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I am nonbinary, my body is nonbinary. I will not sit in silence

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I’m so overwhelmed. I recently realized that I’m nonbinary but my mind is plaguing me with so many doubts and questions, and I don’t even know how to begin to sort through them all. I’m sorry if this is the wrong place for this ask but I just don’t even know where to go from here and what my next steps should be. Any advice you have or even just an encouraging word would mean the world to me right now.

Hi! First of congratulations on working out you're nonbinary! Gender is confusing at times and I'm proud of you for working yours out.

Im not sure what doubts you have, but I'm guessing one is "What if im faking it?" And the answer is you can't be. Faking something is a known choice, you can not fake something without your knowledge.

I do suggest going through blogs like this one to surround yourself with nonbinary positivity. It does help feeling more secure. I would however try to avoid reading other people's anxious messages about their gender, just read the replies. Specifically on my blog, I've tried to keep good tags on posts. I suggest blacklisting "questioning" and going through the "positive" tag.

I hope this has helped and that you have a wonderful day!! Much love 🐞💕❤

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How to be attractive:

1. Be you

2. Congratulations, you are now attractive

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to anon who was amab & says they relate to afab enbies bc they want to have a more feminine body to be more masculine-looking in: im the same but the other way around, it’s pretty normal!

Leaving this here 😊

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As a young enby, seeing adult nonbinary people just living their lives gives me so much hope for my future

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Hi I'm currently questioning and very unsure of what I'm doing. Do you have any tips for what to look for in figuring out your gender? One especially weird thing for me is I see afab masc-nonbinary people and relate to them (I'm amab), like I wish I had a more feminine body that I could be masculine-leaning with. Does that make any sense? Probably not lol

My main tips are try anything out that you think might suit you. Find what makes you the most comfortable and content with who you are and roll with it. Also, nothing is set in stone, so do whatever you like.

It’s totally normal to see certain people and relate to them and want to have the same experiences as them. It’s not weird at all and makes a lot of sense.

I wish you luck and safety, my friend. As always, if there’s any kind words anyone wishes to add, feel free to reply or reblog :)

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hi! i only just realized i'm (probably??) nb and now i want to experiment with my gender presentation. do you have any links to nb/andro/gnc fashionspo tumblrs? thank you!

That's great! I'm proud of you!!

I don't know of any fashion inspo blogs, it's not really my cup of tea, so I'll open it to my followers!

If you know of any nb/andro/gnc or anything that's like that, fashion inspiration blogs please tag them or leave them below. Thank you!!

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Hi!!! As an NB person who suffers from mild dysphoria, this blog makes me really happy and gives me a feeling of safety. Keep it up!💜💜💜

Aw thank you so much! I'm so glad this blog has helped you 💜💛