[ratbastarddotfuck]

you have to forgive the printer because it's one of the most machine-ass machines we interact with on a day to day basis. that thing says kerchunk. hardly anything says kerchunk these days. you can't get mad at her when she kerchunks up a little.

[digitalsymbiote]

Crazy that tech has gotten so bad that we're doing printer forgiveness now

[pansyfemme]

i still think you all are still too mean to bisexual women

[genderkoolaid]

this is an edge case and not representative of binary trans people as a whole, but some binary trans people react directly to someone being nonbinary by openly denying their identity, and presenting it as though it's their *responsibility* to force someone into the binary. I have had more than one encounter with people persistently harassing me out of a belief they need to "crack my egg the rest of the way," believing that being nonbinary was an incomplete binary transition they needed to finish for me. I had to leave a real-life queer community because someone would not stop insisting that I was a binary trans person and just didn't know it yet, and no one else had enough of a problem with it to take it seriously when I said I needed it to stop. having someone respond to me asking that I not be misgendered with "oh, sweetie, I *am* using your pronouns" is gonna stick with me for a long time. and I am not remotely the only person this has happened to. people acting this way are individual bad actors, but it is very much a systemic problem that so many people in the trans community do not see it as a real issue, as a source of distress, as something that is not funny. we are made to feel unsafe in communities that exist to offer safety. it needs to stop, and I don't know how to even begin trying to fix it.

thank you for sharing this because its really important that we start talking about it more. that is the first step to fixing it; we have to be honest.

this is a form of violence. trying to make a nonbinary person binary is a form of violence, whether its cis or trans. it is violating and violent thing to do to others. it is deeply dehumanizing to speak directly to a person and insist you are honoring them (some fantasy version of them that lives in your head) by directly going against their stated wishes and refusing their subjectivity.

this is conversion therapy shit.

[genderkoolaid]

how many nonbinary people have come out publicly only to then semi re-closet themselves because people are so incapable of not being extremely exorsexist towards them immediately... ive seen this happen to nonbinary people across agab we cannot catch a damn break

[genderkoolaid]

also the way people tend to see misgendering nonbinary as like. "softer" or easier or more understandable than misgendering a binary trans person. like it doesn't even really matter, because it's basically just an aesthetic choice, and not anything to be taken that seriously

[genderkoolaid]

#i remember when mr beard came out and immidiately had to go back in the closet#because people were giving him shit for not changing his presentation or pronouns#its really sad

forgot about mr. beard but yeah that made so upset on his behalf!!!!!

and what's annoying is how often binary trans people just don't seem to react? like this is what i mean by people treat misgendering nonbinary people as "softer." a trans man or a trans woman getting harassed back into the closet is a tragedy, a nonbinary person getting harassed back into the closet is just another wednesday for a lot of binary trans people.

[genderkoolaid]

#yeah.#and then when we stand up for ourselves we’re ‘difficult’ and no longer ‘one of the fun chill ones’#i can be chill#but im entitled to the same god damn respect and i will insist upon it#get yourselves right i’m fucking tired

no this too. i do feel there's this. expectation. that all nonbinary people will be rather apathetic about their genders, that the "good" nonbinary people (who isn't "crazy" and "dramatic" and "trying so hard to be woke") don't really care about what pronouns or nouns you use, will be binarize themselves in whatever way is easiest for the binary people & system around them, will be largely unobtrusive about their gender unless it can be a funny joke for binary people (even "inclusive" ones).

& then this feeds into what i described above, binary trans people & cis allies treating nonbinary people being misgendered or going back in the closet as less serious and less tragic and less disruptive than binary people. the assumption that nonbinary people somehow have less stake in being trans, that we never physically transition, that we never have dysphoria, etc. instead of being horrified that recloseting or never coming out ever is so common that so many nonbinary people are so used to repressing their own wants and needs preemptively. using pronouns they don't really connect with just to not be seen as "unreasonable" but it doesn't hurt as bad if its not technically misgendering. there's a lot of pain in the nonbinary community that i think we have never been allowed to fully voice.

[peach-pot]

being anti-amatonormativity in a romance centered world is like watching half the people you know put all their eggs in one basket and then drop the basket and all their eggs break and they’re crying and swearing they’re never gonna do that again and then a month later they have all new eggs in a new basket and they tell you the problem was they didn’t have a strong enough basket or fresh enough eggs and then they drop the fucking basket again.

[peach-pot]

(this post is about putting all your time, energy, and care into one relationship, about staking all your happiness on a romantic relationship, effectively making the entirety of your joy and stability dependent on one person who could exit your life for any number of reasons no matter how great the relationship seems. it’s about the societal expectation to build your entire social life around one long term relationship, putting all your eggs in that basket, so to speak, instead of tending to larger social network and maintaining a variety of strong connections so that even if one very important relationship comes to an end, you won’t be losing your whole social life in one fell swoop.)

[lawbutch]

you don't have to be scared of your suicidal friends. you don't have to be scared of your psychotic or delusional friends. you don't have to call the police every time someone says they feel like they want to die. you can say things like, "that sounds really hard" and "I'm going to bring you some food and you can tell me more about it"

[robothell]

there was a cloud shaped like bart simpson in 1852 and nobody recognized it

[the-evil-skull]

Don't piss me off with that shinigami eyes bullshit.

[rowanisawriter]

dashboard simulator

mutual 1: i have to quit my job

mutual 2: i have to quit my job

mutual 3: i have to quit my job

mutual 4: i have to quit my job

mutual 5: i have to quit my job

mutual 6: i have to quit my job

mutual 7: i have to quit my job

mutual 8: need to peel him like a banana

mutual 9: i have to quit my job

mutual 10: i have to quit my job

[probablily]

me in the echo chamber: exactlyyy, literallyyyy

[fullyconsumedbywhatlovesme]

Okay tell me I'm not alone in this

What do you say when playing Rock Paper Scissors

“Rock Paper Scissors”

”Rock Paper Scissors Shoot”

“Rock Paper Scissors Says Shoot”

I have never played Rock Paper Scissors

I have played but say something else

Voting ended on11h

[ulises-aithon]

Piedra, papel o tijera, saca lo que quieras, una, dos y tres Ç Rock, paper, scissors, put out what you want, one, two and three

[burgerdotcom]

reblogs were off

[geniusbee]

these are getting weird

[stjohnstarling]

You used to log onto the internet and find out it was peanut butter jelly time. Not any more.

[rabbit-inwonderland]

girls on tiktok love posting their boyfriends/husbands/whatevers doing objectively shitty or insane things and saying that its shitty/insane and then LOSE IT when people agree with them. cmon

[magicratfingers]

oh well i guess ill just be fat and hot

[magicratfingers]

guess ill be fat and hot and hot

[blackleatherjesster]

I get no notes because as soon as someone finishes reading my post they are compelled to put down their phone and experience the wonders of the world around them with fresh eyes

[blackleatherjesster]

Because of how bad the post is