If Your husband has asked You lock him in chastity, You may think he is asking you to do some sexually perverted, kinky, thing that You donât understand and donât want to understand because it is sick and perverted. The fact is, he is not sick and perverted, he just wants to have fun, sexually.
There was a time in Your marriage when sex was fun and exciting for You, too. Wasnât there? He just wants to get that back again. He is not asking You to do anything that is difficult, or perverted. He is asking You to play a game with him. A sexual game in which You control when and how he has sex. Thatâs all. So give it a chance. You may be surprised at how much fun You, Yourself, can have
Chastity is an amazing fetish. Most people think itâs some kind of punishment or chore, but it isnât. The feelings you receive from abstaining from orgasm are just sublime. Guys feel aroused right up until the point where they orgasm, then everything is reset to zero after orgasm theyâre no longer turned on and in order to become even remotely aroused they have to wait again for the feelings to kick in.
Well, what if they didnât orgasm. What if they didnât masturbate every evening? What if they abstained from orgasms altogether? Would the feelings of arousal increase and increase? Yes. Yes they would. Which is why chastity is an immensely popular fetish.
It is such an intimate act to show trust in his partner for a man to hand over the key to his âcrown jewelsâ and to allow him to be locked up, to await âHERâ pleasure. It is quite surprising that so many people have dabbled with the man wearing a chastity device, and they are the second most often bought sex toys after vibrators.
Chastity - A Joint Decision
For chastity to work well it has to be a joint decision. If youâre both eager to try chastity then the belt or device you choose should also appeal to your wife. Itâs no good you buying an expensive belt and she hates the sight of it.
Some women find the transparency of the CB-6000, CB-6000s or the Curve nicely displays the enslaved penis, many would-be keyholders like the quality and hygiene of a stainless steel device. Other women like the thought of the traditional Florentine style belts believing they are more secure.
Others initially prefer to go for something like the Stallion Guard as a low cost device to experiment with before deciding on a more secure belt or cage. There are keyholders who like to allow and see the penis fully erect whilst itâs encased, belts and devices most suited to this concept, known as âpenile negationâ, include the Samurai and Caterpillar cock cages from Mr S. Neither of these 2 devices can be considered long term wear, however, theyâre an ideal purchase as an additional chastity device to your collection, and allow your keyholder the opportunity to employ different techniques of teasing.
Some keyholders love these devices because they relish the sight of a fully erect, straining cock unable to escape.
Chastity and Masturbation
All men, given the ability, masturbate and way more often than most women think they do. This is something that is difficult for him to control and even more difficult to part with. Young men have an abundance of testosterone so masturbation doesnât seem to interfere with their pursuit of young women.
However, as men grow older masturbating usually translates into the husband ignoring his wife for at least a couple days. Chastity puts a stop to the masturbation and works in many ways; it changes his mood, demeanor and libido. Most importantly it changes his desire to please you. It is not the goal for him to do the cooking or the cleaning or the laundry but you will find that it will happen, not routinely but it will happen because as he continues to build up his sexual energy that he no longer has the ability to release as he pleases he will divert that energy towards pleasing you.
Your being the source of his sexual pleasure will change his feelings, he will adore you, love you in a way that you desire and he will be eager to please you because you are, as I said, the source of his release. He will find, over time, he is happier and that will be because youâre happier. He will love the emotional boost the two of you share.
This isnât as kinky as it sounds
If your sex life to date has been restricted to intercourse and perhaps mutual masturbation, chastity play can sound like something pretty weird. It isnât. Nothing has to change about how you make love; what changes is when. The partner who wears the chastity belt has given the partner who has the âkeyâ the ability to decide when sex can take place. Since most chastity devices effectively prevent masturbation, it means one partner gives the other control of all orgasms. This can be a great deal of fun for both people.
Chastity play allows you to take sex out of the bedroom in a subtle way that only the two of you will know. For example, if a woman has her male partner locked up, they can agree on ârulesâ he should follow, such as âhe must always stand when she enters the room.â If when they are out with friends he forgets, she can smile and hold some fingers up and he will know he stays locked up that many more days until he can get release.
If you donât think this is incredibly hot to both partners, just try it! You wonât believe how exciting a dull relationship can become overnight. Take a few minutes and use your imagination. Fun, huh?
Chastity devices have been used throughout the ages in order to prevent sexual intercourse. Classically, chastity has been forced upon someone using a belt type mechanic, but in recent times, more concealable and localized devices are able to be used in order to prevent the ability to touch and interact with sexual organs. In addition to the modern interpretation of how to perform chastity, a sexual fetish has developed. Individuals now enjoy the prospect of being locked up and unable to perform sexual activities unless the other person whoâs chastised them allows it.
