Rabble, Rabble, Rabble, Rabble

Hi! I'm Move_Popcorn from Archieve of Our Own. Feel free to send me requests or just to chat! 

[themoviepopcorn]

Hey guys!

Hey guys. Sorry about being kinda inactive for a while. My life has been kinda hard for the past few weeks. 

My husband and I lost a child we were trying to adopt. The birth mother decided to give the baby to someone else. So that started off the heartbreak. 

Then after seeing a therapist and a psychiatrist for a while, I came out as trans. Which that was a huge shock even to myself, since I’ve sworn up and down for the past 27 years that I was definitely not trans and definitely male, but sometimes you need people to push you to realize things about yourself. 

I don’t know when I’ll be more active again. Just wanted to let you guys know what’s going on and let you know that I’m still alive. 

[themoviepopcorn]

Your Evanstan fics give me LIFE, really, you should see how ridiculously happy I get every time I see that you updated something lol Thanks for giving us this amazing stories, way to go! :D

Thank you so much! I’m so glad you like them :D 

[themoviepopcorn]

I'm absolutely in love with your Evanstan series on AO3. You're a gift from above. Just wondering, do you have kids of your own.

Thank you so much! :D Nope. No kids of my own. Just a silly kitten. I do have six younger siblings and a ton of nieces and nephews though. 

[themoviepopcorn]

Mpreg evanstan nipple play. Chris sneakily playing with Seb's nips throughout the day

I could try! I’m not the best at smut but I could give it a go. 

[themoviepopcorn]

Just dropping by to say I love your evanstan mpreg series, they're absolutely what the fandom needed <3 I especially like the lactation kink and wondered if you have any plans for a oneshot where chris gets really turned on when seeing sebastian breastfeed the twins XD

Thank you so much! Haha. I’m surprised that hasn’t been more mpreg with this couple! I would totally be down with writing that one shot. :D 

[themoviepopcorn]

What do you think about EvanStan doing a gender reveal cake when they find out about the twins? With the pregnancy being out of the norm just to begin with (twins instead of the typical singleton) - they could have some fun and do things differently. Maybe Chris and Seb wait and find out at the same time as their friends and family - like they had planned a big party for the reveal. Or they find out at the ultrasound but still do the cake for the boys and/or everyone else? #teampink ❤️

Love it! I was gonna have them have a gender reveal party. A cake would be too cute! It'll definitely happen :)

[themoviepopcorn]

I am now officially confusing myself.

I went to the gym yesterday and went to a class I haven’t been to in forever. I was chatting with some of my friends and a woman that I barely knew came up to me and asked if I was finally on estrogen. I was confused as hell and before I could say no, she told me the estrogen was really working and she could tell that I was developing breasts. 

1. I am not on estrogen and don’t ever plan on being on it 

2. I am not transgendered. 

3. I got drunk last night and obsessively reached breast implants. Now I kinda want them. 

4. Problem with number 3 is number 2.

[themoviepopcorn]

Hello! I read one of your works on the Archive of Our Own. She liked me, and I would like to translate it into Russian. Can I translate it and publish it? The job description will indicate that the author of the work is you, me - translator.

Sure! What work are you translating?

[themoviepopcorn]

Urgh!

So, in preparation of going to Mexico, I have started to diet and workout more. I’ve upped the miles I run a day. I’m eating nothing but healthy items. I am 5′7″. I used to weigh only 120 lbs. After moving to America I have gone up to 150 lbs. I weighed myself today. 152 lbs! I told my husband about it and was clearly upset. He proceeded to slap my ass and inform me that he liked that I have a booty. Then he asked if a wanted to go get burritos. 

No!!! No, I do not! Ugh! Husbands! 

[themoviepopcorn]

i love all of your fics theyre so sweet & nice & funny. i had a prompt for you to write on ao3 (you totally don't have to write this its just a suggestion) i was thinking of writing something where all the alpha sons are older like in their teens and are really really protective over sebastian like if another alpha stares at him too long they get really protective of their mama

Thank you! You have no idea how obsessed with this prompt I totally am! I am working on this right now. Totally in love!!!

[themoviepopcorn]

You are an amazing writer. I follow you on Ao3. I'm Raven1019 over there. I love all your stories. You husband sounds a lot like mine. He thinks he's the funniest guy in the world & the more you laugh at him the more it encourages him to keep going

Thank you so much! Haha! That is definitely my husband. He thinks he’s hilarious. He is the master of dad jokes. His jokes are so terrible that people are actually shocked he has no children. And if you laugh at any joke he tells, there is no stopping him. :P

[mimi953]

Lol. You just have to roll your eyes & walk away. My hubby thinks everything is funny. I had surgery not to long ago & before they wheeled me in he patted me on the head & said “ good luck. Dont die” if I wasn’t connected to an IV I would have slapped him

[themoviepopcorn]

Haha! That is horrible! I hope everything went okay with the surgery!

Sorry, this one is a bit crass. So I do drag on the weekends occasionally. I used to do it professionally, but stopped after I got my current job. I still do it when someone calls in and they need an immediate replacement. My husband likes to go with me when I do it to kinda protect me. We are in the south and sometimes people like to go after the club. Well one time I was getting dressed to perform and managed to cut myself BAD on my upper thigh. I didn’t realize it at the time and finished getting dressed in a white dress. My husband laughed hysterically when he saw me and screamed out. “Look! You finally got your first period!”

[mimi953]

Umm surgery went ok. I had some complications so had to spend some extra time in the hospital. Im actually having another minor procedure tomorrow to have a stent removed. Guess who I asked NOT to take me lol. OMG that is terrible & trust me it’s not crass at all. But I hope you were ok. That had to be so stressful before a show and your hubby is making jokes & your standing their bleeding. I think between the two of us we would have a million stories about the special men in our lives. Oh I love the south. We spent our honeymoon in Savanah GA & I would have stayed there forever if I could. We are from NY & I just loved the pace of Savanah & everyone is so much nicer in the south. Which is proved right here. You are so sweet to talk to all your readers. I hope your hubby knows what an amazing partner he has.

[themoviepopcorn]

I hope everything goes well tomorrow!

I was MAD at him but was mostly upset that I ruined my dress. I make all my clothes so all that effort was for nothing! 

I do have a million stories from that man and sounds like you do too. I like where we live. I have a wonderful family down here and for the most part people are nice. But there can be a lot of bigoted people down here. I’m an immigrant gay man who wears dresses and makeup, has long hair and is married to a black man. A lot of people REALLY don’t like me. 

Aww! You are so sweet! I would hope that anyone would talk to their readers. I love meeting new people even if it’s just online :)

[mimi953]

Aww thank you. That is really cool that you make your own clothes. I cant even sew on a button. Well I feel sorry for the people who don’t like you because they are missing out on knowing someone special. You are taking the time chatting with me, someone you dont know except for comments i have left on you stories and talking to you just flows. Most people arent like that. Some people just want to find something wrong with everyone if your not a cookie cutter of what they want and i am so not cookie cutter. So your a man who wears make up and dresses and has long hair. You are who you are and I bet you are stunning. You could probably teach me a thing or two. Like how to walk in heels lol

[themoviepopcorn]

Thank you so much :D I kinda had to learn how to make my own clothes. I have extremely expensive tastes but not the budget for it. I actually made my own wedding dress. Which definitely brought the stares but it had always been my dream to wear one! Hubby didn’t care and my family wasn’t at my wedding so whatever. My in laws have just learned to accept that I am “different”.

I like people that aren’t cookie cutter types :D It’s so much more fun to be around people that aren’t totally normal and predictable. And I really appreciate you talking to me. A lot of people hear my accent in real life and think I’m too stupid to hold a conversation. 

Haha. I do love my heels! Although I have been banned from buying any for the next three months. Apparently I buy too many… 

[mimi953]

You made your own dress that is awesome. Must have been gorgeous. Let people stare, all that mattered was the man waiting at the end of the aisle. When I got married the bridal shop forgot to order my gown so I had to get married in a dress I didn’t pick out or like. I looked like a snowball from hell. Some people are assholes. They like to judge people before they know them. You have an accent. So what. Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking. If it’s too personal that’s cool. I love heels too. I just can’t walk in them. I wore purple converse high tops under my wedding gown. My obsession is handbags. It drives my hubby crazy because he doesn’t understand why I need more then one. Hey your going to need new shoes for Mexico. Hubby might have to lift the ban.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is horrible! I would have been SO upset! But you are right, all that matters is the man at the end. 

I’m from the Republic of Georgia. It kinda surprised me after moving here how many people didn’t know that that is a country and not just a state. Haha. 

I love looking at handbags. I bought one but haven’t really been brave enough to buy more. It’s kinda funny. I have no problem buying heels but handbags is where I get scared. 

That’s how my husband feels about my shoes! He keeps telling me they are totally unnecessary but they totally are! I am absolutely buying more before Mexico even though I’m banned. He knows he can’t say too much. He has a problem with buying too many tools. We have so many his car can’t even fit in the garage. 

[mimi953]

I know right. It’s ok for them to collect things and take up space. My husband collects vinyl record albums, all heavy metal bands from the 70’s & 80’s & you know where he keeps them - in my closet. Oh & he never plays them. But he bitches about my bags. See and I get scared when buying shoes. I try them on 100 times in the store & constantly second guess myself but I love buying shoes for a vacation. You can get some really sexy shoes especially since you are going to Mexico and once he sees you looking so great he’ll forget all about the shoe ban. This is when i love shoe shopping because it boot season and i can get a more chunky heel so i cam walk in those. Plus it makes me look taller. Im only 5'2 so i need all the help i can get. Is the Republic of Georgia near Armenia?

[themoviepopcorn]

That would drive me crazy! I only let it go on in the garage as long as it’s just HIS car that doesn’t get to be parked in there and mine is fine. 

I can always excuse myself buying shoes. It’s just for my drag performance! I swear :D When I look at handbags I feel like everyone stares at me. You know, wondering why some guy is looking at them. Not that everyone always gets that I’m a guy at first. A lot of little kids have asked me if I’m a man or lady before. 

I love those super high heeled thigh highs. I am absolutely obsessed with them. I love boot season! :D And I already have my eye on a few shoes for our trip. It’s probably the first thing I did when I found out. I’m pretty short for a guy, I’m only 5′7″. Hubby is 6′4″ so I can wear as high of heels as I want! 

It is! We share a border with Armenia. 

[mimi953]

Now that we are looking for a house I told him that the basement will be all his. He can do whatever he wants down there are long as the rest of the house is mine :o) Gotta love kids. They are so honest. But you should be able to shop for what you want no matter what. OMG I love those thigh high boots I have a pair that I wear on special occasions if you know what I mean lol. That’s why I love the fall I get all my boots out. The rest of the year I wear flats but as soon as I get those boots on I feel sexier. Probably sounds weird. My husband is 5'7. For Italian guys that seems to be the normal height. Wow 6'4 that is tall. I would have to stand on a chair to talk to him. Woo hoo paying attention in high school paid off lol. I have a friend who is from Armenia. So I remembered something about Republic of Georgia. It looks so beautiful there. I’ve always wanted to visit Turkey and Armenia. I like to travel but the hubby is afraid to fly.

[themoviepopcorn]

Our basement was originally supposed to be for my husband, but I ended up turning it into a gym. Haha. He has an office and his half of the garage and that’s it. I turned the spare bedrooms into sewing rooms. 

I know I should be able to, but there’s still a fear. I’ve had quite a few bad experiences with stuff like this. Not everyone is really understanding about a guy who likes feminine stuff. 

Haha! Hubby definitely enjoys it when I wear it. While he thinks my heels are stupid, he does get very excited when they come on in the bedroom!  Heels are the best for making you feel sexy. I like to wear them, put on one of my husband’s shirts and do my makeup. Drives him crazy. 

My husband is just a giant. He has a brother even taller than him. It’s ridiculous. I feel so small next to him. I do sorta love it. 

I love to travel. I went to school in Germany and I love it when I get to visit there. I have no real intention to going back to Georgia or any country close to it. I can see how it can seem nice, but it was kinda rough growing up there. 

[mimi953]

Well I promised him the basement for now but who knows. All of the houses we look at have 3-4 bedrooms & we are hoping someday soon one of those rooms will be a nursery. We really want to start a family. That annoys me so much. people should just be able to live and not have to be worried but I understand what you mean. My cousin was gay. She wasn’t Trans but she dressed in men’s clothes, wore men’s cologne, her head was shaved. Most people thought she was a man and one night we went out and we went to use the ladies room and the attendant wouldn’t let her in. She had to show her drivers license to prove she was a women. I love to do that for my husband. Sadly none of his shirts would fit me. He is a small skinny guy and I’m big on top. But I’ll do my make up the way he likes it. But make up is not my friend. If I’m going out I never get it right but if I’m going to the supermarket I look like a supermodel lol. I love my husband but sometimes I wish he was tall and built. My husband doesn’t gain weight and he eats like a teenager. When hurricane Sandy hit us 4 years ago and every one was stocking up on food he bought a box of twinkies and some Gatorade and he was set. It must be so nice to travel like that and it seems your husband like to travel too. I’m hoping one day to get to Italy. I still have family there and it would be so nice to meet them in person. To be honest since 9/11 I have been afraid of flying and I used to travel alot. I never left the U.S. but I was always going somewhere. Even when we went on our honeymoon the flight to Savanah was about 2 hours I was scared and when we were flying home I started crying as we were landing.

[themoviepopcorn]

Sorry about running off! Hubby called me into the other room for an “emergency” which was that the movie he wanted to see was on so on we went :P I hope your surgery went well! 

Aww! That’s so sweet! I can’t wait until my husband and I have children. We have started the adoption process. So hopefully one day someone will pick us! We’ve always wanted a huge family. Hubby has three siblings and I have ten. 

It’s horrible what happens. No one has bugged me about going to the bathroom thank god. But I have been beaten. When I did drag, sometimes men wouldn’t get that I was a drag queen and not a woman so they would try to pick me up. One guy wouldn’t leave me alone once and kept groping me. He then felt that I was definitely not a woman and, well, I was very lucky that the bouncer spotted us. 

