Being Her Beta Male Orbiter
I started talking to a girl, let's say her name is Amanda, I feel like I'm going to be talking about her a lot. I'm definitely becoming her Beta Orbiter, and I think she knows.
I had been seeing her at work, we would briefly talk to each other everyday, asking each other questions, joking with each other, quickly becoming friends. I ended up asking for her number before long, and she gave it to me. We've texted each other almost everyday since then. She'd ask me about myself a lot, she was definitely being flirtatious, and she would even ask me questions pertaining to sex.
BUT, only a 2 or 3 weeks into this our new friendship, did she reveal she was romantically involved with someone, she was totally stinging me along! She teases me a lot. She teased that I was now her new male friend that she can keep for when she needs advice on guys, and that I was "friendzoned" (her words!)
She said it all in a teasing manner, but we all know a lot of truth is said in jest. I later pressed her on what she said about me, that I was just her "guy friend", and that I was "friendzoned", and she doubled down. She said she was not joking when she said I was in the friend zone (that got me so excited), and that she had no intention of romantically pursuing me right now. She admitted though, that she was worried I'd stop talking to her after she revealed all this, and said she really liked talking with me, and would be upset if we were to stop talking over this. I told her that I was not offended at all by her telling me I was friendzoned, and that I really appreciated her being direct with me. I think by me outright showing to her that I will allow her to so cruely tease me, and telling her that I liked that she so directly defined my role in our relationship for me, that I have shown her I will be totally passive in our relationship, and that I don't expect anything in return for all the attention and affirmation I give her, just that I want to be able to give her attention and affirmation, and that I want our friendship.
I think she did definitely see this all as a submissive gesture towards her, because I swear she's only gotten more dominant towards me since!
