Jan 22, 2020
how do you respond to miscellaneous men who call you âsweetheartâ?
When I worked at a bar when at the tender age of 15, I found asking men like that to stop just makes them slither away from blame and act like youâre the bad guy. But what I DID eventually figure out did the trick was making this face:
like a sort of pained grimace/smile. Hold it for at least three solid seconds while maintaining eye contact.
Itâs gonna make them super uncomfortable. Like in the years since Iâve had guys sit there and stare glassily at their drink for a solid five minutes while their friends continued on around them. 100% success rate in keeping men in check so far.
