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Kind things to do for new moms:
Make some comfort meals that are easy to freeze
Offer to help with chores
Surprise her with a gift basket (can have baby or self care things)
Babysit older kids or pets so she can have quality time with husband and baby
Point out what’s special about being a “big kid”so they don’t feel left out
Send flowers or a card
Run errands for her
Simply listen and encourage her, she’s awesome 💕
Thank you Lord for all the new moms and babies in my life 💗
Reminder: just bc you’re a tradfem with so much love and energy to give, doesn’t mean you have to be dating rn. I realized I need to heal before talking to guys. It’s okay to focus on yourself, overcoming trauma, family, friends, school, skills, spirituality, experiences, etc 💕
Racking up library hours bc my degrees will look so ✨ pretty ✨ on my husband’s wall.
Saturday Agenda
Morning prayer
Matcha bc I didn’t sleep last night 🍵😅
French translation
Thrifting and yap with bestie
Art show
Sorority event with gfs 💕
One thing we should remember about trad wives: It's an aesthetic. A trend. Lately I've been going to the rich side of town to get chin hairs lasered. The rich women are wearing $300 trad wife sundresses. Jeans have become a poor people fashion.
imagine being mad at women choosing to sacrifice literal income to be with their babies and being considered such a threat for trending in society lol
The NERVE of these women, wanting to... Prioritize their families and have quality time with their children.
It's not like it's been the norm for most of human history, it's obviously a passing trend (now go out of your home and work 8-12 hours for minimum wage while someone else takes care of your children, be liberated!).
One thing we should remember about female dancers: It’s an aesthetic. A trend. Lately I’ve been seeing girls everywhere in balletcore. All the women in New York City Ballet 6 days a week are really doing is dress up 🙃
Especially number 13…🕉️
#5 sigh...
🥺❤️yes pls
a hoodie w/his scent all over it if it’s to sleep in
dress shirt w/his scent all over it if it’s to wear in cute lingerie playing housewife mopping our student kitchen aha
Yet another perfect example of why we need men who can make decisions for us and take control during a crisis:
I can’t imagine trying to handle half of this under the pressure, exhaustion, physical pain, emotions,drugs…
Even if you both sit down before and make a birth plan so many medical things can pop up..
Your actual feelings at the time might be different..
You might not even be conscious when some of these decisions are made.
This is how I know I can surrender completely to a man. If I could trust him with my life and even more importantly my children’s lives, everything else would be easy.
Mastering the It Girl Life on Campus/ at school : Confidence, Class, and Style
On-Campus Essentials: Sophisticated and Ready to Conquer
Structured mini tote – Think sleek and polished. Choose something that says "I'm on my game" while fitting your essentials: a slim laptop, your chic planner, and a pair of sunnies.
Signature scent – A travel-sized luxury perfume, like Byredo or Le Labo. It leaves a lasting impression without overpowering.
Hydro flask in a neutral tone – Hydration, but make it aesthetic. Bonus points if it matches your outfit.
Protein bar or matcha to-go – Snacks are essential, but we’re keeping it elevated. Opt for a protein bar with clean ingredients or a homemade matcha latte in a reusable tumbler.
AirPods Max or sleek earbuds – Perfect for tuning out the noise between classes with a curated podcast or chill playlist, keeping your energy cool and collected.
In Class: Own the Room with Confidence and Intelligence
Effortless note-taking setup – Digital is where it’s at. Use a tablet with a stylus for sleek, organized notes that sync across all your devices. Bonus: it looks high-tech and minimalistic.
Command attention – Sit where you can engage, but it’s not about the front row anymore—it’s about being present and prepared. Contribute thoughtfully when needed, and stay poised.
All-in-one app for organization – Ditch the old-school planner. Use an app like Notion or Google Calendar to sync your schedule, assignments, and deadlines. Effortlessly keep everything streamlined and on point.
Refined confidence – Instead of always speaking up, choose your moments wisely. Command attention through well-thought-out points that showcase your intellect, not just participation.
Breaks Between Classes: Elevate Your Downtime
Mini face mist – A refreshing face mist with a subtle scent keeps your skin hydrated and glowing, giving you a post-class refresh. Think Tatcha or a rose water mist.
Quick mirror check – Always have a compact mirror to do a quick hair and lip check. It's about looking polished and put together without effort.
Reset with movement – Walk around campus to stay energized, but with intention. Pop in your favorite playlist, take in the surroundings, and use this time to clear your mind before the next task.
Digital declutter – Use breaks to clear out any unnecessary tabs, update your notes, or respond to quick emails. Keeping your digital life tidy is the new version of looking organized.
Some good tips but I think participation is about asking thoughtful questions and enabling others not showing off or “commanding attention”
Found this on pinterest had to put it here
Tradwives need to realize the seriousness of the shit they are getting themselves into.
The society isn't all that kind to women.
Why do we behave like tradwives, grown women, are some kind of infantilized creatures that do not know what they are doing?
