Feb 22
“don’t assume someone’s gender” also applies if you think they look cis btw. it doesn’t just mean “don’t assume someone’s gender if they’re gender non-conforming”. i shouldn’t need to “look nonbinary” for you to even consider that i might be.
#im literally fucking begging people to just ask me my pronouns for once#instead of just immediately going ‘boobs+sort of femme=cis woman’ and using she her#we need to fucking destroy the idea that there’s a way a nonbinary person looks. entirely.#sometimes nb people who (appear to be) amab present in a masculine way THEYRE STILL NONBINARY#i thought we got over this like a decade ago its so fucking basic#why is this so hard. genuinely. why has ‘nonbinary’ just become a third gender to some people#instead of just being a way to describe someone who is. not in the gender binary. hello. can anyone hear me.#exorsexism