Chastity and Confinement for Men
Chastity for men is the most common form, with blocks of specially formed plastic being placed around the penis with a small lock attached for keeping it closed. Some male chastity devices make it impossible or highly painful to experience an erection, aiding the experience of being denied sexual pleasure. One major element of chastity is the understanding that eventually, the device will be removed. The sexual fetish is undesirable if the wearer believes that they will never be allowed to experience an orgasm again. As expected, chastity is an exchange of a power dynamic, with one person assuming the role of being in charge and the other being submissive and completely subject to the will of the other person.
Male chastity is not just for men, nor is it just for women who want to control their men. Male chastity is for couples! Both the submissive male and his partner stand to gain from incorporating male chastity into the relationship. The relationship as a whole stands a great deal to gain as well.
Taking control of one small aspect of your relationship - The sex. By utilizing a chastity device, you are taking the first step toward controlling your partner. He may or may not be keen on the idea. If this is your idea, you may have to incorporate a little tease and denial to get what you wantâŚ.it will work.
If you can both agree to give male chastity a chance, then be realistic about it. Start out slow and easy. Donât plan on more than a month or even a week for a trial period. Remember, this is just a trial period. If you donât like it, donât get any enjoyment from it, donât see how it can improve your relationship, then you can always quit.
If youâre in a committed relationship, but you want to really turn up the heat in your sex play, then chastity could be the answer for you.
Many couples engage in chastity as a means of getting back the desire they felt in the early days of their relationship, when they couldnât wait to have sex, and it lasted for hours not minutes. A time when they were always on each otherâs mind.
Chastity is also a choice for many couples when the man has been unfaithful, or has been caught masturbating to internet porn. He may choose chastity as a way to demonstrate his commitment, reassure his partner, and enhance their relationship. This is a precious pledge for any man, and the thought of this alone can be incredibly arousing for both partners.
There is no doubt about it, chastity play results in superior sexual satisfaction! Trying to earn a release, the bottom will be much more attentive to his partnerâs needs. Without being distracted by his own selfish wants, his sole focus is pleasuring his Keyholder. He will demonstrate his ability and affection to his partner, going above and beyond in the hope of an ultimate âreleaseâ..
Remember; the couple that plays together stays together!
Chastity and relantionship
There is no one right way to practice chastity, but most agree that a man who practices chastity is expressing profound respect for their partner and women generally. Chastity is a challenge well worth undertaking because it can help lead to a transformation of a manâs relationship with his partner. Almost every account of a chastity regimen notes that the man becomes much more attentive to the needs of his partner, serving her better both sexually and in a myriad of other ways that are pleasing to her. The many religious traditions that use chastity/abstinence as a key element of their spiritual practice and service orientation are definitely onto something..
Primary benefits of enforced male
1. It prevents him from masturbating. Male masturbation is a filthy habit. Itâs addictive, selfish, and disrespectful to women. Chronic masturbation has the effect of substantially diminishing a manâs natural sexual desire for his wife of girlfriend. It unfortunately teaches him that his orgasm is primary, and hers is secondary.
2. Because he canât even get an erection without her permission, it instantly changes the dynamics of the relationship.
3. It keeps his sexual focus and energy on his wife or girlfriend.
4. It will substantially increase his desire to orally service his wife or girlfriend.
5. If heâs never been an ass-eater, after having his penis locked up for a few weeks, he will be.
6. It serves as a constant reminder to him of her authority.
7. Because it makes his orgasms entirely dependent on her generosity, it positively incentives him to honor her, respect her, and motivates him to please.
8. It gives him the time and opportunity to substantially improve and perfect his oral skills.
9. It reinforces the idea that pussy is a precious gift that must be earned, and is to be savored and appreciated on those rare occasions when he does get it.
10. It teaches him that sexual activity with his wife or girlfriend doesnât necessarily have anything to do with his penis.
11. It deepens his submission to her, and will cause him to worship the ground she walks on.
12. It will significantly improve his attitude, and make him more generous, caring, kind, respectful, and loving. It will help soften the sharper edges of his me-first masculinity. It will make him more of a listener than a talker.
13. It helps prepares him for the eventuality of anal penetration, and getting the strap-on. Because his penis isnât being sexually stimulated, it has the effect of gradually turning other parts of his body into erogenous zones, particularly his anus and his prostate. With patience and persistence, he can be trained to orgasm from stimulation in that region via your finger, or the strap-on.
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