Every job I ever get, every class I ever took, and any other group Iâve been arbitrarily thrown into results the same. Iâm quiet and reserved because Iâm introverted and have social anxiety. The average person doesnât like these traits, and judges those who donât want to sit around and chit-chat all damn day while trying to do work.
Then, when it comes time for my evaluation, itâll note that Iâm ânot a team playerâ or that I wasnât âfriendly enough.â
So, in other words, âYou donât deserve a job because you donât know how to be casually trusting and open with people you barely know.â
âYou donât deserve a job because you didnât feel like wasting a bunch of energy pretending to care about what people did over the weekend or discussing other vapid topics, like celebrities or gossip.â










