terms + flags :)

check original posts for updates creator of plural stability terms

[wsys-coining]

coining any term that intrigues us! ( @wsys )

request are open, if you want to ask for something :) please be patient about response times!

we don't have a consistent coining/posting schedule, just whenever inspo/motivation strikes

anyone can use our terms/flags, we just ask if reposting* them to please credit us + let us know if you can - just sending an ask to tell us is okay, no need to ask permission<3

*we are working to add all our plural terms to pluralpedia :)

-> ID always in alt text, PT included when necessary - please check original posts if not showing on a reblog

alternative system term packs: @puckpacks

stability terms hub:

pt/ stability terms hub: /end pt

- stability terms (general) ⭐️

- stubborn stability

- umbrella/standard stability terms [set of 6] ⭐️

- stability terms Q&A (ongoing) ⭐️

- special person stability [set of 5]

- stress-unstress collective stability

- ASPD special person stability [set of 3]

- source stability [set of 3]

- vacational stability

- loved ones stability [set of 4]

other terms hub:

pt/ other terms hub: /end pt

- exomemden / exomemnati ⭐️

- (gender-)influihypersex

- splittysource

- somatic recognition ⭐️

- vacationer (role)

- narcolepsy holder (alt. flag)

- clingycutor

- albumous; hers-albumous ⭐️

- apodebian / apoltbian ⭐️

-> pluralpedia stability terms subcategory! + other plural terms uploaded individually/soon to be uploaded. 🌟

[wsys]

post has two terms, please see them both! 🌟

1. apodebian

[ah-poe-deh-bee-in] apo (away from/separate) - gender - lesbian aka lesbigendered

pt/ apodebian. ah-poe-deh-bee-in. apo (away from/separate), ge(nd)er, les(bian). aka lesbigendered. /end pt.

a term for when your gender is lesbian, or tied to lesbianism, but not necessarily being a lesbian in sexuality (fully or completely). this may be due to connecting to gender roles and presentations often found in lesbian communities, history, and culture.

"not necessarily being a lesbian" includes people who are lesvixdenic, questioning lesbians, sapphic but not lesbian, mspec lesbians, once-lesbian but no longer, or any other nuanced experience with the label.

the flag's angled stripes (left) symbolize an altered experience of lesbianism, as connected to gender rather than sexuality. the faded colors (right) symbolize the disconnection to lesbian as a sexuality. the star (center) represents identity, self, and experiences that create this disruption/nuance.

2. apoltbian

[ah-pol-tuh-bee-in] apo (away from/separate) - culture - lesbian aka lesbicultured

pt/ apoltbian. ah-pol-tuh-bee-in. apo (away from/separate), cu(lt)ure, les(bian). or: lesbicultured. /end pt.

a term for when your identity and culture is lesbian, or tied to lesbianism, but not necessarily being a lesbian in sexuality (fully or completely). this is due to feeling connected to the experiences of lesbianism (including typical lesbian life events/feelings, sapphic attractions, being deeply part of lesbian communities, etc.)

"not necessarily being a lesbian" includes people who are lesvixdenic, questioning lesbians, sapphic but not lesbian, mspec lesbians, once-lesbian but no longer, or any other nuanced experience with the label.

the flag's angled stripes (left) symbolize an altered experience of lesbianism, as connected to culture rather than sexuality. the faded colors (right) symbolize the disconnection to lesbian as a sexuality. the star (center) represents identity, self, and experiences that create this disruption/nuance.

these terms were coined on february 2nd, 2026 by us/wsys, specifically maddox. (<- lesbian* with nuanced experiences to it!)

tagging @radiomogai for archival + other archival (with credit) welcomed!