I LOVE makeup. My drag mother was a professional makeup artist and taught me all sorts of neat tricks. Like how to make a flat chest look like cleavage. I sometimes spend hours just sitting in front of the mirror and messing with my face. 

My husband eats us out of house and home. I have never seen a man eat as much as he does. Haha. He’s 6′4″ 300 lbs so I have to cook for a family of four to just feed us! Thankfully he’ll eat anything that I put in front of him. 

Aww! I swear flying isn’t that bad! I fly all the time. You should totally go to Italy. I’ve never been but the pictures are beautiful. It’s on our list to go. 

[mimi953]

Don’t you just love when they call you for an “emergency” & it’s not. My husband does it all the time. Drives me crazy. Especially when I’m at work & I get these weird random texts. My favorite is when he texts me at 9:30 in the morning & wants to know what I’m making for dinner. Oh thank you. Everything went well today. I just don’t like having to be put to sleep. My hubby & I are hoping to start a family soon. I have some fertility problems which are unexplainable at least that’s what the doctor said but I’m not giving up hope. Even if I’m blessed with one child I would be happy. You’ll have your family. Any child would be lucky to have you and your hubby already knows all the dad jokes. But good luck if you have a girl. He probably wont let her date till she’s 30. Wow 10 siblings. I only have 1 and she is 15 years younger then me. Oh God that is terrible. I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. It just isn’t right. No one should have to go thru something like that. It’s good that your hubby goes with you now when you perform. No one would dare to hurt you. I love makeup too I’ve just never been good at it. Like when I’m doing my eye makeup one side always comes out better and I can never get the other side right. Like I was trying to do the wings with the eyeliner. I watched about 20 YouTube videos and I finally tried it and one side came perfect and I spent an hour on the other one & just couldn’t do it & then I get frustrated. But that is great that she taught you all these tricks. It must make it a little easier. Hahaha. You are so lucky. My husband eats nothing except junk food. He has the diet of a toddler. I could give him Mac & cheese and chicken nuggets and he would be fine. It sucks for me because I love to cook. My dream was to go to culinary school but I didn’t get the chance so I try to cook as much as I can and I come from an Italian family so if 4 people are coming I’m cooking like it’s 20 lol. I’m cooking for Thanksgiving and it’s not even at my house this year. It must be amazing to get to travel so much. You must have seen some amazing things. One day I’ll get there. My cousin wants to plan a trip. She is in the Air Force and she was deployed back to the Middle East back in June so once her tour is over we want to go.

[themoviepopcorn]

I’m so glad things went well! 

I hope you get your family soon :) I can’t imagine having to deal with fertility problems. I’m sorry you have to go through that. 

The adoption process is rough. Especially since most organizations are religious and obviously hubby and I are excluded from those. And yes, hubby is totally the type to torture his future daughter’s boyfriend.

Yep! 10 siblings. 4 older brothers, 3 younger brothers, and 3 younger sisters. It’s kinda crazy to have so many siblings but it’s nice to always have someone around. That’s why I want a big family. 

Haha. Hubby knows if he doesn’t eat what I put in front of him then he has to get his own food. I enjoy cooking. I prefer baking though. Oh gosh! All of Thanksgiving sounds like a nightmare! I’m in charge of rolls and pies this year. There is so much family that it is crazy in the kitchen. I’m always so nervous every holiday. I’ve already made three pies today and I’m making the bread tomorrow morning. I’ve been scrubbing my house all day for it! My husband’s aunt is staying with us and she’s the type to criticize everything about my house. So I’m sure I’ll hear a lot of “well, if you just married a real woman *insert random thing* would be so much better” directed to my husband. Gah! I love my husband’s family but some members still kinda have problems with me. 

You should totally plan that trip! I’m sure you will have a blast! 

[mimi953]

I have to go back to the fertility doctor in a couple of months to see whats next. But of course my mother likes to remind me everyday that im not getting younger. Im 38 so i know my age is against me. I don’t know why these organizations have to make it so difficult. There are so many children out there that need homes and parents that love them and it shouldn’t matter if those parents are and man & a women or a man & man. All that counts is that child is going to be loved unconditionally. That is nice. I wish my parents had more kids. My sister is from my dad’s second marriage & I hardly get to see her. You sound like me. I must have at least 80 cookbooks & half of those are just for baking. Oh wow you are really working hard for this holiday. Your husband aunt sounds like a real piece of work. How long is she staying? Just forget her. Your husband loves you and you love him and that is really all that matters. It’s just drives me crazy that it’s almost 2017 & there is still so much hate and indifference in this world. People should be allowed to love who they want and raise families and that should be it. A perfect world.

[themoviepopcorn]

Good luck with the doctor!!

I haven’t seen my siblings in a few years. But I do talk to them on the phone as much as I can.

She’s kinda hard to deal with. She’s old and stuck in her ways. I was literally the first man my husband has been with so everyone had a hard time since I was unexpected. But I have a great relationship with 99% of them.

I stress bake so it works with the holiday. Hubby has currently banned me from the kitchen. I’m supposed to relax tonight.

[mimi953]

I get that. I haven’t seen my sister in a year and she only lives over a bridge. But she travels a lot. She rides & trains horses for a living and competes in jumping competitions so she is always working so basically we text each other alot and I keep up with her on Facebook and Instagram. But I’m really proud of her. That’s good. I know some times its tough with the in laws and family. Yeah me too. Whenever I’m having a bad day I bake. Well I hope you are listening to your hubby & relaxing. Tomorrow is a busy day.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is so cool! That sounds like such an interesting job! I have a boring office job now. What do you do if you don’t mind me asking?

My mother in law has basically adopted me. We have a great relationship since I can’t see my own.

I’m trying to but my cat is on a mission to get into everything tonight! She’s just a kitten so she kinda likes to push the limits. I’ve pulled her out of my plants about a million times tonight.

[mimi953]

I have a boring office job too. I work for a construction/maintenance company. It’s sucks and my boss is a dick. I’m not really fond of it but it’s a job. That’s awesome that you have such a great relationship with your mother in law. My mother in law didn’t really take the time to get to know me until we got engaged. Now it’s all good. Lol. They are so cute when they are that little. Watch out if you get a Christmas tree. When I brought my cat Paris home she got into everything and when we put up a tree she got inside the tree and managed to climb up the trunk and ended up by the star. We ended up putting the tree in a play pen so she couldn’t get near it.

[themoviepopcorn]

I work in the meat industry. It’s not ideal but it’s good money. Once we adopt I plan on staying at home.

My mother in law is great. My father in law just calls me his daughter in law. It helps him deal and it has allowed us to have a good relationship.

We are not doing a tree this year for that reason. She’s the sweetest cat on the world. She’s so social. She can’t handle being alone and always has to be near someone and touch them. She loves strangers. She’s my sweet little baby. :)

[mimi953]

Same here. Once I get pregnant im going to go part time and then stay home after the baby is born. I want to be a stay at home mom. I don’t want to miss all the babies firsts. We can’t wait to have kids. Some people think im nuts but we already picked out names. Whatever works but it’s nice that you can have a close relationship since your family is far away. Oh I love when they are all cuddly. She must be so happy when you get home. I got Paris as a birthday gift from my mom and she was so adorable. She was so tiny. She used to climb up on the bathroom counter and sleep in the sink.

[themoviepopcorn]

That’s why I want to stay home. My husband makes enough for us to be comfortable. I probably won’t get to name mine since I probably won’t get a newborn but if I can I have a ton of Georgian names I love!

Mine is a ridiculously cuddly. Sassy HAS to sleep with us. She gets really upset when she’s not with us. As soon as I get home she darts to me. Her obsession lately is climbing up my husbands back and sit on his head. She won’t do it to me though so it’s all good.

[mimi953]

Lol I didn’t know cats could fetch either until my mom taught her cat Charlie to do it. It’s so cute. I wanted to wish you and your husband a very Happy Thanksgiving and I also wanted to say thank you. You have been so sweet chatting with me and the other night I was so nervous about my procedure and just talking with you kept my mind off of it. You have such a kind heart & i look forward to more chats. Im still figuring out this site but i think im getting it i hope. I hope you have a great day with your family and I hope hubby’s aunt doesn’t give you a hard time & if she does just ignore her. Well back to cooking. The hubby is lurking in the kitchen and that is never a good thing :o)

[themoviepopcorn]

Her fetching has officially become a problem. She has decided we need to be up at 5am every morning to play fetch with her. Haha. I hope you had a great Thanksgiving! It’s so nice to talk to you :) And a lurking hubby is always a bad thing!

[themoviepopcorn]

You are an amazing writer. I follow you on Ao3. I'm Raven1019 over there. I love all your stories. You husband sounds a lot like mine. He thinks he's the funniest guy in the world & the more you laugh at him the more it encourages him to keep going

Thank you so much! Haha! That is definitely my husband. He thinks he’s hilarious. He is the master of dad jokes. His jokes are so terrible that people are actually shocked he has no children. And if you laugh at any joke he tells, there is no stopping him. :P

[mimi953]

Lol. You just have to roll your eyes & walk away. My hubby thinks everything is funny. I had surgery not to long ago & before they wheeled me in he patted me on the head & said “ good luck. Dont die” if I wasn’t connected to an IV I would have slapped him

[themoviepopcorn]

Haha! That is horrible! I hope everything went okay with the surgery!

Sorry, this one is a bit crass. So I do drag on the weekends occasionally. I used to do it professionally, but stopped after I got my current job. I still do it when someone calls in and they need an immediate replacement. My husband likes to go with me when I do it to kinda protect me. We are in the south and sometimes people like to go after the club. Well one time I was getting dressed to perform and managed to cut myself BAD on my upper thigh. I didn’t realize it at the time and finished getting dressed in a white dress. My husband laughed hysterically when he saw me and screamed out. “Look! You finally got your first period!”

[mimi953]

Umm surgery went ok. I had some complications so had to spend some extra time in the hospital. Im actually having another minor procedure tomorrow to have a stent removed. Guess who I asked NOT to take me lol. OMG that is terrible & trust me it’s not crass at all. But I hope you were ok. That had to be so stressful before a show and your hubby is making jokes & your standing their bleeding. I think between the two of us we would have a million stories about the special men in our lives. Oh I love the south. We spent our honeymoon in Savanah GA & I would have stayed there forever if I could. We are from NY & I just loved the pace of Savanah & everyone is so much nicer in the south. Which is proved right here. You are so sweet to talk to all your readers. I hope your hubby knows what an amazing partner he has.

[themoviepopcorn]

I hope everything goes well tomorrow!

I was MAD at him but was mostly upset that I ruined my dress. I make all my clothes so all that effort was for nothing! 

I do have a million stories from that man and sounds like you do too. I like where we live. I have a wonderful family down here and for the most part people are nice. But there can be a lot of bigoted people down here. I’m an immigrant gay man who wears dresses and makeup, has long hair and is married to a black man. A lot of people REALLY don’t like me. 

Aww! You are so sweet! I would hope that anyone would talk to their readers. I love meeting new people even if it’s just online :)

[mimi953]

Aww thank you. That is really cool that you make your own clothes. I cant even sew on a button. Well I feel sorry for the people who don’t like you because they are missing out on knowing someone special. You are taking the time chatting with me, someone you dont know except for comments i have left on you stories and talking to you just flows. Most people arent like that. Some people just want to find something wrong with everyone if your not a cookie cutter of what they want and i am so not cookie cutter. So your a man who wears make up and dresses and has long hair. You are who you are and I bet you are stunning. You could probably teach me a thing or two. Like how to walk in heels lol

[themoviepopcorn]

Thank you so much :D I kinda had to learn how to make my own clothes. I have extremely expensive tastes but not the budget for it. I actually made my own wedding dress. Which definitely brought the stares but it had always been my dream to wear one! Hubby didn’t care and my family wasn’t at my wedding so whatever. My in laws have just learned to accept that I am “different”.

I like people that aren’t cookie cutter types :D It’s so much more fun to be around people that aren’t totally normal and predictable. And I really appreciate you talking to me. A lot of people hear my accent in real life and think I’m too stupid to hold a conversation. 

Haha. I do love my heels! Although I have been banned from buying any for the next three months. Apparently I buy too many… 

[mimi953]

You made your own dress that is awesome. Must have been gorgeous. Let people stare, all that mattered was the man waiting at the end of the aisle. When I got married the bridal shop forgot to order my gown so I had to get married in a dress I didn’t pick out or like. I looked like a snowball from hell. Some people are assholes. They like to judge people before they know them. You have an accent. So what. Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking. If it’s too personal that’s cool. I love heels too. I just can’t walk in them. I wore purple converse high tops under my wedding gown. My obsession is handbags. It drives my hubby crazy because he doesn’t understand why I need more then one. Hey your going to need new shoes for Mexico. Hubby might have to lift the ban.

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That is horrible! I would have been SO upset! But you are right, all that matters is the man at the end. 

I’m from the Republic of Georgia. It kinda surprised me after moving here how many people didn’t know that that is a country and not just a state. Haha. 

I love looking at handbags. I bought one but haven’t really been brave enough to buy more. It’s kinda funny. I have no problem buying heels but handbags is where I get scared. 

That’s how my husband feels about my shoes! He keeps telling me they are totally unnecessary but they totally are! I am absolutely buying more before Mexico even though I’m banned. He knows he can’t say too much. He has a problem with buying too many tools. We have so many his car can’t even fit in the garage. 

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I know right. It’s ok for them to collect things and take up space. My husband collects vinyl record albums, all heavy metal bands from the 70’s & 80’s & you know where he keeps them - in my closet. Oh & he never plays them. But he bitches about my bags. See and I get scared when buying shoes. I try them on 100 times in the store & constantly second guess myself but I love buying shoes for a vacation. You can get some really sexy shoes especially since you are going to Mexico and once he sees you looking so great he’ll forget all about the shoe ban. This is when i love shoe shopping because it boot season and i can get a more chunky heel so i cam walk in those. Plus it makes me look taller. Im only 5'2 so i need all the help i can get. Is the Republic of Georgia near Armenia?

