#it upsets me

[sabyg133]

i love skimming through the novels only to find something that pisses me off >.<

crown prince and heir apparent are not interchangeable terms...

for Jinshi to no longer be the crown prince someone else has to be given that title, because it is a formal title that is appointed. Gyokuyou's son holds the rank and title of the crown prince, not because he is the Emperor's first born but because of the deal that Jinshi and the Emperor made that Jinshi would not remain the crown prince once the Emperor had a son to hold the title, and because the Emperor has formally declared Gyokuyou's son as his successor.

Jinshi IS the heir apparent, if something happens to the Emperor the heir apparent is the one that is assumed to step in, not a formal title but a social one. Jinshi is the heir by assumption, as we see in LN15 when someone needs to take over for the Emperor, and it is not anyone of the Gyoku family or faction as an extension of the crown prince but Jinshi as assumed heir.

The conflict that is going on re the succession crisis is largely stemming from arguments about Jinshi being the heir apparent and the want for that to be reformalised with the title of crown prince he lost to Gyokuyou's son, also because if Gyokuyou's son is not the crown prince her position as empress and the power she can wield become a lot more shaky.

i get that crown prince being the first in line, and the heir apparent being the first in line, makes it seem like they are the same but they are different, and it matters which is being used, and i don't like that it seemingly isn't in the apothecary diaries and i have to assume its the fault of Kevin who does not seem to like the phrase crown prince (flash backs to milord heir in LN4, which is also not the same thing) it makes me want to check the Japanese to see if they are being treated as different terms by Hyuganatsu or what because i really am so upset by them being treated so interchangeably in a succession crisis plot

[a-study-in-bullshit]

is it not a shame my native tongue is not mine?

[molath]

I do not like the word sexy very much, like idk I've stopped thinking abt it angrily every time i hear it now but I just remembered how much I don't want to hear it sometimes

[hannigramislife]

Horrifying, thank you!

[ofodoxiiesblog]

I literally just found out a minute ago that Yoko has dementia, but I can't verify it, so I'm trusting the Beatles subreddit, and I'm really upset and shocked by this. Do you know anything about this?..

[mickeyontheside]

I quit my job yesterday because my main boss thought she could walk all over me and quite literally try to bully me.

When a grown adult women in her 40s starts acting like a teenager during a conversation that I've had with them several times in the past 9 months I'd worked there.....yes I absolutely am going to not be calm.

Blaming the employee for your constant lack of not doing your job, ignoring them to the point they (I) have to consistently leave notes both on the schedule and on paper, plus consistently change my availability that is consistently ignored as well, then yes I will tell you I quit on the spot and tell you if you are going to act this way I don't want to work with someone like you.

Why does it piss me off so much? Because she treated me like a child, told me it was all my fault, blatantly lied to my face that I never said anything, told me I should've said something sooner so it all on me, and consistently talk over me/wouldn't let me talk or defend myself at all. It pisses me off that she refused to take accountability and put my mental health in such a strain that I was on the verge of tears and shaking. It pisses me off she gets away with it because our corporate rats and HR dont care.

I'm pissed because I'm trying to start college and need an income until then.

It's a fucking joke that she isn't held accountable for her lack of well being a responsible boss.

[smiggles]

This may or may not come as a surprise to you

But the gore artist can't even kill a mosquito or ant

[tar-afe]

raging kang dae-ho apologist btw. your boy had the most normal, human reaction to the insane shit that was happening and was killed for it. my love for gi-hun will not keep me from being pissed tf off that he essentially killed a young man for being scared