Sunlight-System

Hello! This is our side blog because we're scared to come out as a system on our main blog but there's way too much content on our feed about systems at this point lol

[sunlightsystemsideblog]

This blog has been moved to @sunlightsystemside

[the-chorus-of-voices-collective]

Coca cola is fucking disgusting and I take no criticism.

-Willow (she/her)

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

coca cola is amazing

cope + seethe + mald + l + ratio + ur mom

[malwaregoose]

cherry coke 🫶🫶🫶

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

absolutely not regular coke on top

[malwaregoose]

divorce era 😔😔😔

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

i'd like to see you try

[malwaregoose]

IS THAT A THREAT ????

cherry coke is better + I’m taking the kids + and yes that means the cats

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

BITCH??

Figgy loves me more I'll have you know

[malwaregoose]

YOUVE NEVER FUCKING MET FIGGY HES IN MY ROOM BITCH

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

AND HE STILL LOVES ME MORE :D

[malwaregoose]

BITCHASS >:(

cherry coke is better it’s tasty

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

diet coke on top

[fennecandco]

Trauma didn't make me nice, I consciously made me nice because I don't want anyone else to suffer like I did. Trauma didn't make me strong, I made me strong. Don't you dare ever tell me my trauma made me anything but scared, broken, and confused. Don't give credit to the abusers for me being a good person. They didn't make me good, I made myself good.

[beefstrugglenoff]

I love you dead punctuation marks.

[beefstrugglenoff]

[ferret-with-a-knife]

[posallys]

i'm literally begging people to relearn how to use earbuds and headphones. i don't wanna hear your fucking tiktok while im waiting for my flight.

[southbreak]

100% this.

[plagued-kin]

Traumagenic-only community blogs : a masterlist

For anyone who feels uncomfortable having to share community spaces with endogenic systems, a masterlist might useful.

If you know of other blogs, let us know and we'll had them to the list !

Culture

@pluralcultureis @polyfragcultureis @narccultureis

Community

@sys-polls @anti-endo-safe-space @system-hottakes @tales-from-systok @tales-from-sysblr @tales-from-syscord

Vent

@sys-confessions @antiendovents @system-vent

Positivity

@cdd-joy @positivitycombopack

Templates, userboxes and flags

@crows-templets @zero-templates @electricalstemplates @systemuserboxes @systemtermz @flagsandtags @hydra-creates

Resources

@atlas-duo

A very special thanks to @the-hydra-sys who helped us so much in making this masterlist.

[teaboot]

Please don't ask me for relationship advice unless you are prepared to receive some truly upsetting information because some people are ready for the "He's exhibiting the literal textbook signs of a psychological abuser and you need to get away from him before he successfully cuts you off from your support network" talk and some people aren't

[teaboot]

FOR WHOEVER NEEDS A REMINDER:

There is never any justification for someone putting their hands on you in any way without your consent short of immediate risk of harm or death.

If someone tells you that "the way I'm acting is your fault because you know that doing X thing would make me do it and you chose to do it anyway" is just fancy bullshit talk for, "I know my behaviour is wrong, but I don't want to be held responsible for it so I'm pushing it on you"

Nothing good ever, ever comes from someone who tells you, "I don't want you talking about our relationship with anyone". This person cannot handle accepting responsibility and processing criticism so they need you to never, ever question them. That's easier if they control the narrative and your friends aren't there to cut in.

Nothing constructive comes from screaming.

"It's not like that all the time" is optimistic and sweet, but the truth is, it shouldn't be like that at all. Sweet words and gifts and gestures don't erase being frightened for yourself or for your loved ones. That is not normal. Don't minimize it.

It is not healthy or normal to be genuinely afraid of saying "no" to someone, for any reason at all. Violence, outbursts, retaliation, anything. You should not have to be afraid of someone's reaction to your boundaries.

You are not responsible for saving anyone. Even if you love them. Even if they have nobody else. At the end of the day, if they want to hurt themselves in any way, they will, and you can't stop them forever. People need to want to improve before they can actually improve, and if they're threatening to harm themselves to keep you around, they're using your love to hold themselves hostage. You do not decide their choices for them, and they don't get to shunt that off on you.

There will always be other people who can love you better. You will not be alone forever. This will not be the last time you care for someone like this and it will not be the last time someone cares for you

[teaboot]

This applies to ALL relationships btw

[joygucci-deactivated20160123]

Reblog if you're black tumblr.

You don’t have to be black, it just means you support us, you stand by us and your for us.

[redheadsims-cc]

[remus-sanders-is-the-bestest]

BLM is still a thing. If you don’t reblog this, but would’ve in June/July you were only in support of black lives when it was a trend. They still need justice

[wheredidmybooksgo]

I stand by you, with you, and behind you.