[themoviepopcorn]

That would drive me crazy! I only let it go on in the garage as long as it’s just HIS car that doesn’t get to be parked in there and mine is fine. 

I can always excuse myself buying shoes. It’s just for my drag performance! I swear :D When I look at handbags I feel like everyone stares at me. You know, wondering why some guy is looking at them. Not that everyone always gets that I’m a guy at first. A lot of little kids have asked me if I’m a man or lady before. 

I love those super high heeled thigh highs. I am absolutely obsessed with them. I love boot season! :D And I already have my eye on a few shoes for our trip. It’s probably the first thing I did when I found out. I’m pretty short for a guy, I’m only 5′7″. Hubby is 6′4″ so I can wear as high of heels as I want! 

It is! We share a border with Armenia. 

[mimi953]

Now that we are looking for a house I told him that the basement will be all his. He can do whatever he wants down there are long as the rest of the house is mine :o) Gotta love kids. They are so honest. But you should be able to shop for what you want no matter what. OMG I love those thigh high boots I have a pair that I wear on special occasions if you know what I mean lol. That’s why I love the fall I get all my boots out. The rest of the year I wear flats but as soon as I get those boots on I feel sexier. Probably sounds weird. My husband is 5'7. For Italian guys that seems to be the normal height. Wow 6'4 that is tall. I would have to stand on a chair to talk to him. Woo hoo paying attention in high school paid off lol. I have a friend who is from Armenia. So I remembered something about Republic of Georgia. It looks so beautiful there. I’ve always wanted to visit Turkey and Armenia. I like to travel but the hubby is afraid to fly.

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Our basement was originally supposed to be for my husband, but I ended up turning it into a gym. Haha. He has an office and his half of the garage and that’s it. I turned the spare bedrooms into sewing rooms. 

I know I should be able to, but there’s still a fear. I’ve had quite a few bad experiences with stuff like this. Not everyone is really understanding about a guy who likes feminine stuff. 

Haha! Hubby definitely enjoys it when I wear it. While he thinks my heels are stupid, he does get very excited when they come on in the bedroom!  Heels are the best for making you feel sexy. I like to wear them, put on one of my husband’s shirts and do my makeup. Drives him crazy. 

My husband is just a giant. He has a brother even taller than him. It’s ridiculous. I feel so small next to him. I do sorta love it. 

I love to travel. I went to school in Germany and I love it when I get to visit there. I have no real intention to going back to Georgia or any country close to it. I can see how it can seem nice, but it was kinda rough growing up there. 

[mimi953]

Well I promised him the basement for now but who knows. All of the houses we look at have 3-4 bedrooms & we are hoping someday soon one of those rooms will be a nursery. We really want to start a family. That annoys me so much. people should just be able to live and not have to be worried but I understand what you mean. My cousin was gay. She wasn’t Trans but she dressed in men’s clothes, wore men’s cologne, her head was shaved. Most people thought she was a man and one night we went out and we went to use the ladies room and the attendant wouldn’t let her in. She had to show her drivers license to prove she was a women. I love to do that for my husband. Sadly none of his shirts would fit me. He is a small skinny guy and I’m big on top. But I’ll do my make up the way he likes it. But make up is not my friend. If I’m going out I never get it right but if I’m going to the supermarket I look like a supermodel lol. I love my husband but sometimes I wish he was tall and built. My husband doesn’t gain weight and he eats like a teenager. When hurricane Sandy hit us 4 years ago and every one was stocking up on food he bought a box of twinkies and some Gatorade and he was set. It must be so nice to travel like that and it seems your husband like to travel too. I’m hoping one day to get to Italy. I still have family there and it would be so nice to meet them in person. To be honest since 9/11 I have been afraid of flying and I used to travel alot. I never left the U.S. but I was always going somewhere. Even when we went on our honeymoon the flight to Savanah was about 2 hours I was scared and when we were flying home I started crying as we were landing.

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Sorry about running off! Hubby called me into the other room for an “emergency” which was that the movie he wanted to see was on so on we went :P I hope your surgery went well! 

Aww! That’s so sweet! I can’t wait until my husband and I have children. We have started the adoption process. So hopefully one day someone will pick us! We’ve always wanted a huge family. Hubby has three siblings and I have ten. 

It’s horrible what happens. No one has bugged me about going to the bathroom thank god. But I have been beaten. When I did drag, sometimes men wouldn’t get that I was a drag queen and not a woman so they would try to pick me up. One guy wouldn’t leave me alone once and kept groping me. He then felt that I was definitely not a woman and, well, I was very lucky that the bouncer spotted us. 

I LOVE makeup. My drag mother was a professional makeup artist and taught me all sorts of neat tricks. Like how to make a flat chest look like cleavage. I sometimes spend hours just sitting in front of the mirror and messing with my face. 

My husband eats us out of house and home. I have never seen a man eat as much as he does. Haha. He’s 6′4″ 300 lbs so I have to cook for a family of four to just feed us! Thankfully he’ll eat anything that I put in front of him. 

Aww! I swear flying isn’t that bad! I fly all the time. You should totally go to Italy. I’ve never been but the pictures are beautiful. It’s on our list to go. 

[mimi953]

Don’t you just love when they call you for an “emergency” & it’s not. My husband does it all the time. Drives me crazy. Especially when I’m at work & I get these weird random texts. My favorite is when he texts me at 9:30 in the morning & wants to know what I’m making for dinner. Oh thank you. Everything went well today. I just don’t like having to be put to sleep. My hubby & I are hoping to start a family soon. I have some fertility problems which are unexplainable at least that’s what the doctor said but I’m not giving up hope. Even if I’m blessed with one child I would be happy. You’ll have your family. Any child would be lucky to have you and your hubby already knows all the dad jokes. But good luck if you have a girl. He probably wont let her date till she’s 30. Wow 10 siblings. I only have 1 and she is 15 years younger then me. Oh God that is terrible. I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. It just isn’t right. No one should have to go thru something like that. It’s good that your hubby goes with you now when you perform. No one would dare to hurt you. I love makeup too I’ve just never been good at it. Like when I’m doing my eye makeup one side always comes out better and I can never get the other side right. Like I was trying to do the wings with the eyeliner. I watched about 20 YouTube videos and I finally tried it and one side came perfect and I spent an hour on the other one & just couldn’t do it & then I get frustrated. But that is great that she taught you all these tricks. It must make it a little easier. Hahaha. You are so lucky. My husband eats nothing except junk food. He has the diet of a toddler. I could give him Mac & cheese and chicken nuggets and he would be fine. It sucks for me because I love to cook. My dream was to go to culinary school but I didn’t get the chance so I try to cook as much as I can and I come from an Italian family so if 4 people are coming I’m cooking like it’s 20 lol. I’m cooking for Thanksgiving and it’s not even at my house this year. It must be amazing to get to travel so much. You must have seen some amazing things. One day I’ll get there. My cousin wants to plan a trip. She is in the Air Force and she was deployed back to the Middle East back in June so once her tour is over we want to go.

[themoviepopcorn]

I’m so glad things went well! 

I hope you get your family soon :) I can’t imagine having to deal with fertility problems. I’m sorry you have to go through that. 

The adoption process is rough. Especially since most organizations are religious and obviously hubby and I are excluded from those. And yes, hubby is totally the type to torture his future daughter’s boyfriend.

Yep! 10 siblings. 4 older brothers, 3 younger brothers, and 3 younger sisters. It’s kinda crazy to have so many siblings but it’s nice to always have someone around. That’s why I want a big family. 

Haha. Hubby knows if he doesn’t eat what I put in front of him then he has to get his own food. I enjoy cooking. I prefer baking though. Oh gosh! All of Thanksgiving sounds like a nightmare! I’m in charge of rolls and pies this year. There is so much family that it is crazy in the kitchen. I’m always so nervous every holiday. I’ve already made three pies today and I’m making the bread tomorrow morning. I’ve been scrubbing my house all day for it! My husband’s aunt is staying with us and she’s the type to criticize everything about my house. So I’m sure I’ll hear a lot of “well, if you just married a real woman *insert random thing* would be so much better” directed to my husband. Gah! I love my husband’s family but some members still kinda have problems with me. 

You should totally plan that trip! I’m sure you will have a blast! 

[mimi953]

I have to go back to the fertility doctor in a couple of months to see whats next. But of course my mother likes to remind me everyday that im not getting younger. Im 38 so i know my age is against me. I don’t know why these organizations have to make it so difficult. There are so many children out there that need homes and parents that love them and it shouldn’t matter if those parents are and man & a women or a man & man. All that counts is that child is going to be loved unconditionally. That is nice. I wish my parents had more kids. My sister is from my dad’s second marriage & I hardly get to see her. You sound like me. I must have at least 80 cookbooks & half of those are just for baking. Oh wow you are really working hard for this holiday. Your husband aunt sounds like a real piece of work. How long is she staying? Just forget her. Your husband loves you and you love him and that is really all that matters. It’s just drives me crazy that it’s almost 2017 & there is still so much hate and indifference in this world. People should be allowed to love who they want and raise families and that should be it. A perfect world.

[themoviepopcorn]

Good luck with the doctor!!

I haven’t seen my siblings in a few years. But I do talk to them on the phone as much as I can.

She’s kinda hard to deal with. She’s old and stuck in her ways. I was literally the first man my husband has been with so everyone had a hard time since I was unexpected. But I have a great relationship with 99% of them.

I stress bake so it works with the holiday. Hubby has currently banned me from the kitchen. I’m supposed to relax tonight.

[mimi953]

I get that. I haven’t seen my sister in a year and she only lives over a bridge. But she travels a lot. She rides & trains horses for a living and competes in jumping competitions so she is always working so basically we text each other alot and I keep up with her on Facebook and Instagram. But I’m really proud of her. That’s good. I know some times its tough with the in laws and family. Yeah me too. Whenever I’m having a bad day I bake. Well I hope you are listening to your hubby & relaxing. Tomorrow is a busy day.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is so cool! That sounds like such an interesting job! I have a boring office job now. What do you do if you don’t mind me asking?

My mother in law has basically adopted me. We have a great relationship since I can’t see my own.

I’m trying to but my cat is on a mission to get into everything tonight! She’s just a kitten so she kinda likes to push the limits. I’ve pulled her out of my plants about a million times tonight.

[mimi953]

I have a boring office job too. I work for a construction/maintenance company. It’s sucks and my boss is a dick. I’m not really fond of it but it’s a job. That’s awesome that you have such a great relationship with your mother in law. My mother in law didn’t really take the time to get to know me until we got engaged. Now it’s all good. Lol. They are so cute when they are that little. Watch out if you get a Christmas tree. When I brought my cat Paris home she got into everything and when we put up a tree she got inside the tree and managed to climb up the trunk and ended up by the star. We ended up putting the tree in a play pen so she couldn’t get near it.

[themoviepopcorn]

I work in the meat industry. It’s not ideal but it’s good money. Once we adopt I plan on staying at home.

My mother in law is great. My father in law just calls me his daughter in law. It helps him deal and it has allowed us to have a good relationship.

We are not doing a tree this year for that reason. She’s the sweetest cat on the world. She’s so social. She can’t handle being alone and always has to be near someone and touch them. She loves strangers. She’s my sweet little baby. :)

[mimi953]

Same here. Once I get pregnant im going to go part time and then stay home after the baby is born. I want to be a stay at home mom. I don’t want to miss all the babies firsts. We can’t wait to have kids. Some people think im nuts but we already picked out names. Whatever works but it’s nice that you can have a close relationship since your family is far away. Oh I love when they are all cuddly. She must be so happy when you get home. I got Paris as a birthday gift from my mom and she was so adorable. She was so tiny. She used to climb up on the bathroom counter and sleep in the sink.

[themoviepopcorn]

That's why I want to stay home. My husband makes enough for us to be comfortable. I probably won't get to name mine since I probably won't get a newborn but if I can I have a ton of Georgian names I love!

Mine is a ridiculously cuddly. Sassy HAS to sleep with us. She gets really upset when she's not with us. As soon as I get home she darts to me. Her obsession lately is climbing up my husbands back and sit on his head. She won't do it to me though so it's all good.

[themoviepopcorn]

You are an amazing writer. I follow you on Ao3. I'm Raven1019 over there. I love all your stories. You husband sounds a lot like mine. He thinks he's the funniest guy in the world & the more you laugh at him the more it encourages him to keep going

Thank you so much! Haha! That is definitely my husband. He thinks he’s hilarious. He is the master of dad jokes. His jokes are so terrible that people are actually shocked he has no children. And if you laugh at any joke he tells, there is no stopping him. :P

[mimi953]

Lol. You just have to roll your eyes & walk away. My hubby thinks everything is funny. I had surgery not to long ago & before they wheeled me in he patted me on the head & said “ good luck. Dont die” if I wasn’t connected to an IV I would have slapped him

[themoviepopcorn]

Haha! That is horrible! I hope everything went okay with the surgery!

Sorry, this one is a bit crass. So I do drag on the weekends occasionally. I used to do it professionally, but stopped after I got my current job. I still do it when someone calls in and they need an immediate replacement. My husband likes to go with me when I do it to kinda protect me. We are in the south and sometimes people like to go after the club. Well one time I was getting dressed to perform and managed to cut myself BAD on my upper thigh. I didn’t realize it at the time and finished getting dressed in a white dress. My husband laughed hysterically when he saw me and screamed out. “Look! You finally got your first period!”

[mimi953]

Umm surgery went ok. I had some complications so had to spend some extra time in the hospital. Im actually having another minor procedure tomorrow to have a stent removed. Guess who I asked NOT to take me lol. OMG that is terrible & trust me it’s not crass at all. But I hope you were ok. That had to be so stressful before a show and your hubby is making jokes & your standing their bleeding. I think between the two of us we would have a million stories about the special men in our lives. Oh I love the south. We spent our honeymoon in Savanah GA & I would have stayed there forever if I could. We are from NY & I just loved the pace of Savanah & everyone is so much nicer in the south. Which is proved right here. You are so sweet to talk to all your readers. I hope your hubby knows what an amazing partner he has.

