Hello, fandomites.
So, I learned about the allegations regarding AvidMc and Marma1ade. I’m disgusted, I feel betrayed, and most of all I feel awful for the creators who have had to interact with two toxic and manipulative individuals.
First and foremost, we need to acknowledge the victims, and give them space to tell their stories if they so choose. I will be waiting at least a month before I post anything regarding Avid and Marm’s characters again, or longer if that is needed.
After that, I’ve chosen to still post headcanons, fanart, and maybe even write fanfiction about their characters, as I believe in separating art from the artist in most cases. I believe it’s possible. However, I do not support either content creator. I will not be watching any of their videos, and have already unfollowed and unsubscribed from them.
One important aspect of interacting with one another as we go forward is respecting each others choice to seperate art from artist, or move away from the work entirely. As long as you do not support these creators directly, liking their characters is not indicative of your or someone else’s moral standing. I would like for us to respect each decisions, and to not spread hate if we disagree. Also, if someone expresses support for one of these creators, i think we should gently inform them in case they are new and unaware of the recent allegations. Not everyone is at the right place at the right time to find these things out. We have built a wonderful community, and i think many of us would hate for it to be ripped apart by interpersonal discourse.
All of my posts from now on regarding either creator’s characters will include the tag “Anti Avid” or “Anti Marm”. Unless I forget because it’s a new habit and I’m a fairly forgetful individual sometimes.
To everyone who has been hurt by Avid and Marmalade, my heart goes out to you.
To the victims, I’m sorry about what you have had to go through. We’re here to listen if you wish to talk.
And to my fellow community members, we’re in this together. They made the content, but we made the community. And they can never take that away from us.














