Dear anyone
Dear Anyone,
You probably don’t know me, but I just wanted to tell you some things.
1. If you’re struggling with living, please don’t give up. I am so proud of you for being alive, I know life is shitty sometimes but those moments of happiness make it worthwhile. I don’t know you but I care about you, don’t forget. If you ever need someone to talk to I am always here.
2. If you love someone and they don’t love you back take time to learn to love yourself. I know you are heartbroken, and you just want to be loved, but the actuality is that they do not reciprocate that feeling, and that’s okay. It’s perfectly fine to be upset, but don’t let that feeling take over your life. Don’t think that you won’t ever be loved because I guarantee that sometime in the near future you will find someone who loves you unconditionally. Don’t force love on someone, someone will love you, you just have to be patient.
3. Love yourself. This is something I have been struggling with for a long time. Many of you can relate with me when it comes to self-esteem. My self esteem is complete shit, and i don’t really like myself, but that shouldn’t stop you from loving yourself. Sure it’ll be hard but putting yourself first, and telling yourself that you are beautiful will make you even more radiant than you are. Hating yourself for all of your flaws is easy, but loving yourself is hard. It won’t be easy to love yourself, but it is worth it.
4. If you are dealing with family problems or friendship problems don’t blame yourself. It is not anyone’s fault. Things happen, and people mess up, but don’t put pressure on yourself and on another person because you/they messed up. I want you to stay strong, and if you ever want to talk about something, I will be here.
5. If you are scared of telling someone something, I want you to tell them. I know it’s hard, and I know you are afraid of being judged, treated differently, or rejected, but it feels so much better after saying what you need to say. If the person(s) treat you any differently then they are most definitely not worth your time. I want you to take a deep breath, and go for it.
There’s so much more i want to write but I’ll leave you with these five tips, I hope you are okay, if not, I hope you get better.
You deserve to be happy.
Love,
isabella~
