Idk if this is a hot take or will make me seem like a dick, but I gotta speak on this
Now, this is my first time really indulging in a fandom that involves a real person (Richard Harmon fandom), so I might be out of line here but why are we so comfortable naming ourselves shit like "richardsharmon'struelove"
Like?? That's a real person with a girlfriend that also has no clue who you are??
Outside of meet and greets, most of this fandom hasn't even spoken to the guy, for all we know he could be lying about everything he does- not that I think that tbh, he seems pretty down to earth- but we wouldn't really know because we aren't his friend.
But to public ally refer to yourself as "actorsbf" or "actorsgf" or god forbid "actorscumshot/anything explicit" just comes off as incredibly parasocial and weird to me.
For fictional characters it's fine, obviously. Fiction isn't real and doesn't effect people all too much. Of course we have to be mindful of what we consume and how we go about it, especially when dealing with heavy material and topics, but at the end of the day, that person isn't real and won't be effected.
Ig tldr; Celebrities and Streamers are real people and we all need to get more aware of that because I've seen some shit that would not fly in my house.


