[wsys]

associ-angeldeer

/pt. associ-angeldeer. end pt/

an assoc-id where you associate yourself with and want other people to associate you with angel-deers, but isn't necessarily something that you are. <3

self-indulgent, b/c this is meeee. @associd :)

[wsys]

permaskates

/pt: permaskates. end pt/

a perma- identity label where you feel like you should always be wearing ice skates, aim to always wear ice skates, or dream about always wearing ice skates.

users may experience atypical dysphoria when not wearing skates and cope by wearing ice skates (or similar-appearing shoes, etc) whenever they can to alleviate it -- among any other coping skill.

made for : @ferraros of @museedu ♡

[wsys-coining]

not that we have a ton of followers here but for those curious about the lull of new terms/flags, so sorry! we& have been traveling a bunch and working on alternative system term packs ( @puckpacks ) recently, but sooner than later when things calm down a bit, i'm sure we'll& have time again to work on both new flags/terms and uploading previous ones to pluralpedia!! :)

[plural-the-way-you-dont-like]

do you think youll ever consider doing requests again? if not, do you have any recommendations for blogs we could check out for requests? its perfectly fine and understandable if you guys dont ever want to do requests again, just wondering :]

We are still thinking about it here are some blogs that take requests for plural labels!

@apple-coining-blog

@wsys-coining

Blogs we are not sure if they take requests but we like their flags!

@cyberhex-coining

@cat-coining

If you coin plural labels feel free to reblog!

[wsys-coining]

ty for the tag!! we do do requests (+ usually we can get to them pretty quickly but pls be patient if we can't/need a bit of time to get to them!)

[wsys]

albumous; hers-albumous

pt/ albumous; hers-albumous. /end pt

albumous: a (subsection of) term(s) for when a music album deeply explains one's sexuality, orientation, attraction, love, relational alignment, and/or relationships in some way. this can either be a metaphorical representation of one's attraction (feeling like an album best describes one's attraction but is not literally the definition of it) or an exact representation of one's attraction (feeling like an album is the literal definition of one's attraction)

hers-albumous: a term for when the album "hers" by matt maltese deeply and accurately describes one's sexuality, orientation, attraction, love, relational alignment, and/or relationships in some way & is the metaphorical or literal definition of it. due to the themes of (and personal interpretations of) this album, one might feel a connection to anxious attachment styles, physical intimacy, quality time, jealousy, competition, desperation, desiring attention, commitment, nature, simple/un-romanticised lifestyles, love triangles, polyamory/non-monogamy, cinema/film, spirituality, piano, soft drum beats, relaxation, complex feelings, admiration/idolization, wine, hotels/motels, softness, comfort, beds, public transportation & planes, bpd, domesticity, the color brown/white, birthdays, mornings, and more.

coined on: august 4 2025 (by us, specifically dakota)

-> only want to see our coined terms? @wsys-coining

+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked (n/a for these flags); any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!)

tag list: @radiomogai , @npder , + ask!

[wsys]

clingycutor

pt/ clingycutor. /end pt

a persecutor role is a role where a headmate intentionally attempts to stabilize (< related link) a new split(s) despite it being more work, stressful, unhealthy, etc. for the system. clingycutor comes from the combination of 'clingy' and 'persecutor'.

attempting to stabilize splits is done out of love for the new split(s) and is not an intentionally harmful persecutor role. however, it still fits the persecutor category as clingycutors are encouraging and causing something stressful/harmful to the system. a headmate stabilizing new splits without causing any harm to the system is not the same as a clingycutor. being a clingycutor can often be as hurtful to the persecutor as it is to the rest of the system, if not more, given how attached they get to new and unstable headmates.

clinginess to new splits may be due to them being sourcemates, sharing exomemories, being from a media or interest that the clingycutor likes, or because the new split generally seems like a person the clingycutor would like to have around. this role goes well with bpd/cluster b holders or headmates, and those with attachment issues, but is not exclusive to it.

this role can be temporary if only applicable to one new split situation, or it may be reoccurring with multiple new splits and thus, a more permanent label.

the flag's warm colors are meant to be comforting as a nod to the comfort new splits give clingycutors, while the blue center represents the unintended harm being caused and uncertainty of the new split's stability. the flag's symbol is representative of the love clingycutors hold (a tight hug & a heart), as well as the instability of the new splits they're targeting (an unlocked lock).

