Boys, what are you looking for in a Daddy? What are you looking for in a Little?
Adam: Interestingly enough, that's a tough question. I haven't thought about it that much. I just take each relationship as it comes and go from there. But I can give you a foundation of what I might be looking for. In a Daddy I want someone that's sweet but can take charge. Someone that allows me time and space to breathe and loves sweets because I bake a LOT. Someone that's respectful of course and that wants to help me thrive and level up, but will let me help them relax and level up as well. In a Little? It's a bit tougher, but I want them to feel comfortable around me at some point. I want someone that doesn't mind being my taste tester and helper in the kitchen. I want someone that won't be afraid to lean on me when it's needed. I don't mind if they're independent and like to do things on their own at all, but I want them to be able to rely on me when they reach that headspace. At the end of the day, whether it's a CG/L relationship, D/S relationship, or a typical relationship, I want someone that's sweet, genuine, loves cuddling and sweets and that wants to grow as a couple.
Jack: What do I look for? Not much. In a Daddy I want someone that's financially stable and mentally sound. Someone that I can trust to be my true self with and not just some fetishization. And definitely someone that's not too easily jealous. I left a guy for assuming I was flirting with a neighbor and calling the money I earn by stripping "dirty". As for a Little I want someone respectful, sweet, and I don't mind a little brattiness. But at the end of the day I'll work with them and love them and just be what they need for as long as I can. All in all, I look for respect, love, reliability and grace.
Ben: In a Daddy, I look for someone that's creative--especially with punishments because the standard spanking just doesn't work for me. I also look for someone that's going to help me become a better person. I don't always make the best decisions when choosing my friends-- aside from Ethan and Chris and Lamar, who I should really be hanging out with more often. But yeah, someone strong-minded, creative, and that can act as a guide without being super controlling. I wouldn't want to be in a toxic relationship or anything. I'm not exactly daddy material and if I'm a handful already I wouldn't want to imagine trying to wrangle a second me, ya know? But if we're gonna be friends, as long as you aren't a troublemaker and into breaking the law then we might be good friends as Littles.
Chris: Ooh, that's a great question. Personally, I have issues with looking after myself so I look for a Daddy with structure. One that can help me stay on track and not get too immersed in my studies. Studying to be an eye therapist is super hard, but I wanna do it. Also someone that's sweet and loving and doesn't mind experimenting-- especially in the bedroom. As for a Little, I've never really been in that position in a relationship. I'm not much of a dom/daddy material, but I have my moments, like in one poly relationship. I don't mind switching roles once in a while, ya know? But if there's any other Littles out there I'd love to make friends. Especially if we get to have sleepovers.
Lamar: I'm a bit new to this world/dynamic, but what I look for in a Daddy mostly aligns with what I'd look for in a boyfriend in general. So someone nice, nonjudgemental, great with communication that will love me for me, be respectful and not fetishize me for what I have. Ethan knows I haven't had much luck in the love department and he knows how to pick me up when I'm down. But I've had a few guys that have been pretty good Daddies. I just hope that there's more out there. So along with what's already listed, I need someone that can ground me and be there on my bad days. I can't lean on Ethan forever. As for a Little, I'm not exactly looking for one. That may change in the future, but until then, I'm pretty sure Ethan kinda serves as my own Little at times, but that's what best friends are for at times.
Ethan: I kinda like this question a lot, so thanks for asking. In a Daddy I look for someone loving, understanding and that will protect and care for me. And they have to love cuddling, bath time, and lazy days. I also want someone that can match my own libido. It's important that we have chemistry and a similar...stamina. Umm, Littles? That's typically my job in the relationship, thank you very much! But I'm surprised you see me as Daddy material. I'm honored anon.