How to glow-up in 2023 & beyond
Psychology edition with tangible steps to upgrade your whole essence without altering your looks.
Study charisma - this is your card to be appealing, attractive, desired and respected regardless of your appearance, use it.
Stop begging for love. Be it romantic, your family or your friendships - you glow a different kind of radiance when you show people you're not desperate for their approval, attention or company. Always choose no company over shitty company. Validate from within, keep affirming that you approve of YOU.
Stop settling for good enough-people to share your time with. You deserve to spend your time with people who feel like a full-body-yes, those who have matching core values and enrich your life. This will result in you being naturally more radiant as you're able to live your authentic truth instead of holding back for keeping peace. Make space for fulfilling connections to arrive.
Stop fighting against the world. In a world that functions on offense, defense becomes the easiest way to survive. For you to access your ultimate power however, you need to thrive not just survive. Start noticing the alliances. In order to fight for what truly matters & change things within a community, you have to first fit in. There's multiple studies about this.
Realize you have the control to heal your life. Start taking accountability of where you are at life, especially mentally.
Face what you fear & sit with every layer of emotion. What you face can be erased, what you resist persists. The more ease and comfort you're able to accumulate, the more attractive you appear. This will set you free.
Shame is now canceled. When humans evolved & developed the fear of rejection, it served a vital purpose of survival because getting ostracized by your herd meant inevitable demise in the early ages. In our modern society, however, there will be multiple groups of people who adore you. Rejection by your core groups no longer mean anything other than an intense emotional reaction to save you from death that doesn't exist anymore. Remind yourself of this everyday when in doubt.
Love you girls 💋 xx the Dark Mother
