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how'd you know that's my favorite
anyways
C - Crying (is it a turn on? a turn off? do they cry during sex? have they cried during sex? what was the reason?)
i mean i've happy cried or sometimes when it's like...really a whole lot it's something of a reflex? to be honest i'd make a horrible domme, i get very worried and it's so not in my nature to make people sad. even if it's a turn-on it's a constant struggle to kind of...do? that? i'd need a constant kind of reminder of consent and while morally good it would probably be a huge buzzkill
O - Outdoor sex (have they ever done it in public? would they? where?)
yes and yes, i love nature, i love little secrets, i love being somewhere i shouldn't or somewhere i can be seen-- more importantly somewhere open! open to the world! even if i'm not on display. if it's outside and if it's in nature...i can't explain it, but i feel so much more connected to life, y'know? it's a huge thrill and a massive yes. yes yes
W - Water (pool sex? bath / shower sex? are they into watersports at all?)
yeah sure! it's fine. pool sex and ocean sex are over-rated though, salt and chlorine....not fun! streams however-- waterfalls? rivers? yeah that's good. the last bit of that? nnnnno. not really, no. there's no harm in it i suppose so if it's with the right person but it's really gotta be like. someone going "i really want you to do this." it would do nothing for me
G - Group sex (would they have a threeway? four? an orgy? do they put on a show for spectators? or do they like to keep it just between them and their partner?)
i've done all of those in other lives. in this one? i've had a foursome at most. it was fun, just have to make sure there are no hurt feelings involved. i like putting on a show. i have a tendency to kind of...take control and show off a partner? if that makes sense? lean back all smug and cheerful while they're having the time of their lives. which, of course, i'm having fun too but it's almost like. "teehee look what i'm making them do." ...where was i going with this?
I - Impact play (here’s where talking about things like spanking, paddles, canes, floggers and the like.)
see: the crying bit. i mean light stuff is fine. it's cute. i'm very hardy so i suppose i wouldn't mind it. i think...maybe less of a "ehhh" than the crying stuff. clear safe words and i can take you on a fun ride
R - Routine (do they have a routine when it comes to picking up one night stands? do they have scheduled sex with their partner? are things spontaneous or planned ahead of time?)
always spontaneous, except on birthdays
L - Lighting (are the lights on? off? do they have some kind of mood lighting set up?)
i'm usually a lights off/dim person? i like a nice mood light. brighly lit up can be nice, it's all very environment dependent i feel
