#actually aspec

[gazazabad]

And I woke up rested asf😌

[metale--deidara]

after catching up with all the controversy regarding the quote unquote new asexual flag and seeing how it centers mostly to how usamericans view interculturalism and race, and how loveless or romance unlabeled aces are excluded from it (confirmed by the creator themselves and they seem to also be an exclusionist of loveless aces, making bold claims that there's no such thing as loveless aces but aces averse to the "western definition of romantic love" (whatever that means)), I'll proceed to name this new flag the Usamerican asexual flag and keep using the old one.

If this pisses someone off, sorry not really sorry. I'm an adult with responsibilities, a job, and loveless ace friends that I value more than whatever someone from the us may think of me or them for not feeling love.

[lexiconne]

Being the type of aroace who only likes romance/sex/whatever in fiction is really funny because I kind of see it like I do magic in that I get really into it when it's fake but if you tried to tell me you do that in actual real life I would simply Not Believe You

It's like

Watching an animated couple kiss/do other coupley things: Wow this is such a nice character moment! The artistry of this scene really speaks to the characters an--

Watching a live action scene of the same nature: why are the real people doing fake people stuff. this is so awkward. im skipping this episode

[shenthenarc]

Wanting to be loved and given affection but not wanting the obligation and expectation of reciprocating in a romantic way </3

[dirtysenner]

Hunting spam bots under the asexual tag is a sport at this point.

Feel free to put any spam accounts in the comments as tips for other bot hunters

Got 45 officially flagged by Tumblr for review

[wtv-i-feel-like-saying-atm]

unironically hate it when people casually use/reclaim the term “pervert”, it’s so gross to me.

[melancholylakeentity]

It’s not that I’m unlovable, but I never feel lovable enough to be anyone’s first pick, or favorite. Perhaps it’s selfish, but I want to be someone’s first person to go to when they hear good or bad news. I want to lose my inhibitions, emotionally vomit the thoughts I’ve been repressing, and have someone stay and listen and care instead of deciding I’m too much. I’d rather not dwell on if I want something romantic or platonic or in between and the nuances of that, I just know that I want someone that will always ask me to be their plus one- out of genuine want, and not obligation. Someone who will always want to come home to me.

[emily-wesley3]

Aspec Bingo Card by @aroandaces

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