Being a tradwife does not mean that you do not ask practical and important questions about how to run your life. You ask about savings. You ask about insurance. You ask what will happen if most unfortunately the marriage ends, or the primary breadwinner Husband passes away. You make contigency plans, you save, you make sure there is enough for a rainy day. You keep backup avenues of income that you can take up if the need arisesm - even if it is for a temporary illness or incapacity to work of your Husband.
Additionally, this notion that a "gap in resume" makes you unemployable is becoming old now. A lot of people take a gap in their career, to focus on other aspects of life, to raise their children, to settle into a new country. It doesnt put you behind, if anything it shows your maturity. Also, tradwives are not sitting at home doing nothing. Lots of tradwives have side gigs, etsy shops, crafts they make, books they write, recipes they share. Being connected to that community generates more opportunities if those options may be required.
All of these events are just as possible for a fully working individual, as anybody who has lived through any major recession will know. Jobs get laid off, mortgages go unpaid, savings disappear because banks invested them recklessly, and children's school and univeristy become unaffordable. All of these are real, all of these have happened.
Maybe, instead of creating a horror narrative of everything that could go wrong, we could raise pragmatic suggestions of things to look out for and put in place before one chooses a traditional way of living?
Maybe instead of intimidating people about taking a break from work we could create a work culture that does not demonize people for not working continuously for 45 years of their lives come what may?
Being a tradwife is different from being an idiot, yanno
Yes yes yes yes yes. Anti-traditionals are the real sexists. They clearly think all trad fems are dummies.
Good morning ladies! B prepared for the weather! Heart shaped umbrella is on ur side!🫶🏾
Was soaked yesterday in a white skirt lol Wish I had this 💗
(Should I stop dressing for the job I want and just wear sweats or shorts to class???)
A while ago, a cute girl came up to me in the cafeteria and complimented my outfit. We were chatting and I asked what she wants to be once she gets her degree and she said cheerfully, “a housewife!” I was really impressed by her bravery and honesty but I lost her Snapchat 🥲
I find it hard to identify as a traditional woman in my real life because I know people will label me as stupid, woman-hating, think I don’t believe I can make it in another career, etc.
I was taking an interesting course about women’s lives in Ancient Greece and Rome. Women weren’t treated well then (neither were some groups of men, tbh). Discussion revolved around gender being merely a construct, claiming there’s no real biological difference between men and women or basis for having different roles. I’m ashamed of not sharing my views because I felt my feminist professor would give me bad grades.
From now on, I’m going to try to be true to myself 💗
Maybe simply doing that will inspire others
Maybe I’ll get to the point where I don’t care about defending/explaining myself and I’m cheeky like, “yeah, I love dolling up and getting a matcha with my hubby’s card and baking cookies for him! He thinks for me so I don’t have to!” Lolol
Oh I feel you!
When I was in class we were discussing hormonal treatment for trans youth, and the teacher said "there are no permanent consequences" no matter how young they started. I remember saying that there were studies saying otherwise, and we should support our youths but still be truthful and careful, but was shut down pretty quickly (by teacher and other students) and I kept quiet after that. I didn't point out all we know about bone structure and general development because I knew KNEW I'd get low grades even if I added the studies' bibliography.
Sometimes it is scary to point out studies that go against the mainstream narrative... (Now I wish I had been braver).
I’m deleting the sensual content on my blog because I want this to be safe for the celibate girlies and girlies under 18 who are interested in a traditional lifestyle 💕
The world is already so divided; we need to be there for each other!!
A while ago, a cute girl came up to me in the cafeteria and complimented my outfit. We were chatting and I asked what she wants to be once she gets her degree and she said cheerfully, “a housewife!” I was really impressed by her bravery and honesty but I lost her Snapchat 🥲
I find it hard to identify as a traditional woman in my real life because I know people will label me as stupid, woman-hating, think I don’t believe I can make it in another career, etc.
I was taking an interesting course about women’s lives in Ancient Greece and Rome. Women weren’t treated well then (neither were some groups of men, tbh). Discussion revolved around gender being merely a construct, claiming there’s no real biological difference between men and women or basis for having different roles. I’m ashamed of not sharing my views because I felt my feminist professor would give me bad grades.
From now on, I’m going to try to be true to myself 💗
Maybe simply doing that will inspire others
Maybe I’ll get to the point where I don’t care about defending/explaining myself and I’m cheeky like, “yeah, I love dolling up and getting a matcha with my hubby’s card and baking cookies for him! He thinks for me so I don’t have to!” Lolol
Tumblr’s not letting me message ppl back bc my account is new 😭
Fourteen years after Laban tricked him! If his love can't reach this level I don't need it.
“No man is an island” oh really? Really? What about him?:
That's the World turtle, he's an exception to the rule.
this reminds me of the Iroquois Creation Myth
My 2025 vision board
this is adorable but why is the kitty in the food??? lol
