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ppl who act like other ppl (ESPECIALLY bi ppl like….) need to be ashamed about their attraction to men r so weird like i know it’s not a super large issue but it still bugs me specifically. men r sexy. let me have this.

greelin

“unfortunately, i like men” why feel any shame about that. i love men’s tits, fortunately

kristmaskiller

"cOPs KilL WhITe peOpLe tOo!"

And you're okay with that?

kristmaskiller

Like. It doesn't upset you? You're not bothered? You're not angry?

lumberjackloverboy-moved

bro stop haha you keep acting like that and i’m gonna fall in love with you lmao

mlm & nblm

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avatarmerida

Happy pride month to the tiny cowboy and tiny Trojan man from Night at the Museum

futurakid

leg-stealing-bee

closetedguyy

#mlm #mlm positivity #pride

bunnykitty13

also if ur one of those ppl that are like "the black and brown stripes on pride flags are uglyyy umu make it more aesthetically pleasing!!!" please stop talking i dont like you

bunnykitty13

actually no fuck you if you say this, black and brown lgbt people did NOT build this community only for you to turn and spit in their faces in such a nonchalant way. who cares about your uwu pastel aesthetic people are DYING and it pisses you off that two or three more stripes are included in a flag??? good. die mad

bunnykitty13

#pride #the flags arent about aesthetic bro get over yourself

bugfluids-deactivated20250511

i was tear gassed, shot w/rubber bullets / bean bags and assaulted, and almost passed out from lack of water and the heat in my state. im not posting pics for my safety bc co//ps and pro//te//sti///ng PPD is one of the most VIOLENT police force in the US shooting more people than LAPD and NYPD in 2018… but i need medical help and i need to buy masks and albuterol for my breathing treatments as my breathing has gotten worse since the tear gas and heat exhaustion pls consider donating to my paypal im tired, covered in bruises and cuts from what they were shooting. also donate to the Black Peoples Justice Fund (metro phoenix area) to help with bail funds for the people arrested while protesting.

#FreeThemAll

#BlackLivesMatter

#DecarcerateAZ

softbunmlm

MLM/NBLM Asks

Are you in a relationship?

Do you have a crush on someone? If you do tell us about them.

What’s your ideal boyfriend/enbyfriend?

What is your ideal perfect date?

Have you ever smooched a boy/enby?

If you went on a movie date what movie would you go see?

What video games would you play with your boyfriend/enbyfriend?

Are you a hopeless romantic?

Do you daydream a lot about your crush or boyfriend/enbyfriend?

If you were going on a dinner date where would you go?

Can you tie a cherry stem with your tongue?

Have you been to pride in June? If not would you like to go and if you have gone how was it?

When did you realize you weren’t straight or cisgender?

Would you consider yourself a affectionate person?

What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done for someone?

If you had to cook for your partner what would you cook?

Where would you travel with your partner if you two could go anywhere?

If you wanted to get your partner a gift what would you get them?

Do you write love letters to your partner?

Do you write poetry or songs?

Favorite Lgbt+ movie?

Favorite Lgbt+ show?

Favorite Lgbt+ fictional character?

Favorite Lgbt+ youtuber?

Favorite Lgbt+ singer?

Favorite Lgbt+ meme?

Favorite Lgbt+ book?

Favorite Lgbt+ artist?

Favorite Lgbt+ celebrity?

Favorite Lgbt+ tumblr blog?

Favorite MLM/NBLM tumblr blog?

Favorite petname(s)?

Favorite date spot?

Favorite dessert?

Favorite love song (or favorite song)?

Favorite thing to wear?

Favorite animal?

Favorite type of Milkshake?

Favorite month?

Favorite mythical animal?

Favorite flower?

Coffee or tea?

Sweater or Hoodie?

Fall or Spring?

Winter or Summer?

Frozen yogurt or Ice cream?

Cuddles or hugs?

Little spoon or big spoon?

Gazing at the stars with your partner or watching the sunset together?

Movie theater or park date?

