I am pagan because I am not made to bow. I am not pushed to my knees, my deities do not demand my deference or blind trust regardless of what they do to me.
I am allowed (encouraged even) to set boundaries with my deities.
I chose them, and they chose me in turn. They did not determine that I belonged to them.
They see value in me beyond my worship of them or devotion to them.
And most importantly, I do bow. But I CHOOSE that posture. They earn it from me. I worship them because they're divine, and lovely, specifically to ME. And they give me what I wish for, rather than gifts I never asked for but am somehow still indebted because of.
I am pagan. I am respected by my divinity.