[themoviepopcorn]

I hope everything goes well tomorrow!

I was MAD at him but was mostly upset that I ruined my dress. I make all my clothes so all that effort was for nothing! 

I do have a million stories from that man and sounds like you do too. I like where we live. I have a wonderful family down here and for the most part people are nice. But there can be a lot of bigoted people down here. I’m an immigrant gay man who wears dresses and makeup, has long hair and is married to a black man. A lot of people REALLY don’t like me. 

Aww! You are so sweet! I would hope that anyone would talk to their readers. I love meeting new people even if it’s just online :)

[mimi953]

Aww thank you. That is really cool that you make your own clothes. I cant even sew on a button. Well I feel sorry for the people who don’t like you because they are missing out on knowing someone special. You are taking the time chatting with me, someone you dont know except for comments i have left on you stories and talking to you just flows. Most people arent like that. Some people just want to find something wrong with everyone if your not a cookie cutter of what they want and i am so not cookie cutter. So your a man who wears make up and dresses and has long hair. You are who you are and I bet you are stunning. You could probably teach me a thing or two. Like how to walk in heels lol

[themoviepopcorn]

Thank you so much :D I kinda had to learn how to make my own clothes. I have extremely expensive tastes but not the budget for it. I actually made my own wedding dress. Which definitely brought the stares but it had always been my dream to wear one! Hubby didn’t care and my family wasn’t at my wedding so whatever. My in laws have just learned to accept that I am “different”.

I like people that aren’t cookie cutter types :D It’s so much more fun to be around people that aren’t totally normal and predictable. And I really appreciate you talking to me. A lot of people hear my accent in real life and think I’m too stupid to hold a conversation. 

Haha. I do love my heels! Although I have been banned from buying any for the next three months. Apparently I buy too many… 

[mimi953]

You made your own dress that is awesome. Must have been gorgeous. Let people stare, all that mattered was the man waiting at the end of the aisle. When I got married the bridal shop forgot to order my gown so I had to get married in a dress I didn’t pick out or like. I looked like a snowball from hell. Some people are assholes. They like to judge people before they know them. You have an accent. So what. Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking. If it’s too personal that’s cool. I love heels too. I just can’t walk in them. I wore purple converse high tops under my wedding gown. My obsession is handbags. It drives my hubby crazy because he doesn’t understand why I need more then one. Hey your going to need new shoes for Mexico. Hubby might have to lift the ban.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is horrible! I would have been SO upset! But you are right, all that matters is the man at the end. 

I’m from the Republic of Georgia. It kinda surprised me after moving here how many people didn’t know that that is a country and not just a state. Haha. 

I love looking at handbags. I bought one but haven’t really been brave enough to buy more. It’s kinda funny. I have no problem buying heels but handbags is where I get scared. 

That’s how my husband feels about my shoes! He keeps telling me they are totally unnecessary but they totally are! I am absolutely buying more before Mexico even though I’m banned. He knows he can’t say too much. He has a problem with buying too many tools. We have so many his car can’t even fit in the garage. 

[mimi953]

I know right. It’s ok for them to collect things and take up space. My husband collects vinyl record albums, all heavy metal bands from the 70’s & 80’s & you know where he keeps them - in my closet. Oh & he never plays them. But he bitches about my bags. See and I get scared when buying shoes. I try them on 100 times in the store & constantly second guess myself but I love buying shoes for a vacation. You can get some really sexy shoes especially since you are going to Mexico and once he sees you looking so great he’ll forget all about the shoe ban. This is when i love shoe shopping because it boot season and i can get a more chunky heel so i cam walk in those. Plus it makes me look taller. Im only 5'2 so i need all the help i can get. Is the Republic of Georgia near Armenia?

[themoviepopcorn]

That would drive me crazy! I only let it go on in the garage as long as it’s just HIS car that doesn’t get to be parked in there and mine is fine. 

I can always excuse myself buying shoes. It’s just for my drag performance! I swear :D When I look at handbags I feel like everyone stares at me. You know, wondering why some guy is looking at them. Not that everyone always gets that I’m a guy at first. A lot of little kids have asked me if I’m a man or lady before. 

I love those super high heeled thigh highs. I am absolutely obsessed with them. I love boot season! :D And I already have my eye on a few shoes for our trip. It’s probably the first thing I did when I found out. I’m pretty short for a guy, I’m only 5′7″. Hubby is 6′4″ so I can wear as high of heels as I want! 

It is! We share a border with Armenia. 

[mimi953]

Now that we are looking for a house I told him that the basement will be all his. He can do whatever he wants down there are long as the rest of the house is mine :o) Gotta love kids. They are so honest. But you should be able to shop for what you want no matter what. OMG I love those thigh high boots I have a pair that I wear on special occasions if you know what I mean lol. That’s why I love the fall I get all my boots out. The rest of the year I wear flats but as soon as I get those boots on I feel sexier. Probably sounds weird. My husband is 5'7. For Italian guys that seems to be the normal height. Wow 6'4 that is tall. I would have to stand on a chair to talk to him. Woo hoo paying attention in high school paid off lol. I have a friend who is from Armenia. So I remembered something about Republic of Georgia. It looks so beautiful there. I’ve always wanted to visit Turkey and Armenia. I like to travel but the hubby is afraid to fly.

[themoviepopcorn]

Our basement was originally supposed to be for my husband, but I ended up turning it into a gym. Haha. He has an office and his half of the garage and that’s it. I turned the spare bedrooms into sewing rooms. 

I know I should be able to, but there’s still a fear. I’ve had quite a few bad experiences with stuff like this. Not everyone is really understanding about a guy who likes feminine stuff. 

Haha! Hubby definitely enjoys it when I wear it. While he thinks my heels are stupid, he does get very excited when they come on in the bedroom!  Heels are the best for making you feel sexy. I like to wear them, put on one of my husband’s shirts and do my makeup. Drives him crazy. 

My husband is just a giant. He has a brother even taller than him. It’s ridiculous. I feel so small next to him. I do sorta love it. 

I love to travel. I went to school in Germany and I love it when I get to visit there. I have no real intention to going back to Georgia or any country close to it. I can see how it can seem nice, but it was kinda rough growing up there. 

[mimi953]

Well I promised him the basement for now but who knows. All of the houses we look at have 3-4 bedrooms & we are hoping someday soon one of those rooms will be a nursery. We really want to start a family. That annoys me so much. people should just be able to live and not have to be worried but I understand what you mean. My cousin was gay. She wasn’t Trans but she dressed in men’s clothes, wore men’s cologne, her head was shaved. Most people thought she was a man and one night we went out and we went to use the ladies room and the attendant wouldn’t let her in. She had to show her drivers license to prove she was a women. I love to do that for my husband. Sadly none of his shirts would fit me. He is a small skinny guy and I’m big on top. But I’ll do my make up the way he likes it. But make up is not my friend. If I’m going out I never get it right but if I’m going to the supermarket I look like a supermodel lol. I love my husband but sometimes I wish he was tall and built. My husband doesn’t gain weight and he eats like a teenager. When hurricane Sandy hit us 4 years ago and every one was stocking up on food he bought a box of twinkies and some Gatorade and he was set. It must be so nice to travel like that and it seems your husband like to travel too. I’m hoping one day to get to Italy. I still have family there and it would be so nice to meet them in person. To be honest since 9/11 I have been afraid of flying and I used to travel alot. I never left the U.S. but I was always going somewhere. Even when we went on our honeymoon the flight to Savanah was about 2 hours I was scared and when we were flying home I started crying as we were landing.

[themoviepopcorn]

Sorry about running off! Hubby called me into the other room for an “emergency” which was that the movie he wanted to see was on so on we went :P I hope your surgery went well! 

Aww! That’s so sweet! I can’t wait until my husband and I have children. We have started the adoption process. So hopefully one day someone will pick us! We’ve always wanted a huge family. Hubby has three siblings and I have ten. 

It’s horrible what happens. No one has bugged me about going to the bathroom thank god. But I have been beaten. When I did drag, sometimes men wouldn’t get that I was a drag queen and not a woman so they would try to pick me up. One guy wouldn’t leave me alone once and kept groping me. He then felt that I was definitely not a woman and, well, I was very lucky that the bouncer spotted us. 

I LOVE makeup. My drag mother was a professional makeup artist and taught me all sorts of neat tricks. Like how to make a flat chest look like cleavage. I sometimes spend hours just sitting in front of the mirror and messing with my face. 

My husband eats us out of house and home. I have never seen a man eat as much as he does. Haha. He’s 6′4″ 300 lbs so I have to cook for a family of four to just feed us! Thankfully he’ll eat anything that I put in front of him. 

Aww! I swear flying isn’t that bad! I fly all the time. You should totally go to Italy. I’ve never been but the pictures are beautiful. It’s on our list to go. 

[mimi953]

Don’t you just love when they call you for an “emergency” & it’s not. My husband does it all the time. Drives me crazy. Especially when I’m at work & I get these weird random texts. My favorite is when he texts me at 9:30 in the morning & wants to know what I’m making for dinner. Oh thank you. Everything went well today. I just don’t like having to be put to sleep. My hubby & I are hoping to start a family soon. I have some fertility problems which are unexplainable at least that’s what the doctor said but I’m not giving up hope. Even if I’m blessed with one child I would be happy. You’ll have your family. Any child would be lucky to have you and your hubby already knows all the dad jokes. But good luck if you have a girl. He probably wont let her date till she’s 30. Wow 10 siblings. I only have 1 and she is 15 years younger then me. Oh God that is terrible. I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. It just isn’t right. No one should have to go thru something like that. It’s good that your hubby goes with you now when you perform. No one would dare to hurt you. I love makeup too I’ve just never been good at it. Like when I’m doing my eye makeup one side always comes out better and I can never get the other side right. Like I was trying to do the wings with the eyeliner. I watched about 20 YouTube videos and I finally tried it and one side came perfect and I spent an hour on the other one & just couldn’t do it & then I get frustrated. But that is great that she taught you all these tricks. It must make it a little easier. Hahaha. You are so lucky. My husband eats nothing except junk food. He has the diet of a toddler. I could give him Mac & cheese and chicken nuggets and he would be fine. It sucks for me because I love to cook. My dream was to go to culinary school but I didn’t get the chance so I try to cook as much as I can and I come from an Italian family so if 4 people are coming I’m cooking like it’s 20 lol. I’m cooking for Thanksgiving and it’s not even at my house this year. It must be amazing to get to travel so much. You must have seen some amazing things. One day I’ll get there. My cousin wants to plan a trip. She is in the Air Force and she was deployed back to the Middle East back in June so once her tour is over we want to go.

[themoviepopcorn]

I’m so glad things went well! 

I hope you get your family soon :) I can’t imagine having to deal with fertility problems. I’m sorry you have to go through that. 

The adoption process is rough. Especially since most organizations are religious and obviously hubby and I are excluded from those. And yes, hubby is totally the type to torture his future daughter’s boyfriend.

Yep! 10 siblings. 4 older brothers, 3 younger brothers, and 3 younger sisters. It’s kinda crazy to have so many siblings but it’s nice to always have someone around. That’s why I want a big family. 

Haha. Hubby knows if he doesn’t eat what I put in front of him then he has to get his own food. I enjoy cooking. I prefer baking though. Oh gosh! All of Thanksgiving sounds like a nightmare! I’m in charge of rolls and pies this year. There is so much family that it is crazy in the kitchen. I’m always so nervous every holiday. I’ve already made three pies today and I’m making the bread tomorrow morning. I’ve been scrubbing my house all day for it! My husband’s aunt is staying with us and she’s the type to criticize everything about my house. So I’m sure I’ll hear a lot of “well, if you just married a real woman *insert random thing* would be so much better” directed to my husband. Gah! I love my husband’s family but some members still kinda have problems with me. 

You should totally plan that trip! I’m sure you will have a blast! 

[mimi953]

I have to go back to the fertility doctor in a couple of months to see whats next. But of course my mother likes to remind me everyday that im not getting younger. Im 38 so i know my age is against me. I don’t know why these organizations have to make it so difficult. There are so many children out there that need homes and parents that love them and it shouldn’t matter if those parents are and man & a women or a man & man. All that counts is that child is going to be loved unconditionally. That is nice. I wish my parents had more kids. My sister is from my dad’s second marriage & I hardly get to see her. You sound like me. I must have at least 80 cookbooks & half of those are just for baking. Oh wow you are really working hard for this holiday. Your husband aunt sounds like a real piece of work. How long is she staying? Just forget her. Your husband loves you and you love him and that is really all that matters. It’s just drives me crazy that it’s almost 2017 & there is still so much hate and indifference in this world. People should be allowed to love who they want and raise families and that should be it. A perfect world.

[themoviepopcorn]

Good luck with the doctor!!

I haven’t seen my siblings in a few years. But I do talk to them on the phone as much as I can.

She’s kinda hard to deal with. She’s old and stuck in her ways. I was literally the first man my husband has been with so everyone had a hard time since I was unexpected. But I have a great relationship with 99% of them.

I stress bake so it works with the holiday. Hubby has currently banned me from the kitchen. I’m supposed to relax tonight.

[mimi953]

I get that. I haven’t seen my sister in a year and she only lives over a bridge. But she travels a lot. She rides & trains horses for a living and competes in jumping competitions so she is always working so basically we text each other alot and I keep up with her on Facebook and Instagram. But I’m really proud of her. That’s good. I know some times its tough with the in laws and family. Yeah me too. Whenever I’m having a bad day I bake. Well I hope you are listening to your hubby & relaxing. Tomorrow is a busy day.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is so cool! That sounds like such an interesting job! I have a boring office job now. What do you do if you don’t mind me asking?

My mother in law has basically adopted me. We have a great relationship since I can’t see my own.

I’m trying to but my cat is on a mission to get into everything tonight! She’s just a kitten so she kinda likes to push the limits. I’ve pulled her out of my plants about a million times tonight.

