dealing with queerphobia, racism, sexism, religious intolerance etc
guys I know that some people are just ignorant and not malicious and it will do us more good to educate them than to simply condemn them etc
But this is just a reminder to all y'all that IT'S NOT YOUR JOB TO BE A SPOKESPERSON FOR YOUR COMMUNITY ALL THE TIME.
You're a human being and you're allowed to exist. Just exist. You don't have to keep answering ignorant and/or offensive questions even if you know it would help the community.
That's not your responsibility.
If you want to and if you feel up to it, great! Go for it. But I know some of us are bloody tired, I sure as hell am. It's okay. Maybe do it when you want to, and chill when you don't.
Educating people about your community is not your responsibility I'll say it as many times as I have to. Don't spread misconceptions obviously but I mean don't feel obliged to answer invasive questions.
We deserve to live as human beings, not as a token posterchild diversity quota of our communities.










