#dissonantheart

[pavementlicker98]

dissonantheart replied to your photo “sometimes im kinda cute”

do you mind if i reblog bc uhhh WOW

go for it :o

[perfumette]

re: that mean trans woman: i'm not sure what kind of "community" they're trying to build if they're telling people to do everything by themselves! sounds creepy as. i don't know what her reasons are for those ridiculous opinions but she doesn't get to decide who is or is not trans <3

thank you for your message

i don’t even know but they’re both of the medical mindset regarding transness (that it’s a medical condition) and they have a lot of archaic views regarding transness, so like......i don’t know. 

i think that she’s spiteful of me because i’m a younger trans woman and i’ve had it relatively easier than her/her partner. not to say that i haven’t had my fair share of hardships, but generally speaking, i’ve gone through less than they have. i realize this and i don’t try to ignore or erase it.

i’ve come to realize also that they both have some internalized transmisogyny going on and that, coupled with the spitefulness, is probably why i’ve gotten this rude treatment.

but yeah, she doesn’t get to decide that and i really appreciate your message a lot, thank you!