#cis passing

[ranchbeetle-termalbum]

Transmasc passing tip: Say "real shit" more

[tskyliestarx]

angelcore but make it fish🏳️‍⚧️

#dollsoftiktok #protectthedolls #angelcore #doll #transgirl ##cispassing #transmodel

[transmascpolls]

Transmascs on T: how long on HRT did it take you to start passing as cis masc?

Passed without T / before taking T

Less than 3 months on T started passing

Around 3-6 months on T started passing

Around 6 months to 1 year on T started passing

Around 1 year to 3 years on T started passing

Around 3 to 5 years on T started passing

Over 5 years on T started passing

Been over 5 years on T and still don’t yet pass

Been over 1 year on T and still don’t yet pass

Been less than 1 year on T and still don’t yet pass

Other answer / it’s complicated / on HRT but intentionally non-passing

See results / not on HRT / not transmasc

Voting ended onJun 10

[fireh0under]

being trans and living as the average cis guy is weird because i completely forget there are trans people who haven't come out to their families or their surroundings. that aren't percieved as who they really are. but i also forget that not everyone is trans and that cis people's brains are wired differently than mine is

it's kinda lonely when you think about it

[flannelettefish]

being a cis passing trans man is weird as hell because what do you mean its not 2021 anymore and people dont see me and immediately know im a trans little queer. what. what do you mean im just a random guy now. what the fuck man i was special i was cool even

[auntbibby]

"""passed as nonbinary""" briefly today in a funny way

i was out for a walk with my support roommate today. up ahead an older man was shoveling the slush. i said "hi!".... he said "Are u out for a walk on this bueatiful day??"... i said "yeah!!! its nice out."

he smiled and said "Atta'......" he paused for a second.... "-Good idea!!!"

i laughed internally & said "thank u!" and kept walking.

(i think he was gonna say "Atta Boy or Atta Girl..... but he couldnt figure out which one i was LOL)

see, confusing cis ppl with your gender expression can be wholesome too!!!

[thejanewaytoherseven]

Being an intersex butch lesbian who is fem!passing can be a lot. I've decided to just roll with it and be myself, though.

[emotboyswag]

The bittersweet nature of "passing" as a trans person

I have no regrets in my transition except this one thing which i find it hard to express bcs i dont wanna sound ungrateful for being a passing trans person.

my disclaimer to this post is: it is hard to be a non passing trans person and non passing trans people are far more vulnerable than passing trans people. Also passing is not every trans persons goal. Although it is one of my goals in my transition im not saying "i have it now i regret it" im just gonna say kinda like. a sadder side to passing.

pre T i would say i passed like 60% of the time to cis ppl and when i wasnt seen as a dude theyd always either ask my pronouns or like ask my gender (i live in a pretty liberal place). i was quite rarely out and out just misgendered like maybe 5% of the time in the basically 7 years i lived as a pre T trans person (not including ppl who misgendered me on purpose) but i was sooo clocky to trans people like i am a v socially awkward guy but i found it easy to make trans friends when i met trans people irl when i was pre T bcs they mostly knew and we kinda were drawn together.

Im now a year and 8 months on T and i love passing i pass genuinely 100% of the time even when im not binding (and i have a larger chest that im very dysphoric about) and i have a cis passing voice. I often have a lot of like. not imposter syndrome about it but i have bad dysphoria and often assume im not gonna pass when i do or assume i look more like a girl than i do. Also im 5'3 and have kinda long hair (not long but i used to have it super short and now its a bit longer) but im just seen as a cis guy. so like i am not pretending i dont love passing it makes my life soo much easier and lessened my dysphoria.

What i will say is i miss the immediate kinship of meeting another trans person or being in the same room as another trans person and both knowing ur trans or becoming friends bcs ur trans or automatically having someone to pair up w in a group of strangers bcs u both know ur trans. Also on nights out i miss meeting new ppl and just talking to each other about being trans bcs we automatically recognise each other. like i miss the solidarity u feel as a trans person when u seen another one rather than trans ppl assuming im cis and me actively making an effort to mention im trans around new trans ppl. also i miss that trans ppl used to feel automatically safe around me whereas now i know bcs im perceived as a cis man sometimes they feel on edge. idk its just bittersweet i think <3