Forehead kisses or kisses on the cheek?

Sitting on their lap or laying your head down on their lap?

Circus date or fair/carnival date?

Strawberries or cherries?

Peaches or plums?

Matte or glitter?

Dunkin Donuts or Krispy Kream?

Flamboyant or reserved?

Pastel colors or dark colors?

Cats or reptiles?

Doughnuts or Bagels?

Pastel rainbow or regular rainbow?

Cowboy partner or Goth partner?

Yeehaw or be gay do crime?

Video games or board games?

Plushies or figures?

The sun or the moon?

Bears or dogs?

Red roses or white roses?

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hauntedandlovesick

If I were in love with someone and they tried to show me one of their interests I'd be so honoured.

hauntedandlovesick

The intimacy of showing something you love to your significant other is unreal. The trust that they won't think you're annoying for talking about it or make fun of it. The union of two things you care deeply for.

If my partner showed me something they loved then I would simply love it too. I would listen to them talk about it for hours on end whether I like the thing itself personally or not and I'd have a smile on my face the whole time.

#mlm #mlm positivity

animatedtext

#this is stupid homo culture #himbo rights #mlm #mlm blog #mlm positivity

pormeds-blog

#nsfw #mlm #not to be h*rny but INTERESTING

capcourse

all these people who say gay was never a slur are too young to remember those psas that told you to say stupid instead of gay

wheatleylaboratoriez-deactivate

what

capcourse

idk if this is a “i dont believe you” what or a “you mean there are people who havent seen these??” what but allow me to enlighten you

i havent watched this commercial in 10 years (which was also when it was posted) but yes i remember this playing on TV when i was younger

heres an article from 2009

heres an interview from 2009

in fact, these were so culturally relevant that i distinctly remember watching a dane cook special where he had a bit about it (i think he also mentions rape so tw for that)

i grew up hearing gay be thrown left and right as a derogatory term, and its a small part of why i dont identify with the word.

if youre going to say that queer is a slur, then you have to mention that gay is used as one as well. otherwise, youre just spewing t///er/////f propaganda and im not about that bullshit

wheatleylaboratoriez-deactivate

hey, thanks for providing sources! i genuinely did not know these existed because i never saw these PSA’s

capcourse

no problem! i dont think they were on air for a long time, so im sure there are a lot of people who dont know about ‘em!

tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva

noah fence but that is NOT what a slur is. a slur isn’t using a word incorrectly, it’s a separate solely demeaning word.

someone negatively saying “wow you’re so mentally ill” doesn’t make “mentally ill” a slur, does it?

tchaikovskaya

yeah wild how the original meaning of one word is inherently scornful and was assigned to people in that group by hostile people from without, and the original meaning of the other word is about happiness and was adopted by the people it was meant to describe. its almost like theyre completely different circumstances and should be thought of as such!

lumberjackloverboy-moved

Hey, relating to your latest ask, as an allo gay man I do kinda relate to what the Anon was asking, mostly because I'm a minor and I haven't interacted with other gay men in more adult settings so all I really know is what I hear in memes. Is this internalized h*mophobia? (I hope this isn't offensive, I'm genuinely curious. I do apologise if this is offensive)

I think the key point here is that you said all you really know is from memes. When I was a minor in school gsa/clubs I had a very different idea of the community verses now that I’m ‘out there’, ya know? Our community is a deeply intricate, diverse, and complicated. No two experiences are the same and that isn’t something that really sinks into until you’re out in there for a while. I don’t think it is internalized homophobia- just a lack of experience.

#gay people having sex is not bad #if you talk about gay men as only sexual beings youre part of the problem #mlm #last comment isnt an attach on the post its just an observation

lumberjackloverboy-moved

there’s nothing wrong with finding men hot, or sexy, or sexually attractive. you are not predatory or dirty for wanting to have sex with men. your gayness and attraction is wonderful and you should never be ashamed of it. there is nothing wrong with you.

this post is trans inclusive

#mlm #mlm positivity