Setting the record straight in the roleplay community about Nat/Lotus/tnt8402
So. I tried to do this privately but apparently, she does not want to co-operate so I'm going to tell the truth about what happened on Aces High. One of the many sites that Nat/Lotus got kicked from.
Nat had an argument with a member on the site(M), leading M to block Nat. Nat was venting to me about it which I had no issue with but I gave Nat the advice to give M a chance to wrap their mind around the situation because M was still willing to RP with Nat just needed some space for a while. Nat tried to push another site member (N) to go to M to ask as a go-between. I explained to Nat that it was a bad idea that it could lead to N getting in trouble with the admin for getting in between a situation between two other members which led to an argument between myself and Nat leading to me blocking Nat for my own sanity. I also went to an admin of the site informing them of what happened.
Nat started badmouthing me to N, making N feel uncomfortable. N then went to the admin about the situation, leading to the admin having a conversation with Nat and Nat getting kicked. There were also multiple other people from the site who went to the admin about issues with Nat. And after getting kicked she went to one of the few people on the site who knew nothing about the situation and started to badmouth myself as well as other members of the site trying to turn her against us.
When Nat first joined this site she and I bonded about having similar problems on past sites but as I spoke more to her I realized that our situations hadn't been the same. My reason for leaving a site were not the same as Nat causing drama leading her to be kicked off sites.
She has been kicked from at least five sites that I know of for the same problems. Pushing things with people. She also tried to put a rift between myself and my fiancé who is on the site as well and upon warning others I know in the community about her I found out we were not the first RP couple she tried to put a rift between.
-Cynthia
@rpcburnbook @tnt8402