[mimi953]

I have a boring office job too. I work for a construction/maintenance company. It’s sucks and my boss is a dick. I’m not really fond of it but it’s a job. That’s awesome that you have such a great relationship with your mother in law. My mother in law didn’t really take the time to get to know me until we got engaged. Now it’s all good. Lol. They are so cute when they are that little. Watch out if you get a Christmas tree. When I brought my cat Paris home she got into everything and when we put up a tree she got inside the tree and managed to climb up the trunk and ended up by the star. We ended up putting the tree in a play pen so she couldn’t get near it.

[themoviepopcorn]

I work in the meat industry. It's not ideal but it's good money. Once we adopt I plan on staying at home.

My mother in law is great. My father in law just calls me his daughter in law. It helps him deal and it has allowed us to have a good relationship.

We are not doing a tree this year for that reason. She's the sweetest cat on the world. She's so social. She can't handle being alone and always has to be near someone and touch them. She loves strangers. She's my sweet little baby. :)

[themoviepopcorn]

You are an amazing writer. I follow you on Ao3. I'm Raven1019 over there. I love all your stories. You husband sounds a lot like mine. He thinks he's the funniest guy in the world & the more you laugh at him the more it encourages him to keep going

Thank you so much! Haha! That is definitely my husband. He thinks he’s hilarious. He is the master of dad jokes. His jokes are so terrible that people are actually shocked he has no children. And if you laugh at any joke he tells, there is no stopping him. :P

[mimi953]

Lol. You just have to roll your eyes & walk away. My hubby thinks everything is funny. I had surgery not to long ago & before they wheeled me in he patted me on the head & said “ good luck. Dont die” if I wasn’t connected to an IV I would have slapped him

[themoviepopcorn]

Haha! That is horrible! I hope everything went okay with the surgery!

Sorry, this one is a bit crass. So I do drag on the weekends occasionally. I used to do it professionally, but stopped after I got my current job. I still do it when someone calls in and they need an immediate replacement. My husband likes to go with me when I do it to kinda protect me. We are in the south and sometimes people like to go after the club. Well one time I was getting dressed to perform and managed to cut myself BAD on my upper thigh. I didn’t realize it at the time and finished getting dressed in a white dress. My husband laughed hysterically when he saw me and screamed out. “Look! You finally got your first period!”

[mimi953]

Umm surgery went ok. I had some complications so had to spend some extra time in the hospital. Im actually having another minor procedure tomorrow to have a stent removed. Guess who I asked NOT to take me lol. OMG that is terrible & trust me it’s not crass at all. But I hope you were ok. That had to be so stressful before a show and your hubby is making jokes & your standing their bleeding. I think between the two of us we would have a million stories about the special men in our lives. Oh I love the south. We spent our honeymoon in Savanah GA & I would have stayed there forever if I could. We are from NY & I just loved the pace of Savanah & everyone is so much nicer in the south. Which is proved right here. You are so sweet to talk to all your readers. I hope your hubby knows what an amazing partner he has.

[themoviepopcorn]

I hope everything goes well tomorrow!

I was MAD at him but was mostly upset that I ruined my dress. I make all my clothes so all that effort was for nothing! 

I do have a million stories from that man and sounds like you do too. I like where we live. I have a wonderful family down here and for the most part people are nice. But there can be a lot of bigoted people down here. I’m an immigrant gay man who wears dresses and makeup, has long hair and is married to a black man. A lot of people REALLY don’t like me. 

Aww! You are so sweet! I would hope that anyone would talk to their readers. I love meeting new people even if it’s just online :)

[mimi953]

Aww thank you. That is really cool that you make your own clothes. I cant even sew on a button. Well I feel sorry for the people who don’t like you because they are missing out on knowing someone special. You are taking the time chatting with me, someone you dont know except for comments i have left on you stories and talking to you just flows. Most people arent like that. Some people just want to find something wrong with everyone if your not a cookie cutter of what they want and i am so not cookie cutter. So your a man who wears make up and dresses and has long hair. You are who you are and I bet you are stunning. You could probably teach me a thing or two. Like how to walk in heels lol

[themoviepopcorn]

Thank you so much :D I kinda had to learn how to make my own clothes. I have extremely expensive tastes but not the budget for it. I actually made my own wedding dress. Which definitely brought the stares but it had always been my dream to wear one! Hubby didn’t care and my family wasn’t at my wedding so whatever. My in laws have just learned to accept that I am “different”.

I like people that aren’t cookie cutter types :D It’s so much more fun to be around people that aren’t totally normal and predictable. And I really appreciate you talking to me. A lot of people hear my accent in real life and think I’m too stupid to hold a conversation. 

Haha. I do love my heels! Although I have been banned from buying any for the next three months. Apparently I buy too many… 

[mimi953]

You made your own dress that is awesome. Must have been gorgeous. Let people stare, all that mattered was the man waiting at the end of the aisle. When I got married the bridal shop forgot to order my gown so I had to get married in a dress I didn’t pick out or like. I looked like a snowball from hell. Some people are assholes. They like to judge people before they know them. You have an accent. So what. Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking. If it’s too personal that’s cool. I love heels too. I just can’t walk in them. I wore purple converse high tops under my wedding gown. My obsession is handbags. It drives my hubby crazy because he doesn’t understand why I need more then one. Hey your going to need new shoes for Mexico. Hubby might have to lift the ban.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is horrible! I would have been SO upset! But you are right, all that matters is the man at the end. 

I’m from the Republic of Georgia. It kinda surprised me after moving here how many people didn’t know that that is a country and not just a state. Haha. 

I love looking at handbags. I bought one but haven’t really been brave enough to buy more. It’s kinda funny. I have no problem buying heels but handbags is where I get scared. 

That’s how my husband feels about my shoes! He keeps telling me they are totally unnecessary but they totally are! I am absolutely buying more before Mexico even though I’m banned. He knows he can’t say too much. He has a problem with buying too many tools. We have so many his car can’t even fit in the garage. 

[mimi953]

I know right. It’s ok for them to collect things and take up space. My husband collects vinyl record albums, all heavy metal bands from the 70’s & 80’s & you know where he keeps them - in my closet. Oh & he never plays them. But he bitches about my bags. See and I get scared when buying shoes. I try them on 100 times in the store & constantly second guess myself but I love buying shoes for a vacation. You can get some really sexy shoes especially since you are going to Mexico and once he sees you looking so great he’ll forget all about the shoe ban. This is when i love shoe shopping because it boot season and i can get a more chunky heel so i cam walk in those. Plus it makes me look taller. Im only 5'2 so i need all the help i can get. Is the Republic of Georgia near Armenia?

[themoviepopcorn]

That would drive me crazy! I only let it go on in the garage as long as it’s just HIS car that doesn’t get to be parked in there and mine is fine. 

I can always excuse myself buying shoes. It’s just for my drag performance! I swear :D When I look at handbags I feel like everyone stares at me. You know, wondering why some guy is looking at them. Not that everyone always gets that I’m a guy at first. A lot of little kids have asked me if I’m a man or lady before. 

I love those super high heeled thigh highs. I am absolutely obsessed with them. I love boot season! :D And I already have my eye on a few shoes for our trip. It’s probably the first thing I did when I found out. I’m pretty short for a guy, I’m only 5′7″. Hubby is 6′4″ so I can wear as high of heels as I want! 

It is! We share a border with Armenia. 

[mimi953]

Now that we are looking for a house I told him that the basement will be all his. He can do whatever he wants down there are long as the rest of the house is mine :o) Gotta love kids. They are so honest. But you should be able to shop for what you want no matter what. OMG I love those thigh high boots I have a pair that I wear on special occasions if you know what I mean lol. That’s why I love the fall I get all my boots out. The rest of the year I wear flats but as soon as I get those boots on I feel sexier. Probably sounds weird. My husband is 5'7. For Italian guys that seems to be the normal height. Wow 6'4 that is tall. I would have to stand on a chair to talk to him. Woo hoo paying attention in high school paid off lol. I have a friend who is from Armenia. So I remembered something about Republic of Georgia. It looks so beautiful there. I’ve always wanted to visit Turkey and Armenia. I like to travel but the hubby is afraid to fly.

[themoviepopcorn]

Our basement was originally supposed to be for my husband, but I ended up turning it into a gym. Haha. He has an office and his half of the garage and that’s it. I turned the spare bedrooms into sewing rooms. 

I know I should be able to, but there’s still a fear. I’ve had quite a few bad experiences with stuff like this. Not everyone is really understanding about a guy who likes feminine stuff. 

Haha! Hubby definitely enjoys it when I wear it. While he thinks my heels are stupid, he does get very excited when they come on in the bedroom!  Heels are the best for making you feel sexy. I like to wear them, put on one of my husband’s shirts and do my makeup. Drives him crazy. 

My husband is just a giant. He has a brother even taller than him. It’s ridiculous. I feel so small next to him. I do sorta love it. 

I love to travel. I went to school in Germany and I love it when I get to visit there. I have no real intention to going back to Georgia or any country close to it. I can see how it can seem nice, but it was kinda rough growing up there. 

[mimi953]

Well I promised him the basement for now but who knows. All of the houses we look at have 3-4 bedrooms & we are hoping someday soon one of those rooms will be a nursery. We really want to start a family. That annoys me so much. people should just be able to live and not have to be worried but I understand what you mean. My cousin was gay. She wasn’t Trans but she dressed in men’s clothes, wore men’s cologne, her head was shaved. Most people thought she was a man and one night we went out and we went to use the ladies room and the attendant wouldn’t let her in. She had to show her drivers license to prove she was a women. I love to do that for my husband. Sadly none of his shirts would fit me. He is a small skinny guy and I’m big on top. But I’ll do my make up the way he likes it. But make up is not my friend. If I’m going out I never get it right but if I’m going to the supermarket I look like a supermodel lol. I love my husband but sometimes I wish he was tall and built. My husband doesn’t gain weight and he eats like a teenager. When hurricane Sandy hit us 4 years ago and every one was stocking up on food he bought a box of twinkies and some Gatorade and he was set. It must be so nice to travel like that and it seems your husband like to travel too. I’m hoping one day to get to Italy. I still have family there and it would be so nice to meet them in person. To be honest since 9/11 I have been afraid of flying and I used to travel alot. I never left the U.S. but I was always going somewhere. Even when we went on our honeymoon the flight to Savanah was about 2 hours I was scared and when we were flying home I started crying as we were landing.

[themoviepopcorn]

Sorry about running off! Hubby called me into the other room for an “emergency” which was that the movie he wanted to see was on so on we went :P I hope your surgery went well! 

Aww! That’s so sweet! I can’t wait until my husband and I have children. We have started the adoption process. So hopefully one day someone will pick us! We’ve always wanted a huge family. Hubby has three siblings and I have ten. 

It’s horrible what happens. No one has bugged me about going to the bathroom thank god. But I have been beaten. When I did drag, sometimes men wouldn’t get that I was a drag queen and not a woman so they would try to pick me up. One guy wouldn’t leave me alone once and kept groping me. He then felt that I was definitely not a woman and, well, I was very lucky that the bouncer spotted us. 

I LOVE makeup. My drag mother was a professional makeup artist and taught me all sorts of neat tricks. Like how to make a flat chest look like cleavage. I sometimes spend hours just sitting in front of the mirror and messing with my face. 

My husband eats us out of house and home. I have never seen a man eat as much as he does. Haha. He’s 6′4″ 300 lbs so I have to cook for a family of four to just feed us! Thankfully he’ll eat anything that I put in front of him. 

Aww! I swear flying isn’t that bad! I fly all the time. You should totally go to Italy. I’ve never been but the pictures are beautiful. It’s on our list to go. 

[mimi953]

Don’t you just love when they call you for an “emergency” & it’s not. My husband does it all the time. Drives me crazy. Especially when I’m at work & I get these weird random texts. My favorite is when he texts me at 9:30 in the morning & wants to know what I’m making for dinner. Oh thank you. Everything went well today. I just don’t like having to be put to sleep. My hubby & I are hoping to start a family soon. I have some fertility problems which are unexplainable at least that’s what the doctor said but I’m not giving up hope. Even if I’m blessed with one child I would be happy. You’ll have your family. Any child would be lucky to have you and your hubby already knows all the dad jokes. But good luck if you have a girl. He probably wont let her date till she’s 30. Wow 10 siblings. I only have 1 and she is 15 years younger then me. Oh God that is terrible. I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. It just isn’t right. No one should have to go thru something like that. It’s good that your hubby goes with you now when you perform. No one would dare to hurt you. I love makeup too I’ve just never been good at it. Like when I’m doing my eye makeup one side always comes out better and I can never get the other side right. Like I was trying to do the wings with the eyeliner. I watched about 20 YouTube videos and I finally tried it and one side came perfect and I spent an hour on the other one & just couldn’t do it & then I get frustrated. But that is great that she taught you all these tricks. It must make it a little easier. Hahaha. You are so lucky. My husband eats nothing except junk food. He has the diet of a toddler. I could give him Mac & cheese and chicken nuggets and he would be fine. It sucks for me because I love to cook. My dream was to go to culinary school but I didn’t get the chance so I try to cook as much as I can and I come from an Italian family so if 4 people are coming I’m cooking like it’s 20 lol. I’m cooking for Thanksgiving and it’s not even at my house this year. It must be amazing to get to travel so much. You must have seen some amazing things. One day I’ll get there. My cousin wants to plan a trip. She is in the Air Force and she was deployed back to the Middle East back in June so once her tour is over we want to go.

[themoviepopcorn]

I’m so glad things went well! 

I hope you get your family soon :) I can’t imagine having to deal with fertility problems. I’m sorry you have to go through that. 

The adoption process is rough. Especially since most organizations are religious and obviously hubby and I are excluded from those. And yes, hubby is totally the type to torture his future daughter’s boyfriend.

Yep! 10 siblings. 4 older brothers, 3 younger brothers, and 3 younger sisters. It’s kinda crazy to have so many siblings but it’s nice to always have someone around. That’s why I want a big family. 

