[palesweetscherryblossom]

Sometimes I’m having a bad day but then I remember that one time one of the apartment managers at the old apartment my family used to live in had the audacity to call me & my sister anchor babies to our mother (mind you we’re third generation immigrants) and my mom then got her not only fired but also evicted from the free apartment the job came with

[murraysiskind-deactivated202511]

It’s so crazy that suicide prevention is just people going awwww don’t!! Awwww come on noooooooooo stopppppp

[allhailklisz]

[yokelfelonking]

One of the best ones I saw was a thing noting that every single one of the few survivors of suicide jumps off of the Golden Gate Bridge realized, on the way down, that the problems they were killing themselves over actually were fixable or could be worked through...except for the now - extremely unfixable - problem of gravity.

[authortobenamedlater]

Went to the Holocaust Museum in DC once. There was a video interview of an Auschwitz survivor who said he and some other prisoners stayed up all night with a man who wanted to kill himself. The man didn’t kill himself and survived to liberation.

In the video the survivor said “Never seek a permanent solution to a temporary problem. And they’re all temporary problems.”

Hearing that from a guy who survived the Holocaust rewired my brain a little bit.

[drgrlfriend]

I think something a lot of people don't understand is that depression is not suicidality, and suicidality is not depression. People can, and are, depressed without being suicidal, and sometimes suicidality peaks as people are emerging from depression. Suicidality is a wave, and the trick is to allow that wave to crest and subside WITHOUT acting on it. Whatever it takes to ride it out. For some people that's distraction, like watching television. For others it's calling a friend -- not to talk about the suicidality, but just to talk. For others it could be as simple as going to sit in a coffee shop or library, because the presence of other people is a huge diminisher of suicide risk. That's what suicide safety planning is about. It's like having any other type of emergency plan, like a plan for fire or evacuation. It's making a plan when you are in the frame of mind to do so, so that you can just DO the plan without having to think about it when the occasion arises. When you're in the midst of suicidal ideation, or even intent, you're not in a problem-solving mood. So knowing past!you, with the help of a therapist hopefully, came up with the plan and all you have to do is follow up until the wave crests and subsides, is what allows you to see another day.

ETA: Here's a link to a safety plan. https://www.samhsa.gov/sites/default/files/988-safety-plan.pdf

[jacine-the-queen]

Transphobes can die mad 🤷🏻

[femmesweetheart]

A closer look because these ladies deserve to be appreciated 💓

[mha-platonic-yanderes]

Just a thought, feel free to expand on it if you want, I would like to hear your thoughts

I imagine that a teenager or young child reader would be terrified being kidnapped by the LOV. The reader has seen them all over the news, they’ve seen what crimes they’ve committed and it horrifies them to no end.

Maybe like 3 days into being kidnapped, Toga decides to get them a gift! Poor reader has done nothing but cry and scream for the past couple of days, they even tried to escape. Toga wants to give the reader something they can find comfort in.

She’s walking around, looking at shops and stares, trying to find something that they would like. The League had been watching them for awhile, so they knew the basics of what you liked and disliked.

Togas about to give up her search, but then she sees it.

An oodie.

It’s so big and soft! It would look adorable in reader!

She gets the oodie, making sure that it’s pattern is something that they would like.

When she gives it to them, their huddled in the corner of there room, the farthest one from the door.

She makes them put it on, threatening to hurt someone they didn’t. Reader won’t admit it, but they really liked the oodie.

It made them feel safer, it gave them comfort.

But now the League can’t resist giving them cuddles. How could they??? Reader is extra cuddly now. And it’s easier to wrap them up so they can’t get away from their hold.

It’s a blessing and a curse, really.

I would imagine Dabi cuddling the reader a lot more. But the reader is scared of him, he did burn down their house and burn their father to a crisp. In front of them.

The League would literally fight over who gets to cuddle the reader while their just crying in a corner.

ah, one gift to get you on their side. you are just desperate for affection, aren't you?

no but seriously, this looks really comfortable, but the cuddle piles would be killer, literally. shigaraki is all over you, because the oodie gives him another layer between him and you. he's less scared of killing you and he's definitely touch starved.

the soft material feels great against dabi and spinner's skin, which is great because them crusties have dry skin. and while compress and twice have better skin, they also swear by how soft it (and you) are.

so expect more of these, because mr. compress is your #1 supplier and this is literally one of the only things you're allowed to wear now.

i didn't know what an oodie was, but this looks comfy

[palessweetbackup]

we need more platonic Yandere LOV content