What is the Golden Mean Fallacy? You keep talking about it
It’s a pretty well-known idea. Here’s wikipedia on the subject, and here’s TVtropes’ take.
In a nutshell: The Golden Mean Fallacy (also called argument to moderation) is the fallacious assumption that the correct or most reasonable belief is the one exactly halfway between the two “sides” of an issue. For example, the halfway point between feminists and sexists, between SJWs and Nazis, between the left and the right.
There are a lot of people whose immediate response to two groups arguing is to assume that the right answer is in the middle and that each group represents one “extreme.” I think this instinct comes from what we’re taught to do to solve inter-personal conflicts as children, but it doesn’t apply to the adult world and it really doesn’t apply to moral or political arguments. (It often doesn’t even apply to children, and may be one of the reasons a lot of bullies don’t get punished. “Oh, he called you a faggot and threw you into the wall? Eh, I bet both sides have a point.”)
The two main logical problems with this fallacy are:
1) The two loudest groups do not necessarily represent the most extreme beliefs that exist.
Just because two groups are opposed doesn’t make them automatically two extremes. Hillary Clinton was (is) opposed to Donald Trump, but that doesn’t make her the extreme left. By the standards of the rest of the country, she represents the center. By the standards of some European countries she would be the center right. It all depends on context and what’s considered to be allowable in “reasonable public discourse” at the moment. (See The Overton Window for more on this.)
2) Something being halfway between two extremes does not inherently make it right.
Let’s say Person A says “We should kill all the Jews” and Person B says “We should not kill any Jews.” The middle ground between those two things would be something like “We should kill SOME Jews.” But obviously that is not any kind of reasonable or moral solution. In some cases, one side is just obviously right. In other cases, the right answer may exist to the left or right of both sides, or outside of the discussion entirely. That doesn’t mean the answer CAN’T be directly in the middle, but simply being in the middle doesn’t make it right.
I hope that helps as a run down. It’s one of the most common responses I’ve see to Trump vs. people who hate Trump. People often use this fallacy to write off or ignore both sides, and as a result a lot of GMF people will end up at the conclusion that they should do nothing, which can be very dangerous (see above completely made up example involving Jews and the murder thereof). I think it’s something everyone needs to understand. I cannot stress enough how important it is.