-> detailed pluralpedia page + description: here.

coined on: august 2 2025 (by us)

-> only want to see our coined terms? @wsys-coining

+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked (n/a for these flags); any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!)

tag list: @radiomogai , @npder + ask :)

[wsys]

narcolepsy holder (alt. flag)

pt/ narcolepsy holder (alt. flag). /end pt

self-indulgent and self-explanatory; an alternative flag for a headmate who holds narcolepsy symptoms.

top layer of colors represent feeling fatigued, sleeping easily, feeling drowsy, overall feeling sleepy at night and in excess, etc.; bottom layer of colors represents excessive daytime sleepiness, sleep attacks, overall feeling sleepy during the day and in excess, overlap of plurality and narcolepsy, etc.

coined on: july 27 2025 (by us, a system w/ narcolepsy)

-> the only narcolepsy holder flag i could find on here is from a very anti-endo account. so consider this also a pro-endo alternative flag :)

transparent icon below - it's not the cleanest lol but in case anyone has a use for it!

tag list: @radiomogai , @npder + ask :)

[wsys]

loved ones stability [set of 4]

pt/ loved ones stability [set of 4] /end pt

-> explanation of stability labels can be found here. please read before claiming labels (they're plural terms, and without the context it could be interpreted differently!)

lover stability / partner stability: stability is stable as long as one's partner is in one's life, or only when around them. this term can be swapped to fit any alternative partner term (girlfriend/wife stability, boyfriend/husband stability, etc.).

qpr stability: stability is stable as long as one's queer platonic partner is in one's life, or only when around them. this term can be swapped to fit any alternative partner term (girlfriend/wife stability, boyfriend/husband stability, etc.).

(best) friend stability: stability is stable as long as one's (best) friend is in one's life, or only when around them. this term can be swapped to fit any alternative platonic term.

family stability: stability is stable as long as one's family member is in one's life, or only when around them. this term can be swapped to fit any family member term (sibling stability, cousin stability, aunt/uncle stability, parent stability, etc.).

loved ones can be in system, in another system, or completely externally.

coined on: july 26 2025 (by us)

+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked (n/a for these flags); any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!)

tagging: @radiomogai , @npder + ask :)

[wsys]

made a little system flag :3 with colors from our sp hehe

[wsys]

vactional stability + vactioner (role)

vactional stability: a stability label(link) for a headmate who's only stable long enough or during the time it takes to give another/the others a break. this headmate may be a soother, a task handler, a temporary host or cohost, or fill in any other role. they become unstable when they don't have a role to fill in. alternatively, this headmate may literally only be stable during a bodily vacation or break.

vactioner: a role for a headmate who intentionally and consensually gives others breaks. this role is very similar to and can be considered an alternative to a substitute or chameleon role, but is intended as a more consensual, positive, and intentional stand-in. headmates may be described as very easy-going, relaxed, fun-loving, and chill (but of course don't have to be). they may also be considered as soothers, task handlers, temporary hosts or cohosts, or any other technical role (either long-term or only when filling in roles). this headmate may also, in addition to or instead of this description, take it on themselves to front primarily during bodily vacations or breaks - often to ensure it is enjoyable and fulfilling.

these are intended as plural terms; any system (of any origin, etc.) can use them.

coined on: july 25 2025 (by us)

+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked (n/a for these flags); any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!) @radiomogai

[wsys]

source stability [set of 3]

-> explanation of stability labels can be found here.

source stability: a stability label where a headmate is only stable as long as their source content is active, or only as long as their system is actively engaging with their source content.

spinterest stability: a stability label where a headmate is only stable as long as their source content is active, or only as long as their system is actively engaging with their source content. however, the source content is specifically one or more of their system member's special interests, or a collective special interest. exclusive to those with asd / autism (spectrum disorder).

first two icons directly inspired by this flag template.

hyperfix stability: a stability label where a headmate is only stable as long as their source content is active, or only as long as their system is actively engaging with their source content. however, the source content is specifically one or more of their system member's hyperfixations, or a collective hyperfixation. exclusive to those with adhd / attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.