Haha. Hubby knows if he doesn’t eat what I put in front of him then he has to get his own food. I enjoy cooking. I prefer baking though. Oh gosh! All of Thanksgiving sounds like a nightmare! I’m in charge of rolls and pies this year. There is so much family that it is crazy in the kitchen. I’m always so nervous every holiday. I’ve already made three pies today and I’m making the bread tomorrow morning. I’ve been scrubbing my house all day for it! My husband’s aunt is staying with us and she’s the type to criticize everything about my house. So I’m sure I’ll hear a lot of “well, if you just married a real woman *insert random thing* would be so much better” directed to my husband. Gah! I love my husband’s family but some members still kinda have problems with me. 

You should totally plan that trip! I’m sure you will have a blast! 

[mimi953]

I have to go back to the fertility doctor in a couple of months to see whats next. But of course my mother likes to remind me everyday that im not getting younger. Im 38 so i know my age is against me. I don’t know why these organizations have to make it so difficult. There are so many children out there that need homes and parents that love them and it shouldn’t matter if those parents are and man & a women or a man & man. All that counts is that child is going to be loved unconditionally. That is nice. I wish my parents had more kids. My sister is from my dad’s second marriage & I hardly get to see her. You sound like me. I must have at least 80 cookbooks & half of those are just for baking. Oh wow you are really working hard for this holiday. Your husband aunt sounds like a real piece of work. How long is she staying? Just forget her. Your husband loves you and you love him and that is really all that matters. It’s just drives me crazy that it’s almost 2017 & there is still so much hate and indifference in this world. People should be allowed to love who they want and raise families and that should be it. A perfect world.

[themoviepopcorn]

Good luck with the doctor!!

I haven’t seen my siblings in a few years. But I do talk to them on the phone as much as I can.

She’s kinda hard to deal with. She’s old and stuck in her ways. I was literally the first man my husband has been with so everyone had a hard time since I was unexpected. But I have a great relationship with 99% of them.

I stress bake so it works with the holiday. Hubby has currently banned me from the kitchen. I’m supposed to relax tonight.

[mimi953]

I get that. I haven’t seen my sister in a year and she only lives over a bridge. But she travels a lot. She rides & trains horses for a living and competes in jumping competitions so she is always working so basically we text each other alot and I keep up with her on Facebook and Instagram. But I’m really proud of her. That’s good. I know some times its tough with the in laws and family. Yeah me too. Whenever I’m having a bad day I bake. Well I hope you are listening to your hubby & relaxing. Tomorrow is a busy day.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is so cool! That sounds like such an interesting job! I have a boring office job now. What do you do if you don't mind me asking?

My mother in law has basically adopted me. We have a great relationship since I can't see my own.

I'm trying to but my cat is on a mission to get into everything tonight! She's just a kitten so she kinda likes to push the limits. I've pulled her out of my plants about a million times tonight.

[themoviepopcorn]

You are an amazing writer. I follow you on Ao3. I'm Raven1019 over there. I love all your stories. You husband sounds a lot like mine. He thinks he's the funniest guy in the world & the more you laugh at him the more it encourages him to keep going

Thank you so much! Haha! That is definitely my husband. He thinks he’s hilarious. He is the master of dad jokes. His jokes are so terrible that people are actually shocked he has no children. And if you laugh at any joke he tells, there is no stopping him. :P

[mimi953]

Lol. You just have to roll your eyes & walk away. My hubby thinks everything is funny. I had surgery not to long ago & before they wheeled me in he patted me on the head & said “ good luck. Dont die” if I wasn’t connected to an IV I would have slapped him

[themoviepopcorn]

Haha! That is horrible! I hope everything went okay with the surgery!

Sorry, this one is a bit crass. So I do drag on the weekends occasionally. I used to do it professionally, but stopped after I got my current job. I still do it when someone calls in and they need an immediate replacement. My husband likes to go with me when I do it to kinda protect me. We are in the south and sometimes people like to go after the club. Well one time I was getting dressed to perform and managed to cut myself BAD on my upper thigh. I didn’t realize it at the time and finished getting dressed in a white dress. My husband laughed hysterically when he saw me and screamed out. “Look! You finally got your first period!”

[mimi953]

Umm surgery went ok. I had some complications so had to spend some extra time in the hospital. Im actually having another minor procedure tomorrow to have a stent removed. Guess who I asked NOT to take me lol. OMG that is terrible & trust me it’s not crass at all. But I hope you were ok. That had to be so stressful before a show and your hubby is making jokes & your standing their bleeding. I think between the two of us we would have a million stories about the special men in our lives. Oh I love the south. We spent our honeymoon in Savanah GA & I would have stayed there forever if I could. We are from NY & I just loved the pace of Savanah & everyone is so much nicer in the south. Which is proved right here. You are so sweet to talk to all your readers. I hope your hubby knows what an amazing partner he has.

[themoviepopcorn]

I hope everything goes well tomorrow!

I was MAD at him but was mostly upset that I ruined my dress. I make all my clothes so all that effort was for nothing! 

I do have a million stories from that man and sounds like you do too. I like where we live. I have a wonderful family down here and for the most part people are nice. But there can be a lot of bigoted people down here. I’m an immigrant gay man who wears dresses and makeup, has long hair and is married to a black man. A lot of people REALLY don’t like me. 

Aww! You are so sweet! I would hope that anyone would talk to their readers. I love meeting new people even if it’s just online :)

[mimi953]

Aww thank you. That is really cool that you make your own clothes. I cant even sew on a button. Well I feel sorry for the people who don’t like you because they are missing out on knowing someone special. You are taking the time chatting with me, someone you dont know except for comments i have left on you stories and talking to you just flows. Most people arent like that. Some people just want to find something wrong with everyone if your not a cookie cutter of what they want and i am so not cookie cutter. So your a man who wears make up and dresses and has long hair. You are who you are and I bet you are stunning. You could probably teach me a thing or two. Like how to walk in heels lol

[themoviepopcorn]

Thank you so much :D I kinda had to learn how to make my own clothes. I have extremely expensive tastes but not the budget for it. I actually made my own wedding dress. Which definitely brought the stares but it had always been my dream to wear one! Hubby didn’t care and my family wasn’t at my wedding so whatever. My in laws have just learned to accept that I am “different”.

I like people that aren’t cookie cutter types :D It’s so much more fun to be around people that aren’t totally normal and predictable. And I really appreciate you talking to me. A lot of people hear my accent in real life and think I’m too stupid to hold a conversation. 

Haha. I do love my heels! Although I have been banned from buying any for the next three months. Apparently I buy too many… 

[mimi953]

You made your own dress that is awesome. Must have been gorgeous. Let people stare, all that mattered was the man waiting at the end of the aisle. When I got married the bridal shop forgot to order my gown so I had to get married in a dress I didn’t pick out or like. I looked like a snowball from hell. Some people are assholes. They like to judge people before they know them. You have an accent. So what. Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking. If it’s too personal that’s cool. I love heels too. I just can’t walk in them. I wore purple converse high tops under my wedding gown. My obsession is handbags. It drives my hubby crazy because he doesn’t understand why I need more then one. Hey your going to need new shoes for Mexico. Hubby might have to lift the ban.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is horrible! I would have been SO upset! But you are right, all that matters is the man at the end. 

I’m from the Republic of Georgia. It kinda surprised me after moving here how many people didn’t know that that is a country and not just a state. Haha. 

I love looking at handbags. I bought one but haven’t really been brave enough to buy more. It’s kinda funny. I have no problem buying heels but handbags is where I get scared. 

That’s how my husband feels about my shoes! He keeps telling me they are totally unnecessary but they totally are! I am absolutely buying more before Mexico even though I’m banned. He knows he can’t say too much. He has a problem with buying too many tools. We have so many his car can’t even fit in the garage. 

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I know right. It’s ok for them to collect things and take up space. My husband collects vinyl record albums, all heavy metal bands from the 70’s & 80’s & you know where he keeps them - in my closet. Oh & he never plays them. But he bitches about my bags. See and I get scared when buying shoes. I try them on 100 times in the store & constantly second guess myself but I love buying shoes for a vacation. You can get some really sexy shoes especially since you are going to Mexico and once he sees you looking so great he’ll forget all about the shoe ban. This is when i love shoe shopping because it boot season and i can get a more chunky heel so i cam walk in those. Plus it makes me look taller. Im only 5'2 so i need all the help i can get. Is the Republic of Georgia near Armenia?

[themoviepopcorn]

That would drive me crazy! I only let it go on in the garage as long as it’s just HIS car that doesn’t get to be parked in there and mine is fine. 

I can always excuse myself buying shoes. It’s just for my drag performance! I swear :D When I look at handbags I feel like everyone stares at me. You know, wondering why some guy is looking at them. Not that everyone always gets that I’m a guy at first. A lot of little kids have asked me if I’m a man or lady before. 

I love those super high heeled thigh highs. I am absolutely obsessed with them. I love boot season! :D And I already have my eye on a few shoes for our trip. It’s probably the first thing I did when I found out. I’m pretty short for a guy, I’m only 5′7″. Hubby is 6′4″ so I can wear as high of heels as I want! 

It is! We share a border with Armenia. 

[mimi953]

Now that we are looking for a house I told him that the basement will be all his. He can do whatever he wants down there are long as the rest of the house is mine :o) Gotta love kids. They are so honest. But you should be able to shop for what you want no matter what. OMG I love those thigh high boots I have a pair that I wear on special occasions if you know what I mean lol. That’s why I love the fall I get all my boots out. The rest of the year I wear flats but as soon as I get those boots on I feel sexier. Probably sounds weird. My husband is 5'7. For Italian guys that seems to be the normal height. Wow 6'4 that is tall. I would have to stand on a chair to talk to him. Woo hoo paying attention in high school paid off lol. I have a friend who is from Armenia. So I remembered something about Republic of Georgia. It looks so beautiful there. I’ve always wanted to visit Turkey and Armenia. I like to travel but the hubby is afraid to fly.

[themoviepopcorn]

Our basement was originally supposed to be for my husband, but I ended up turning it into a gym. Haha. He has an office and his half of the garage and that’s it. I turned the spare bedrooms into sewing rooms. 

I know I should be able to, but there’s still a fear. I’ve had quite a few bad experiences with stuff like this. Not everyone is really understanding about a guy who likes feminine stuff. 

Haha! Hubby definitely enjoys it when I wear it. While he thinks my heels are stupid, he does get very excited when they come on in the bedroom!  Heels are the best for making you feel sexy. I like to wear them, put on one of my husband’s shirts and do my makeup. Drives him crazy. 

My husband is just a giant. He has a brother even taller than him. It’s ridiculous. I feel so small next to him. I do sorta love it. 

I love to travel. I went to school in Germany and I love it when I get to visit there. I have no real intention to going back to Georgia or any country close to it. I can see how it can seem nice, but it was kinda rough growing up there. 

[mimi953]

Well I promised him the basement for now but who knows. All of the houses we look at have 3-4 bedrooms & we are hoping someday soon one of those rooms will be a nursery. We really want to start a family. That annoys me so much. people should just be able to live and not have to be worried but I understand what you mean. My cousin was gay. She wasn’t Trans but she dressed in men’s clothes, wore men’s cologne, her head was shaved. Most people thought she was a man and one night we went out and we went to use the ladies room and the attendant wouldn’t let her in. She had to show her drivers license to prove she was a women. I love to do that for my husband. Sadly none of his shirts would fit me. He is a small skinny guy and I’m big on top. But I’ll do my make up the way he likes it. But make up is not my friend. If I’m going out I never get it right but if I’m going to the supermarket I look like a supermodel lol. I love my husband but sometimes I wish he was tall and built. My husband doesn’t gain weight and he eats like a teenager. When hurricane Sandy hit us 4 years ago and every one was stocking up on food he bought a box of twinkies and some Gatorade and he was set. It must be so nice to travel like that and it seems your husband like to travel too. I’m hoping one day to get to Italy. I still have family there and it would be so nice to meet them in person. To be honest since 9/11 I have been afraid of flying and I used to travel alot. I never left the U.S. but I was always going somewhere. Even when we went on our honeymoon the flight to Savanah was about 2 hours I was scared and when we were flying home I started crying as we were landing.

[themoviepopcorn]

Sorry about running off! Hubby called me into the other room for an “emergency” which was that the movie he wanted to see was on so on we went :P I hope your surgery went well! 

Aww! That’s so sweet! I can’t wait until my husband and I have children. We have started the adoption process. So hopefully one day someone will pick us! We’ve always wanted a huge family. Hubby has three siblings and I have ten. 

It’s horrible what happens. No one has bugged me about going to the bathroom thank god. But I have been beaten. When I did drag, sometimes men wouldn’t get that I was a drag queen and not a woman so they would try to pick me up. One guy wouldn’t leave me alone once and kept groping me. He then felt that I was definitely not a woman and, well, I was very lucky that the bouncer spotted us. 

I LOVE makeup. My drag mother was a professional makeup artist and taught me all sorts of neat tricks. Like how to make a flat chest look like cleavage. I sometimes spend hours just sitting in front of the mirror and messing with my face. 

My husband eats us out of house and home. I have never seen a man eat as much as he does. Haha. He’s 6′4″ 300 lbs so I have to cook for a family of four to just feed us! Thankfully he’ll eat anything that I put in front of him. 

Aww! I swear flying isn’t that bad! I fly all the time. You should totally go to Italy. I’ve never been but the pictures are beautiful. It’s on our list to go. 

