#kinkcourse

[the-singularitys-discourse-blog]

I’m sorry but most race-based kinks are racist like idk how to tell you this

[littlecourse]

So much of kink discourse ignores that it’s very fun pretending to be evil and that it’s also very fun to pretend to be subjected to fictional evil that you can opt out of at any time.

[transmanrageroom]

this is such a bad faith comparison because while i think mommy and daddy kinks are weird as fuck it's obvious that generally straight people doing that don't usually actually mean it in an incest roleplay way. and if it was just "calling each other sister while having sexual relationships" nobody would know about it! but people on here will write paragraph after paragraph about sexually abusing their little sister and then act like you're a bad person for finding it upsetting. it's very obviously a different thing entirely like come on.

[littlecourse]

I get ruffled whenever people mix up sexual trauma re-enactment and coping through kink.

Trauma reenactment is actively retraumatizing and makes your flashbacks worse, coping through kink helps you process and makes your flashbacks easier to deal with.

If you sexualize your trauma, you will most likely end up doing a mixture of these and it is your own personal responsibility to figure out how to move away from reenactment, both for your own safety and the safety of your partners.

It is not the place of strangers to tell people that they are doing trauma reenactment in the bedroom. Even if you are right, often times you are still shaming people for a trauma response without offering any real resources or replacement coping skills. At worst, you are actively contributing to their trauma

[transmanrageroom]

he/him, 20s, pre-everything trans man. this is my discourseposting blog

i will not argue with other people on this blog. this is more of an archive of posts i (mostly) agree with + a place to complain. if i see you in my notes arguing i'll block you but i don't really check my notes

do not follow list: i hate people who ship, sexualize, or support incest/pedophilia/rape ("proshippers" and "proparas" this means you), aro/ace/polyam exclusionists, transmeds, terfs radfems (incl. transradfems) and other assorted transphobes, "illegal illegal or unethical unethical" kinks, anyone with a public ed blog/twt acc/etc, and harry potter/marauders fans. do not follow me, you'll be blocked on sight.

also - if you have me blocked on my main blog, i'll softblock you, it feels weird to have ppl following me here if they don't want me interacting elsewhere

stuff abt me/my blog:

i tried to have a tag system but i gave up. sorry. i'm not great with tagging triggers on here either i'm trying to tag again yayy.. it will probably be inconsistent though sorry

sometimes i'll reblog a post that's a lot more hostile than i would prefer - just read them with like 50% less hostility if needed idc i can't clarify every single time

this is a sideblog so i cant follow back & usually dont follow blogs that are mainly discourse bc its stressful for me, but if we interact semi frequently we're mutuals in spirit

i'm really bad at answering dms/asks/whatever i'm sorry

[littlecourse]

If your take is reblogged by a bunch of TERFs, you should probably rethink said take

[littlecourse]

Side note: If you interact with me while having “endos dni” in your blog, you are breaking your own dni

Also I only do advanced syscourse on this blog. “Are endos real?” and similar topics have already been beat to death, and I have no meaningful contribution to make to those discussions.

I am much more interested in discussions about internal identities not lining up with the body’s and the potential problems that arise from it, as well as other niche topics relating to LGBT+ and kink discourse.

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(tags from teaboot)

# transfems afab and transmascs amab are fine

# lesboys and girltwinks are fine

[fiction-and-reality-are-complex]

Anyway, kink shamers will be blocked on sight. Consensual and safe kink and roleplay harms no one so kindly go away.