-> spinterest stability + hyperfix stability suggested by @absiinthe :)

these are plural terms open to any plural (no matter origin, etc.) and only exclusive (to those with autism/adhd) if using the sp/in or hyperfix specific terms.

coined on: july 24 2025 (by us)

+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked; any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!)

[wsys-coining]

HI i'm absolutely loving your stability terms :] plspls take your time, but would you be able to make a stability term related to autism?

likeee as an example, we're more likely to have folks fuse when we're no longer holding a special interest in their source!!!

it could be called something like "special interest / spinterest stability" and maybe there could also be an accompanying one for ADHD like "hyperfixation stability"!!!

thank you so much whether you coin these or not, your terms are vvv neat

omg we literally have a term exactly like this on our list to make 😭🫶 great minds think alike!! will totally add these two more specific ones (for sp/ins + fixations!) to the post tho, good idea :)

[wsys]

somatic recognition

(soma = the appearance one has internally/in headspace) [x]

the (often euphoric) experience of seeing your internal appearance reflected in external mirrors, pictures, or videos - despite having no, minimal, or limited actual similarities between your internal and external appearance. this feeling or experience makes it feel like, when looking at mirrors/photos/videos, one can actually see one's internal appearance instead of, or in combination with, the physical body's appearance.

this may be due to externally changing your appearance to look more like yourself, expecting to see your internal appearance when looking at yourself, seeing your body language presented in the physical body, or could happen without reason/for a different reason. this is different from a hallucination given that the viewer cannot physically see themselves as they are in vivid exactness, and knows they cannot, but it instead feels like a trick of the mind that they almost can.

this term was made for and with plurals in minds; if you can relate to the definition for another reason, you are free to use the 1st and 3rd versions of the flag (the two without the "&" symbol). please just be wary of the term "soma" being a plural term, and instead replace that word with whatever other identity appearance you have (ie: "alterhuman recognition", "fictiokin recognition", "sona recognition", etc.). remakes or recolors of this flag to match said alternative terms are welcomed/encouraged.

coined on: july 24 2025 (by us)

+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked (n/a for this flag); any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!)

[wsys]

ASPD special person stability [set of 3]

-> continuation of this set. explanation of stability labels can be found here. please read before claiming labels (they're plural terms, and without the context it could be interpreted differently!)

partner in crime stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their partner in crime is in their life, or the collective's life. the partner in crime may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their partner in crime is not around, or only feel unstable if their partner in crime were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with aspd / antisocial personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here.

social person/circle stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their social person/circle is in their life, or the collective's life. the social person/circle may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their social person/circle is not around, or only feel unstable if their social person/circle were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with aspd / antisocial personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here.

exception person stability: a stability label where one is only stable while their exception person is in their life, or the collective's life. the exception person may be in one's own system, another system, or an external person/collective. users may become unstable while their exception person is not around, or only feel unstable if their exception person were to leave their life entirely. this term is exclusive to those with aspd / antisocial personality disorder.

color picked from this flag; icon from here.

requested by anon; again, original flags by @the-label-sanctuary.

coined by us on july 24 2025, made with plurals in mind, and exclusive to people with antisocial personality disorder (diagnosis status doesn't matter).

+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked; any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!)

[wsys]

stress-unstress collective stability

a stability label(link) for collectives/plurals/systems/+ whose stability fluctuates based on stress levels.

for example, under stressful circumstances, a system may be more prone to system collapses or other mass dormancy/fusion/fragmentation events; and, when not stressed, the system is more stable. or, the reverse may be true; a system may be more unstable when they're not stressed and stable when they are stressed. this can be for any reason.

this is a plural term and can be used by anyone.

+ obligatory note that this is not a recoin of any term, and if there is a term similar/exact to this, consider this an alternative. the only inspiration for the flag's appearance is linked; any others are merely coincidence. uploads to other sites okay with credit + please tell us (just send an ask or something!)

coined on: july 24 2025 (by us)