why wizardliz really received a huge amount of hate due to her “scandal” | @fataleprophet
i call it “self perceived truth vs raw truth”.. to make this plain and simple.. the ONLY reason that happened to her and she received that amount of hate from being cheated on.. was simply because she was the standard.. the “exception”.. & people were happy to see that she was knocked of that pedestal and shown that their perceived truth “you can be pretty and still be cheated on like the rest of us and you are NOT the exception” being validated.. even in the most unfair & sick way..
liz looking the way she does.. and THEN making videos centered around confidence, self worth, boundries & discipline really held up a mirror to women who have a shot self esteem and worth.. and they basically thought her having the literal audacity of creating videos like that.. that an “average” women would cling to her words made her an easy target for small brained individuals.. to attack because how dare someone who looks like her.. and already the pick / exception of most women anyway create videos empowering others?
being an exception is already coded for her.. and women knew that men view women who look like her as the “exception” to those behaviors.. the second she got cheated on they were literally HAPPY bc they felt like she was humbled and was no longer “above” them in a sense.. or seen as the exception.. or the latter.. it’s why she got so many comments like “oh! see all men cheat” “doesn’t matter who you are they’ll cheat on you!” “you can be pretty and like liz but you’ll still be cheated on!”
i also thought about how people simply hated what liz stood for bc she pointed a mirror at people who had no form of self respect, boundaries, or discipline.. and they will let anything fly over their heads.. and still be kissing the ground that man walks on.. where’s liz spoke out about NOT doing that and having self respect ..
people gets so nasty and uncomfortable at the sight of truth .. and not their perceived truth but the REAL one.. because it holds up a giant mirror they cannot ignore.. like a giant elephant that cannot be looked over.. and they do not like that accountability or awareness.. so they HATE her for it..
but liz being the beauty standard and what men tend to steer for & also treat in the best way possible.. and grounds for rich men to be within her pool .. people hated her advice because to them it gave.. [popular, pretty girl, that every guy is obsessed with giving advice of “confidence” “self respect” “boundries”]
everything she stands for.. her IMAGE.. desirability.. IS the exception of more average women.. she’s more likely to marry rich, being spoiled just because she’s pretty and skinny.. have a bigger dating pool.. and popularity than the average… and they did not like that!
her getting cheated on was their reminder that all women get cheated on no matter their looks.. which is NOT true.. but it’s their perceived truth .. so with liz going through that.. though not her fault.. it pushed their own perceived truth back to the forefront lmao! and they were happy which is SICK but the norm.
if you genuinely believe that you will get cheated on no matter what then you WILL! and seeing other women being celebrated by their partners is real.. and not some facade.. that is YOUR truth and reality trying to plague someone else’s timeline.. no one who has genuine respect for themselves will allow and go through things like that and no it isn’t a normal experience for every women to just be cheated on by various men in any relationship.. that’s your reality & the type you tend to attract..
practice discernment to save yourself from things like that! being cheated on is NOT the norm and not the reality for many women.. don’t allow that to be normal behavior or something you expect right off the bat from someone.
