterested in extremely dramatic age differences, incest (absolutely no frank/naomi), or pedophilia. this should go without saying, but that also means i am not interested in big boss/fox.
i am not an "anti" and nor am i a "pro-shipper". this argument is moronic, petty, and childish; i don't have time to care about it. please go away if you're invested in this. just because you dislike something does not mean that it must face moral scrutiny; fiction is fiction, you are not defending real people. they're barbies. smash them together however, just leave me alone if you violate my rules.
i tend to ship with up to three renditions of one canon character. i want my partner to feel valued and not like i'm simply collecting them, hence the restriction. if i turn you down for a ship, it is very likely because im at my 'capacity' for the char you play. i love crossover shipping too. :-)
OTHER
i am very slow. i may take a week or longer to reply to a dm, let alone a thread. i have severe chronic pain, audhd, severe anxiety, and responsibilities. sometimes i just forget, other times i'm not sure what to say, and other than that i'm frequently busy. i am quicker to answer discord messages but even then i am not the fastest. i will not be shamed or vagued about this. i am an adult, and you are an adult. treat me with kindness and patience or block me and remove yourself from my online sphere.
I DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT DRAMA. keep it to yourself. if you are a callout reblogger i will likely dip. i only tolerate callouts when they display actual sincere evidence of an individual engaging in real life dangerous behavior, with the 'mildest' of offenses being online harassment like stalking, and doxxing, as these are online behaviors that deeply affect real life. i consider that harmful. i do not consider rp drama, he-said-she-said, shipping, graphics, etc, to be serious in any way and don't want to see it on my dash. if it could've been solved in a private conversation, or as simple as blowing off steam in private dms and blocking and moving on, you will be blocked for putting it on my dash. this includes writing things one may find disgusting or distasteful; i'm within my rights to remove you from my circle just as you are with someone else, but i'm so very disinterested in witch hunts because someone wrote a character doing something evil or because you find their content intolerable.
if you interact with more than five different fox blogs/portrayals/etc, i probably will not want to write with you. i can't stand feeling like i'm a commodity. i don't really have duplicate anxiety over this character, i just don't want to be collected.
there are a number of people i dont want to see on my dash and will probably unfollow, possibly block even, if i’m forced to. this is a boundary i am establishing for myself, as i strongly dislike telling others who and who not to write with. if you find yourself suddenly blocked, thats probably why.
NO GENDERBENDS. i will follow back trans genderbends (e.g. solid snake as a trans woman) on a case by case basis. i am not interested in cis genderbends. idgaf if they're canon to some one off.
WHITEWASHED CHARACTERS WILL NOT BE TOLERATED.
not interested in writing with or following harry potter blogs either. you cannot ethically consume jkr's work at this point. it is willful ignorance.
please try to avoid approaching me with “hi” “hey” etc. just say what's on your mind. i have an extremely hard time responding to one word greeters and the conversation will go nowhere. i am very responsive to reaching out for writing, i'm just a bit slow, and i'm extremely shy so am unlikely to reach out first unless i really have an idea i waant to propose. i know this may be unfair and i apologize. i am not looking for my mental health disorders to be accommodated, simply given some understanding.
if i follow, i want to write. if i’m at all irritated by something you post, i’m just going to unfollow for my sanity. i am both sensitive and shy, so i wont follow you long if i don't think we'll get along. (it is nothing against you personally, its just a fact that not everyone will mesh well as friends.) i usually wait three days once you're actively posting for you to follow back, and if you dont, i unfollow. it just tells me you arent interested, which is perfectly fine. you do not need to follow or interact with me, i just appreciate when i'm not made to look like a fool following or interacting when you dont wish it.
i tend to unfollow within 7-8 months of complete inactivity. you may refollow if you return to your blog and would like to interact again, it's no big deal to me. every now and then i also go on follow culls where i will gently softblock anyone who has failed to interact with me within a broad span of time (around 6 months), where you may yet again refollow to interact.
AS OF AUGUST 2024, i typically do not follow first if i do not know you from other blogs. this isn't meant to discourage you from following if you're interested in interacting--please go ahead--i just don't follow first anymore. if i do follow you first, i either know you, or i'm VERY interested in writing with you and overcame my anxiety about it. you also probably write with a mutual of mine.
i will not interact with you if you write with dean (mageister / archonoclasm / recitedemise) or his twin, hien. there are no exceptions to this rule, i do not want to write with or befriend anyone engaging with my friends abuser.
if you dont have any mun info anywhere on your blog, i probably am not going to follow you.
27 (28 on 10/07). jewish. trans. he/it. i am in CST / CDT / GMT-5 time. (-6 in winter).
now, i know these long ass rules make me sound stuffy and strict, but i'm really not. i'm very relaxed despite the rampant anxiety. i like making friends, even though i'm shy. i've made some of my longest friends from the original iteration of this account. all i ask is my rules are respected, and to asks questions as the need arises; i will never be offended if you just need to know something. (you can generally ask me about metal gear overall too, atp i'm somewhat of a walking game informer).















