If I rushed for a sorority a year ago and I now want to rush for a different one a year later, will I be black balled? I was rejected from org 1 and I have continued to do my research and realized it was not for me in the first place. I am not conflicted as I don’t want my peers to judge me, but I know these organizations are for life and I also don’t want to make a decision based on my classmates.
You are going to be judged. That's not only life, but that's part of sorority life: being assessed for suitability in a chapter.
This is why friendships are important. If someone knows and understands your story, they can vouch for you when you are not around.
--Uncle Rashid