[mimi953]

Don’t you just love when they call you for an “emergency” & it’s not. My husband does it all the time. Drives me crazy. Especially when I’m at work & I get these weird random texts. My favorite is when he texts me at 9:30 in the morning & wants to know what I’m making for dinner. Oh thank you. Everything went well today. I just don’t like having to be put to sleep. My hubby & I are hoping to start a family soon. I have some fertility problems which are unexplainable at least that’s what the doctor said but I’m not giving up hope. Even if I’m blessed with one child I would be happy. You’ll have your family. Any child would be lucky to have you and your hubby already knows all the dad jokes. But good luck if you have a girl. He probably wont let her date till she’s 30. Wow 10 siblings. I only have 1 and she is 15 years younger then me. Oh God that is terrible. I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. It just isn’t right. No one should have to go thru something like that. It’s good that your hubby goes with you now when you perform. No one would dare to hurt you. I love makeup too I’ve just never been good at it. Like when I’m doing my eye makeup one side always comes out better and I can never get the other side right. Like I was trying to do the wings with the eyeliner. I watched about 20 YouTube videos and I finally tried it and one side came perfect and I spent an hour on the other one & just couldn’t do it & then I get frustrated. But that is great that she taught you all these tricks. It must make it a little easier. Hahaha. You are so lucky. My husband eats nothing except junk food. He has the diet of a toddler. I could give him Mac & cheese and chicken nuggets and he would be fine. It sucks for me because I love to cook. My dream was to go to culinary school but I didn’t get the chance so I try to cook as much as I can and I come from an Italian family so if 4 people are coming I’m cooking like it’s 20 lol. I’m cooking for Thanksgiving and it’s not even at my house this year. It must be amazing to get to travel so much. You must have seen some amazing things. One day I’ll get there. My cousin wants to plan a trip. She is in the Air Force and she was deployed back to the Middle East back in June so once her tour is over we want to go.

[themoviepopcorn]

I’m so glad things went well! 

I hope you get your family soon :) I can’t imagine having to deal with fertility problems. I’m sorry you have to go through that. 

The adoption process is rough. Especially since most organizations are religious and obviously hubby and I are excluded from those. And yes, hubby is totally the type to torture his future daughter’s boyfriend.

Yep! 10 siblings. 4 older brothers, 3 younger brothers, and 3 younger sisters. It’s kinda crazy to have so many siblings but it’s nice to always have someone around. That’s why I want a big family. 

Haha. Hubby knows if he doesn’t eat what I put in front of him then he has to get his own food. I enjoy cooking. I prefer baking though. Oh gosh! All of Thanksgiving sounds like a nightmare! I’m in charge of rolls and pies this year. There is so much family that it is crazy in the kitchen. I’m always so nervous every holiday. I’ve already made three pies today and I’m making the bread tomorrow morning. I’ve been scrubbing my house all day for it! My husband’s aunt is staying with us and she’s the type to criticize everything about my house. So I’m sure I’ll hear a lot of “well, if you just married a real woman *insert random thing* would be so much better” directed to my husband. Gah! I love my husband’s family but some members still kinda have problems with me. 

You should totally plan that trip! I’m sure you will have a blast! 

[mimi953]

I have to go back to the fertility doctor in a couple of months to see whats next. But of course my mother likes to remind me everyday that im not getting younger. Im 38 so i know my age is against me. I don’t know why these organizations have to make it so difficult. There are so many children out there that need homes and parents that love them and it shouldn’t matter if those parents are and man & a women or a man & man. All that counts is that child is going to be loved unconditionally. That is nice. I wish my parents had more kids. My sister is from my dad’s second marriage & I hardly get to see her. You sound like me. I must have at least 80 cookbooks & half of those are just for baking. Oh wow you are really working hard for this holiday. Your husband aunt sounds like a real piece of work. How long is she staying? Just forget her. Your husband loves you and you love him and that is really all that matters. It’s just drives me crazy that it’s almost 2017 & there is still so much hate and indifference in this world. People should be allowed to love who they want and raise families and that should be it. A perfect world.

[themoviepopcorn]

Good luck with the doctor!!

I haven't seen my siblings in a few years. But I do talk to them on the phone as much as I can.

She's kinda hard to deal with. She's old and stuck in her ways. I was literally the first man my husband has been with so everyone had a hard time since I was unexpected. But I have a great relationship with 99% of them.

I stress bake so it works with the holiday. Hubby has currently banned me from the kitchen. I'm supposed to relax tonight.

[themoviepopcorn]

You are an amazing writer. I follow you on Ao3. I'm Raven1019 over there. I love all your stories. You husband sounds a lot like mine. He thinks he's the funniest guy in the world & the more you laugh at him the more it encourages him to keep going

Thank you so much! Haha! That is definitely my husband. He thinks he’s hilarious. He is the master of dad jokes. His jokes are so terrible that people are actually shocked he has no children. And if you laugh at any joke he tells, there is no stopping him. :P

[mimi953]

Lol. You just have to roll your eyes & walk away. My hubby thinks everything is funny. I had surgery not to long ago & before they wheeled me in he patted me on the head & said “ good luck. Dont die” if I wasn’t connected to an IV I would have slapped him

[themoviepopcorn]

Haha! That is horrible! I hope everything went okay with the surgery!

Sorry, this one is a bit crass. So I do drag on the weekends occasionally. I used to do it professionally, but stopped after I got my current job. I still do it when someone calls in and they need an immediate replacement. My husband likes to go with me when I do it to kinda protect me. We are in the south and sometimes people like to go after the club. Well one time I was getting dressed to perform and managed to cut myself BAD on my upper thigh. I didn’t realize it at the time and finished getting dressed in a white dress. My husband laughed hysterically when he saw me and screamed out. “Look! You finally got your first period!”

[mimi953]

Umm surgery went ok. I had some complications so had to spend some extra time in the hospital. Im actually having another minor procedure tomorrow to have a stent removed. Guess who I asked NOT to take me lol. OMG that is terrible & trust me it’s not crass at all. But I hope you were ok. That had to be so stressful before a show and your hubby is making jokes & your standing their bleeding. I think between the two of us we would have a million stories about the special men in our lives. Oh I love the south. We spent our honeymoon in Savanah GA & I would have stayed there forever if I could. We are from NY & I just loved the pace of Savanah & everyone is so much nicer in the south. Which is proved right here. You are so sweet to talk to all your readers. I hope your hubby knows what an amazing partner he has.

[themoviepopcorn]

I hope everything goes well tomorrow!

I was MAD at him but was mostly upset that I ruined my dress. I make all my clothes so all that effort was for nothing! 

I do have a million stories from that man and sounds like you do too. I like where we live. I have a wonderful family down here and for the most part people are nice. But there can be a lot of bigoted people down here. I’m an immigrant gay man who wears dresses and makeup, has long hair and is married to a black man. A lot of people REALLY don’t like me. 

Aww! You are so sweet! I would hope that anyone would talk to their readers. I love meeting new people even if it’s just online :)

[mimi953]

Aww thank you. That is really cool that you make your own clothes. I cant even sew on a button. Well I feel sorry for the people who don’t like you because they are missing out on knowing someone special. You are taking the time chatting with me, someone you dont know except for comments i have left on you stories and talking to you just flows. Most people arent like that. Some people just want to find something wrong with everyone if your not a cookie cutter of what they want and i am so not cookie cutter. So your a man who wears make up and dresses and has long hair. You are who you are and I bet you are stunning. You could probably teach me a thing or two. Like how to walk in heels lol

[themoviepopcorn]

Thank you so much :D I kinda had to learn how to make my own clothes. I have extremely expensive tastes but not the budget for it. I actually made my own wedding dress. Which definitely brought the stares but it had always been my dream to wear one! Hubby didn’t care and my family wasn’t at my wedding so whatever. My in laws have just learned to accept that I am “different”.

I like people that aren’t cookie cutter types :D It’s so much more fun to be around people that aren’t totally normal and predictable. And I really appreciate you talking to me. A lot of people hear my accent in real life and think I’m too stupid to hold a conversation. 

Haha. I do love my heels! Although I have been banned from buying any for the next three months. Apparently I buy too many… 

[mimi953]

You made your own dress that is awesome. Must have been gorgeous. Let people stare, all that mattered was the man waiting at the end of the aisle. When I got married the bridal shop forgot to order my gown so I had to get married in a dress I didn’t pick out or like. I looked like a snowball from hell. Some people are assholes. They like to judge people before they know them. You have an accent. So what. Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking. If it’s too personal that’s cool. I love heels too. I just can’t walk in them. I wore purple converse high tops under my wedding gown. My obsession is handbags. It drives my hubby crazy because he doesn’t understand why I need more then one. Hey your going to need new shoes for Mexico. Hubby might have to lift the ban.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is horrible! I would have been SO upset! But you are right, all that matters is the man at the end. 

I’m from the Republic of Georgia. It kinda surprised me after moving here how many people didn’t know that that is a country and not just a state. Haha. 

I love looking at handbags. I bought one but haven’t really been brave enough to buy more. It’s kinda funny. I have no problem buying heels but handbags is where I get scared. 

That’s how my husband feels about my shoes! He keeps telling me they are totally unnecessary but they totally are! I am absolutely buying more before Mexico even though I’m banned. He knows he can’t say too much. He has a problem with buying too many tools. We have so many his car can’t even fit in the garage. 

[mimi953]

I know right. It’s ok for them to collect things and take up space. My husband collects vinyl record albums, all heavy metal bands from the 70’s & 80’s & you know where he keeps them - in my closet. Oh & he never plays them. But he bitches about my bags. See and I get scared when buying shoes. I try them on 100 times in the store & constantly second guess myself but I love buying shoes for a vacation. You can get some really sexy shoes especially since you are going to Mexico and once he sees you looking so great he’ll forget all about the shoe ban. This is when i love shoe shopping because it boot season and i can get a more chunky heel so i cam walk in those. Plus it makes me look taller. Im only 5'2 so i need all the help i can get. Is the Republic of Georgia near Armenia?

[themoviepopcorn]

That would drive me crazy! I only let it go on in the garage as long as it’s just HIS car that doesn’t get to be parked in there and mine is fine. 

I can always excuse myself buying shoes. It’s just for my drag performance! I swear :D When I look at handbags I feel like everyone stares at me. You know, wondering why some guy is looking at them. Not that everyone always gets that I’m a guy at first. A lot of little kids have asked me if I’m a man or lady before. 

I love those super high heeled thigh highs. I am absolutely obsessed with them. I love boot season! :D And I already have my eye on a few shoes for our trip. It’s probably the first thing I did when I found out. I’m pretty short for a guy, I’m only 5′7″. Hubby is 6′4″ so I can wear as high of heels as I want! 

It is! We share a border with Armenia. 

[mimi953]

Now that we are looking for a house I told him that the basement will be all his. He can do whatever he wants down there are long as the rest of the house is mine :o) Gotta love kids. They are so honest. But you should be able to shop for what you want no matter what. OMG I love those thigh high boots I have a pair that I wear on special occasions if you know what I mean lol. That’s why I love the fall I get all my boots out. The rest of the year I wear flats but as soon as I get those boots on I feel sexier. Probably sounds weird. My husband is 5'7. For Italian guys that seems to be the normal height. Wow 6'4 that is tall. I would have to stand on a chair to talk to him. Woo hoo paying attention in high school paid off lol. I have a friend who is from Armenia. So I remembered something about Republic of Georgia. It looks so beautiful there. I’ve always wanted to visit Turkey and Armenia. I like to travel but the hubby is afraid to fly.

[themoviepopcorn]

Our basement was originally supposed to be for my husband, but I ended up turning it into a gym. Haha. He has an office and his half of the garage and that’s it. I turned the spare bedrooms into sewing rooms. 

I know I should be able to, but there’s still a fear. I’ve had quite a few bad experiences with stuff like this. Not everyone is really understanding about a guy who likes feminine stuff. 

Haha! Hubby definitely enjoys it when I wear it. While he thinks my heels are stupid, he does get very excited when they come on in the bedroom!  Heels are the best for making you feel sexy. I like to wear them, put on one of my husband’s shirts and do my makeup. Drives him crazy. 

My husband is just a giant. He has a brother even taller than him. It’s ridiculous. I feel so small next to him. I do sorta love it. 

I love to travel. I went to school in Germany and I love it when I get to visit there. I have no real intention to going back to Georgia or any country close to it. I can see how it can seem nice, but it was kinda rough growing up there. 

[mimi953]

Well I promised him the basement for now but who knows. All of the houses we look at have 3-4 bedrooms & we are hoping someday soon one of those rooms will be a nursery. We really want to start a family. That annoys me so much. people should just be able to live and not have to be worried but I understand what you mean. My cousin was gay. She wasn’t Trans but she dressed in men’s clothes, wore men’s cologne, her head was shaved. Most people thought she was a man and one night we went out and we went to use the ladies room and the attendant wouldn’t let her in. She had to show her drivers license to prove she was a women. I love to do that for my husband. Sadly none of his shirts would fit me. He is a small skinny guy and I’m big on top. But I’ll do my make up the way he likes it. But make up is not my friend. If I’m going out I never get it right but if I’m going to the supermarket I look like a supermodel lol. I love my husband but sometimes I wish he was tall and built. My husband doesn’t gain weight and he eats like a teenager. When hurricane Sandy hit us 4 years ago and every one was stocking up on food he bought a box of twinkies and some Gatorade and he was set. It must be so nice to travel like that and it seems your husband like to travel too. I’m hoping one day to get to Italy. I still have family there and it would be so nice to meet them in person. To be honest since 9/11 I have been afraid of flying and I used to travel alot. I never left the U.S. but I was always going somewhere. Even when we went on our honeymoon the flight to Savanah was about 2 hours I was scared and when we were flying home I started crying as we were landing.

[themoviepopcorn]

Sorry about running off! Hubby called me into the other room for an “emergency” which was that the movie he wanted to see was on so on we went :P I hope your surgery went well! 

Aww! That’s so sweet! I can’t wait until my husband and I have children. We have started the adoption process. So hopefully one day someone will pick us! We’ve always wanted a huge family. Hubby has three siblings and I have ten. 

It’s horrible what happens. No one has bugged me about going to the bathroom thank god. But I have been beaten. When I did drag, sometimes men wouldn’t get that I was a drag queen and not a woman so they would try to pick me up. One guy wouldn’t leave me alone once and kept groping me. He then felt that I was definitely not a woman and, well, I was very lucky that the bouncer spotted us. 

I LOVE makeup. My drag mother was a professional makeup artist and taught me all sorts of neat tricks. Like how to make a flat chest look like cleavage. I sometimes spend hours just sitting in front of the mirror and messing with my face. 

My husband eats us out of house and home. I have never seen a man eat as much as he does. Haha. He’s 6′4″ 300 lbs so I have to cook for a family of four to just feed us! Thankfully he’ll eat anything that I put in front of him. 

