Personally, I always feel so validated by amab and intersex nonbinary people just existing and doing their thing. Like, I see a lot of people get WAY too comfortable implying that nonbinary = "lesser transmen", or worse, "diet-woman", and I'm over it. I hope amab and intersex enbies realize that their mere existence validates everyone<3
I'm also over acting like your assigned sex is some secret you have to hide or be ashamed of. The idea you should be ashamed of being assigned a different gender than you identify with is just transphobia with a filter on it.
And I don't think it's "Dividing the community" or "making a new binary" to acknowledge and discuss how our birth sex affected our upbringing. We're all nonbinary and it's a good thing that our community is diverse enough to support so many perspectives and unique experiences with gender
