Nov 13, 2018
do you have a identity or flag for someone who is a lesbian, or like. otherwise feels romantic attraction, but is only comfortable w alterous relationships?? thank u!
I’ve found a couple options that might work for you!
Philto-: an orientation in which a person can feel attraction and their associated acts, but does not desire relationships associated with that form of attraction and may quickly get bored of them.
There’s also an identity called “Platonifocal”, where an individual puts more emphasis on their platonic relationships compared to their sexual and/or romantic relationships. Perhaps something like “Altefocal” could be useful for those that focus on their alterous relationships?