Aww! I swear flying isn’t that bad! I fly all the time. You should totally go to Italy. I’ve never been but the pictures are beautiful. It’s on our list to go. 

[mimi953]

Don’t you just love when they call you for an “emergency” & it’s not. My husband does it all the time. Drives me crazy. Especially when I’m at work & I get these weird random texts. My favorite is when he texts me at 9:30 in the morning & wants to know what I’m making for dinner. Oh thank you. Everything went well today. I just don’t like having to be put to sleep. My hubby & I are hoping to start a family soon. I have some fertility problems which are unexplainable at least that’s what the doctor said but I’m not giving up hope. Even if I’m blessed with one child I would be happy. You’ll have your family. Any child would be lucky to have you and your hubby already knows all the dad jokes. But good luck if you have a girl. He probably wont let her date till she’s 30. Wow 10 siblings. I only have 1 and she is 15 years younger then me. Oh God that is terrible. I am so sorry you had to go through something like that. It just isn’t right. No one should have to go thru something like that. It’s good that your hubby goes with you now when you perform. No one would dare to hurt you. I love makeup too I’ve just never been good at it. Like when I’m doing my eye makeup one side always comes out better and I can never get the other side right. Like I was trying to do the wings with the eyeliner. I watched about 20 YouTube videos and I finally tried it and one side came perfect and I spent an hour on the other one & just couldn’t do it & then I get frustrated. But that is great that she taught you all these tricks. It must make it a little easier. Hahaha. You are so lucky. My husband eats nothing except junk food. He has the diet of a toddler. I could give him Mac & cheese and chicken nuggets and he would be fine. It sucks for me because I love to cook. My dream was to go to culinary school but I didn’t get the chance so I try to cook as much as I can and I come from an Italian family so if 4 people are coming I’m cooking like it’s 20 lol. I’m cooking for Thanksgiving and it’s not even at my house this year. It must be amazing to get to travel so much. You must have seen some amazing things. One day I’ll get there. My cousin wants to plan a trip. She is in the Air Force and she was deployed back to the Middle East back in June so once her tour is over we want to go.

[themoviepopcorn]

I’m so glad things went well! 

I hope you get your family soon :) I can’t imagine having to deal with fertility problems. I’m sorry you have to go through that. 

The adoption process is rough. Especially since most organizations are religious and obviously hubby and I are excluded from those. And yes, hubby is totally the type to torture his future daughter’s boyfriend.

Yep! 10 siblings. 4 older brothers, 3 younger brothers, and 3 younger sisters. It’s kinda crazy to have so many siblings but it’s nice to always have someone around. That’s why I want a big family. 

Haha. Hubby knows if he doesn’t eat what I put in front of him then he has to get his own food. I enjoy cooking. I prefer baking though. Oh gosh! All of Thanksgiving sounds like a nightmare! I’m in charge of rolls and pies this year. There is so much family that it is crazy in the kitchen. I’m always so nervous every holiday. I’ve already made three pies today and I’m making the bread tomorrow morning. I’ve been scrubbing my house all day for it! My husband’s aunt is staying with us and she’s the type to criticize everything about my house. So I’m sure I’ll hear a lot of “well, if you just married a real woman *insert random thing* would be so much better” directed to my husband. Gah! I love my husband’s family but some members still kinda have problems with me. 

You should totally plan that trip! I’m sure you will have a blast! 

[themoviepopcorn]

You are an amazing writer. I follow you on Ao3. I'm Raven1019 over there. I love all your stories. You husband sounds a lot like mine. He thinks he's the funniest guy in the world & the more you laugh at him the more it encourages him to keep going

Thank you so much! Haha! That is definitely my husband. He thinks he’s hilarious. He is the master of dad jokes. His jokes are so terrible that people are actually shocked he has no children. And if you laugh at any joke he tells, there is no stopping him. :P

[mimi953]

Lol. You just have to roll your eyes & walk away. My hubby thinks everything is funny. I had surgery not to long ago & before they wheeled me in he patted me on the head & said “ good luck. Dont die” if I wasn’t connected to an IV I would have slapped him

[themoviepopcorn]

Haha! That is horrible! I hope everything went okay with the surgery!

Sorry, this one is a bit crass. So I do drag on the weekends occasionally. I used to do it professionally, but stopped after I got my current job. I still do it when someone calls in and they need an immediate replacement. My husband likes to go with me when I do it to kinda protect me. We are in the south and sometimes people like to go after the club. Well one time I was getting dressed to perform and managed to cut myself BAD on my upper thigh. I didn’t realize it at the time and finished getting dressed in a white dress. My husband laughed hysterically when he saw me and screamed out. “Look! You finally got your first period!”

[mimi953]

Umm surgery went ok. I had some complications so had to spend some extra time in the hospital. Im actually having another minor procedure tomorrow to have a stent removed. Guess who I asked NOT to take me lol. OMG that is terrible & trust me it’s not crass at all. But I hope you were ok. That had to be so stressful before a show and your hubby is making jokes & your standing their bleeding. I think between the two of us we would have a million stories about the special men in our lives. Oh I love the south. We spent our honeymoon in Savanah GA & I would have stayed there forever if I could. We are from NY & I just loved the pace of Savanah & everyone is so much nicer in the south. Which is proved right here. You are so sweet to talk to all your readers. I hope your hubby knows what an amazing partner he has.

[themoviepopcorn]

I hope everything goes well tomorrow!

I was MAD at him but was mostly upset that I ruined my dress. I make all my clothes so all that effort was for nothing! 

I do have a million stories from that man and sounds like you do too. I like where we live. I have a wonderful family down here and for the most part people are nice. But there can be a lot of bigoted people down here. I’m an immigrant gay man who wears dresses and makeup, has long hair and is married to a black man. A lot of people REALLY don’t like me. 

Aww! You are so sweet! I would hope that anyone would talk to their readers. I love meeting new people even if it’s just online :)

[mimi953]

Aww thank you. That is really cool that you make your own clothes. I cant even sew on a button. Well I feel sorry for the people who don’t like you because they are missing out on knowing someone special. You are taking the time chatting with me, someone you dont know except for comments i have left on you stories and talking to you just flows. Most people arent like that. Some people just want to find something wrong with everyone if your not a cookie cutter of what they want and i am so not cookie cutter. So your a man who wears make up and dresses and has long hair. You are who you are and I bet you are stunning. You could probably teach me a thing or two. Like how to walk in heels lol

[themoviepopcorn]

Thank you so much :D I kinda had to learn how to make my own clothes. I have extremely expensive tastes but not the budget for it. I actually made my own wedding dress. Which definitely brought the stares but it had always been my dream to wear one! Hubby didn’t care and my family wasn’t at my wedding so whatever. My in laws have just learned to accept that I am “different”.

I like people that aren’t cookie cutter types :D It’s so much more fun to be around people that aren’t totally normal and predictable. And I really appreciate you talking to me. A lot of people hear my accent in real life and think I’m too stupid to hold a conversation. 

Haha. I do love my heels! Although I have been banned from buying any for the next three months. Apparently I buy too many… 

[mimi953]

You made your own dress that is awesome. Must have been gorgeous. Let people stare, all that mattered was the man waiting at the end of the aisle. When I got married the bridal shop forgot to order my gown so I had to get married in a dress I didn’t pick out or like. I looked like a snowball from hell. Some people are assholes. They like to judge people before they know them. You have an accent. So what. Where are you from if you don’t mind me asking. If it’s too personal that’s cool. I love heels too. I just can’t walk in them. I wore purple converse high tops under my wedding gown. My obsession is handbags. It drives my hubby crazy because he doesn’t understand why I need more then one. Hey your going to need new shoes for Mexico. Hubby might have to lift the ban.

[themoviepopcorn]

That is horrible! I would have been SO upset! But you are right, all that matters is the man at the end. 

I’m from the Republic of Georgia. It kinda surprised me after moving here how many people didn’t know that that is a country and not just a state. Haha. 

I love looking at handbags. I bought one but haven’t really been brave enough to buy more. It’s kinda funny. I have no problem buying heels but handbags is where I get scared. 

That’s how my husband feels about my shoes! He keeps telling me they are totally unnecessary but they totally are! I am absolutely buying more before Mexico even though I’m banned. He knows he can’t say too much. He has a problem with buying too many tools. We have so many his car can’t even fit in the garage. 

[mimi953]

I know right. It’s ok for them to collect things and take up space. My husband collects vinyl record albums, all heavy metal bands from the 70’s & 80’s & you know where he keeps them - in my closet. Oh & he never plays them. But he bitches about my bags. See and I get scared when buying shoes. I try them on 100 times in the store & constantly second guess myself but I love buying shoes for a vacation. You can get some really sexy shoes especially since you are going to Mexico and once he sees you looking so great he’ll forget all about the shoe ban. This is when i love shoe shopping because it boot season and i can get a more chunky heel so i cam walk in those. Plus it makes me look taller. Im only 5'2 so i need all the help i can get. Is the Republic of Georgia near Armenia?

[themoviepopcorn]

That would drive me crazy! I only let it go on in the garage as long as it’s just HIS car that doesn’t get to be parked in there and mine is fine. 

I can always excuse myself buying shoes. It’s just for my drag performance! I swear :D When I look at handbags I feel like everyone stares at me. You know, wondering why some guy is looking at them. Not that everyone always gets that I’m a guy at first. A lot of little kids have asked me if I’m a man or lady before. 

I love those super high heeled thigh highs. I am absolutely obsessed with them. I love boot season! :D And I already have my eye on a few shoes for our trip. It’s probably the first thing I did when I found out. I’m pretty short for a guy, I’m only 5′7″. Hubby is 6′4″ so I can wear as high of heels as I want! 

It is! We share a border with Armenia. 

[mimi953]

Now that we are looking for a house I told him that the basement will be all his. He can do whatever he wants down there are long as the rest of the house is mine :o) Gotta love kids. They are so honest. But you should be able to shop for what you want no matter what. OMG I love those thigh high boots I have a pair that I wear on special occasions if you know what I mean lol. That’s why I love the fall I get all my boots out. The rest of the year I wear flats but as soon as I get those boots on I feel sexier. Probably sounds weird. My husband is 5'7. For Italian guys that seems to be the normal height. Wow 6'4 that is tall. I would have to stand on a chair to talk to him. Woo hoo paying attention in high school paid off lol. I have a friend who is from Armenia. So I remembered something about Republic of Georgia. It looks so beautiful there. I’ve always wanted to visit Turkey and Armenia. I like to travel but the hubby is afraid to fly.

[themoviepopcorn]

Our basement was originally supposed to be for my husband, but I ended up turning it into a gym. Haha. He has an office and his half of the garage and that’s it. I turned the spare bedrooms into sewing rooms. 

I know I should be able to, but there’s still a fear. I’ve had quite a few bad experiences with stuff like this. Not everyone is really understanding about a guy who likes feminine stuff. 

Haha! Hubby definitely enjoys it when I wear it. While he thinks my heels are stupid, he does get very excited when they come on in the bedroom!  Heels are the best for making you feel sexy. I like to wear them, put on one of my husband’s shirts and do my makeup. Drives him crazy. 

My husband is just a giant. He has a brother even taller than him. It’s ridiculous. I feel so small next to him. I do sorta love it. 

I love to travel. I went to school in Germany and I love it when I get to visit there. I have no real intention to going back to Georgia or any country close to it. I can see how it can seem nice, but it was kinda rough growing up there. 

[mimi953]

Well I promised him the basement for now but who knows. All of the houses we look at have 3-4 bedrooms & we are hoping someday soon one of those rooms will be a nursery. We really want to start a family. That annoys me so much. people should just be able to live and not have to be worried but I understand what you mean. My cousin was gay. She wasn’t Trans but she dressed in men’s clothes, wore men’s cologne, her head was shaved. Most people thought she was a man and one night we went out and we went to use the ladies room and the attendant wouldn’t let her in. She had to show her drivers license to prove she was a women. I love to do that for my husband. Sadly none of his shirts would fit me. He is a small skinny guy and I’m big on top. But I’ll do my make up the way he likes it. But make up is not my friend. If I’m going out I never get it right but if I’m going to the supermarket I look like a supermodel lol. I love my husband but sometimes I wish he was tall and built. My husband doesn’t gain weight and he eats like a teenager. When hurricane Sandy hit us 4 years ago and every one was stocking up on food he bought a box of twinkies and some Gatorade and he was set. It must be so nice to travel like that and it seems your husband like to travel too. I’m hoping one day to get to Italy. I still have family there and it would be so nice to meet them in person. To be honest since 9/11 I have been afraid of flying and I used to travel alot. I never left the U.S. but I was always going somewhere. Even when we went on our honeymoon the flight to Savanah was about 2 hours I was scared and when we were flying home I started crying as we were landing.

[themoviepopcorn]

Sorry about running off! Hubby called me into the other room for an “emergency” which was that the movie he wanted to see was on so on we went :P I hope your surgery went well! 

Aww! That’s so sweet! I can’t wait until my husband and I have children. We have started the adoption process. So hopefully one day someone will pick us! We’ve always wanted a huge family. Hubby has three siblings and I have ten. 

It’s horrible what happens. No one has bugged me about going to the bathroom thank god. But I have been beaten. When I did drag, sometimes men wouldn’t get that I was a drag queen and not a woman so they would try to pick me up. One guy wouldn’t leave me alone once and kept groping me. He then felt that I was definitely not a woman and, well, I was very lucky that the bouncer spotted us. 

I LOVE makeup. My drag mother was a professional makeup artist and taught me all sorts of neat tricks. Like how to make a flat chest look like cleavage. I sometimes spend hours just sitting in front of the mirror and messing with my face. 

My husband eats us out of house and home. I have never seen a man eat as much as he does. Haha. He’s 6′4″ 300 lbs so I have to cook for a family of four to just feed us! Thankfully he’ll eat anything that I put in front of him. 

Aww! I swear flying isn’t that bad! I fly all the time. You should totally go to Italy. I’ve never been but the pictures are beautiful. It’s on our list to go.