I hc trans!Jesper being a little less dysphoric w/ himself when Alva/Mogens are around being all affectionate. It’s actually therapeutic for him to have them respect his boundaries but also shower him in love. Cue pub buddies cuddle sessions + Jesper being sandwiched in the middle w/ a mug of tea.
Affectionate Pub Buddies is legit.
Jesper feels very little dysphoria around Alva and Mogens, because they Will Not Fail to remind him how handsome/cuddly he is, and neither hold back on the physical affection. He also in turn reminds Them how great/amazing they are.
They respect his limits. Postman likes himself some public smootches, but other forms of PDA is rare. Mogens probs smacked his behind once and never did it again once he saw the look Jesper made. Alva would like to educate her students on trans issues - but wouldn't dare unless she had Jesper's input.
It's a relationship of equlibrium.
A relationship consiting of 3 feral weirdos who happen to love the shit of out eachother.