[vivisection1013]

of course? my blog is a safe space for anyone who doesnt actively spread hate <3

[pink-devolve]

If you’re a domestic violence survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re an SA survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a CSA survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a child abuse survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a neglect survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a war survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a natural disaster survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a gun violence survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a cult survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re an organized abuse survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a torture survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a TTI survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a physical abuse survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a mental abuse survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

If you’re a survivor, I’m proud of you for surviving.

[thatdamenbywitch]

I was talking with my friends and one of them was like "how many times do yall shower?" and I was like heeere we go again.

so a few said everyday, the others every other day. and my answer was "two times a week, but most of the time only once"

and ofc they were all shocked like "ew what do you mean you don't shower every day wtf"

well, know my little guy that I am mentally! and! physically! disabled!!!

so I would want to see you as an autistic (with sensory issues) who experiences autistic inertia, meaning that you have issues starting and ending a task, plus you have pda! which means you sometimes procrastinate things you're supposed to do and feel obligated to do (like showering)

but you're not only autistic, you also have a physical disability that makes your little body tired and hurt every time you do something, and you sometimes pass out after you did something that cost a lot of physical effort, like for example, showering.

yup, we'll see then if you'd shower every day.

[murphmurphthejerk]

So I found Aaron Bushnell's reddit and went through his comments/posts. That young man was well read and stable as they can be. Nothing in his writings pointed to someone who was "unstable" or "brainwashed".

He held leftist and anarchist ideals. He belong to the ACAB subreddit. He recognized the evil of the US Military even though he himself was a part of it. He hated TERFS and called out fatphobia. He understood the dangers of white supremecy and the evils of capitalism.

He had a cat. He liked the show fleabag and played elden ring.

Apparently in his will he wants to leave any money in his name to palestinian relief funds. He was trying to find a new owner for his cat.

Rest in peace Aaron Bushnell. The world won't forget & we sure as fuck won't let the media paint you out to be some crazy conspiracy theorist who had no idea what he was doing.

[creature-wizard]

Folks have got to understand that they probably aren't messed up by some Secret Big Trauma that they just can't remember; but rather by a million tiny microtraumas that they do mostly remember but don't even register as traumatic because nobody actually understood that these things would cause trauma, much less stack on each other over the years.

[xpxssxm]

Whether you're carrying one big rock or a big ol' bucket of sand, it's going to weigh on you just as much.

[ramshacklefey]

This is why psychologists have started taking more of an interest in CPTSD in the last 10-15 years. What most people know as PTSD is a response to a single, intensely traumatic event (or even a series of events). However, CPTSD (chronic post-traumatic stress disorder) is caused by living for years in a situation where your nervous system cannot catch a break. Even if nothing huge ever happened to you, you always had to be on guard for a thousand little things that could and did happen.

After years and years of this, your nervous system gets "stuck" in an activated threat response. It never really lets you rest, and if this started when you were a kid, you may not develop a lot of neural pathways that you should have, because your brain was too focused on keeping you safe to bother with little things like "genuine human connection" and "interpersonal attachment."

[naamahdarling]

No lie, Complex PTSD/CPTSD is HUGE.

If you are disabled, if you are queer, if you are chronically ill, if you are the survivor of a toxic but not abusive relationship, if you grew up or lived under the threat of harm but no "actual" harm (or "very little" harm) was done, you may have CPTSD that isn't getting caught because CPTSD looks different from PTSD.

[eden-has-rotted]

"i respect trans people" do you?

do you respect trans people who look like their agab, whether they want to or not?

do you respect transfems with body/facial hair? transfems who don't wear makeup or dresses or skirts? transfems with low voices? transfems with short hair?

and do you respect transmascs who don't bind? transmascs who wear makeup or dresses or skirts? transmascs with high voices? transmascs with long hair?

do you respect trans people who don't "pass"?

[rockium-z]

[text ID:

#what about the ones that ones that dress weird? #or the ones that have weird pronouns? #or weird names for their genders? #do you respect intersex trans people?

end ID.]

tags from @klavierpanda

[identitysoups]

You know who y'all are.

[sapphirecherry]

love using (!) excessively, like yes!!! i am so very excited!!!! right now!!!!! i love you!!!!!!

[nativecrippunk]

Accomodate yourself, fuck them.

You prefer to use AAC than forcing yourself to talk use it.

You want to use your sensory gear in public or at home use it.

need to walk slower or use a mobility aid use it.

Want to take the elevator to reduce pain use it.

ACCOMODATE YOURSELF, fuck them.

[sunlightsystemsideblog]

Guess who just got diagnosed with Autism and combo ADHDDDDDDDDDD!