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This is known as "Dinner Table Syndrome." When a person with any kind of hearing loss, Deaf or late deafened cannot understand the constant conversations and ends up feeling alone, amongst people. This doesn't just happen during the holidays, this happens every day at breakfast, lunch and dinner and at office business meetings. Many times those who are deaf or have hearing loss, choose to eat before or after the table gathering, eat in front of a TV or while reading a book to try to cope with feelings of anger and heartbreak. Tired of the same old, same old because his or her family still has not learned any practical methods and or sign language to feel included or their company refuses to hire a sign language interpreter because it's too costly.

I remember in the late 1980's at the SHHH (Self Help for Hard of Hearing) North of Boston group, at the city of Melrose public library, once a month, we had a nice supportive meeting where we brainstormed our experiences and learned new ways to deal with dinner table syndrome.

One member said she reads a book right at the dinner table. Each time her family began their usual chatter, she'd begin reading. When they gave her rude glances for reading, she would say, "Hey, now you know what it's like to feel ignored." Then continued to read. A lot of us members were surprised she had such bravery to do that.

On the large 11"x14" pad of paper, set up on a painters easel at the meeting, we listed ideas of how to be courteous with family members and co workers to try to feel included during all meals.

*Be sure to sit with your back to a window. Trying to lipread someone sitting in front of a window is "glasshole" torture. The light behind them makes them become a dark shadow, you cannot see their facial features, let alone their lips.

*Suggest people not talk with their mouths full of food, less chances of choking.

*Focus on talking to the person on either side of you or across from you. Don't try to talk to everyone or from long opposite ends of the table. It's too overwhelming.

*Round tables are best for being able to lipread and see sign language. If you can, suggest sitting at a round table at home, the office meeting room and in restaurants.

*Bring a pad of paper & pen or small white board with you. Ask someone sitting near you to be a note taker. Have the person jot down a few words about what's being said. It doesn't need to be a paragraph. Just several words, for example, Betty & Bill expecting baby or Larry work promotion.

Last but not least, invite your hard of hearing and deaf friends to visit and join you during meals so family members can see how you communicate and invite them to learn sign language.

In today's world, we now have the ability to text or talk to text instead of using note paper or whiteboards. Some sign language interpreter apps for smartphones such as Zvrs or Jeanie or Nagish will be able to interpret for you during your family meals or business meetings. Some may charge a fee, check them out before hiring. Most businesses are supposed to provide and pay for any kind of sign language or oral interpreters, they can be tax write offs.

A surefire way to help reduce stress and frustrations that associate with any kind of hearing loss, is comic relief. Jokes usually get people to laugh. One can joke, "Please don't be a window glasshole! I need to sit with the window to my back, to be able to "hear you" thank you." 🪟🤣

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*SHHH is now known as HLAA, "Hearing Loss Association of America."

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Meet the Cast of 'Star Trek: Starfleet Academy' with Holly Hunter, Rober...

Have you seen it yet?

Starfleet Academy!

A Deaf male actor that uses American Sign Language and a hard of hearing female captain, Holly Hunter (The Piano) that became deaf in one ear as a child from the mumps.

Oh my gosh! More actors with hearing issues in major movies or series shows.

I'm so excited to watch this series on Paramount!

Hopefully it continues a long while.

Deafies, Hard of Hearies and Trekkies unite!

It's not impairment, it's differently abled!

Diffabilities can!

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Making Of JOHN WICK 4 - Best Of Behind The Scenes, Stunt Rehearsal, Figh...

Love the 1970's muscle cars, love the Stones song, "Painted Black" sung in French, love Paris France, love the Bully breed and German Shepherd dogs. This was an epic movie! 🙌

For John Wick 5, 🍀hopefully🍀

we would love to see some sign language again like in John Wick 3, (that was an awesome surprise to see!) Maybe create a character or two who wears a hearing aid or cochlear implant and or create someone who woke up deaf to show some signing a conversation through a window or from across a street or across a crowded bar...or... try all three acts? Deafies also "hear noises' by watching shadows move on a wall, seeing reflections in mirrors and windows to know when someone is behind them.

4oo million deaf and hard of hearing people would love to see more sign language in John Wick movies. Just some ideas? 🤔💬

Btw, stunt doubles should get Oscar awards too, they work just as hard as the acting cast does. Curious why they don't give out awards for stunt doubles? Mr. Chad Stahelski should have a few by now. 🏆🏆🏆

Hello, Hollywood???

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The History of William "Dummy" Hoy - A Deaf Baseball Player

This is awesome to watch.

How baseball got the signs for ball and strike... Safe and out.

Good factual history of Dummy Hoy on Memory Monday.

Let's give Steve on YouTube, some props and credits for all his research!

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Now if only... All MLB teams will hire more Deafies and Hard of Hearies! It's 2024. It can and should be done!

Advocate, educate!

Equality and inclusion!

Let's play ball!

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What's the song stuck in your head right now? 🎶🎵🎶

I have the 1980's song, "You May Be Right," by singer Billy Joel.

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It's an old classic song but it's still a great tune to try to mask tinnitus to help calm the ringing in the ears.

Give it a try?

Digital vinyl record art created by "Moi" ☺️

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A little bit of Ai, holiday filter art because some people say it's good to attract attention to help boost followers to view your posts.

Me: Really? Ok, here goes...

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