12th House Synastry Observations
Yes, the dreaded and beguiled 12th house (Neptune) ruled by Pisces is the planet of all things spiritual, otherworldly, and divine love. It is the higher octave of Venus because of it's connection to soul mates and unconditional love and devotion, because it is the soul of person that envelopes us. In it's lower octave (which is the default) it is the planet of deception, illusions, delusions, and secrets. After reviewing countless charts these are my personal observations of how the 12th house plays out in each planet in the synastry chart.
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Sun in the 12th house- The house person may not see the Sun person for who they really are, may be disillusioned about them or project attributes or energy onto them they don't carry.
Moon in the 12th house- The house person may feel or intuitively sense that the Moon person is holding back emotionally. The Moon person may have a hard time expressing themselves or being emotionally vulnerable in the connection, the house person may not know how the Moon feels about them or the connection.
Mercury in the 12th house-The house person may hear what they want to hear or may not get clarity on some things they may discover down the line. There can be secrets or things that are hidden from the house person. There could also be lies told or fabrications of the truth.
Venus/Saturn in the 12th house- Venus/Saturn could be keeping the house person a secret, the connection could be hidden or not out in the open. The house person could be confused about the state of the connection or where it is going. Venus/Saturn in the 12th is usually seen in casual relationships, flings, situationships, friends with benefits, sneaky links and affairs, or where one partner is involved with another person(s) and is not being honest about it with the house person.
Mars in the 12th house- Often called the house of hidden enemies in Mars. The house person may not be fully aware of Mars motives, or there could be deception in order to get needs met. The Mars person may be a wolf in sheep's clothing or may be hiding behind a good girl/guy persona, while they are the complete opposite. Usually the house person finds out too late that the Mars person is not the knight in shining armor but a nightmare.
Uranus in the 12th house- Uranus person may appear illusive, can be distant or seem out of reach, there could be sudden ghosting or periods of separation, when closeness is desired by the house person. Uranus unpredictable nature can trigger unresolved abandonment wounds in the house person.
Neptune/Jupiter in the 12th house*- The house person may feel like they have met their person or feel like the connection is meant to be or fated. They can feel as though they have met them before in another life or like the relationship is written in the stars. The house person may feel like they have a telepathic connection with the Neptune/Jupiter person. They can be very forgiving on the Neptune/Jupiter person or feel unconditional love for them no matter what. This connection may blur the lines between what is real and what the house person projecting onto the Neptune/Jupiter person, as they may have a hard time seeing them for who or what they really are.
Pluto in the 12th house- The house person may be constantly triggered by the Pluto person until they undergo the necessary shadow work needed to evolve, the placement is very karmic and spiritual and trigger "The Dark Night of the Soul" for the house person. The Pluto person may mirror back all of the house person's unresolved or unhealed fears and insecurities. The house person can feel heavily bound to Pluto. They can feel vulnerable and exposed in the connection.
Have you had 12th house synastry before? If so how did the connection play out?
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