#natashalunn

[pangpingpong]

I've wasted time with my parents in a restaurant checking my phone underneath the table, to see if a man who didn't really care about me had replied, missing the fact that the people I cared about the most were sitting right in front of me

Natasha Lunn (dalam Conversation on Love)

[unfoldingmoments]

Slow but Sure

Nobody is right for anyone, with Philippa Perry

NL: What are the benefits to falling in love slowly?

PP: What makes a satisfactory coupling is not thinking, he or she is right for me, from the start. Nobody is right for anyone. Actually, what makes somebody right is commitment. Then when you’re committed to each other and you have true dialogue, that means you allow the other to impact upon you and they allow you to impact on them. You’re not rigid and unchanging; you are moved by each other. It’s like two stones rubbing together until suddenly they fit. You have your initial years of sexual attraction and then something deeper can hook in. Rather than having a relationship with your fantasy of that person you begin to have a real relationship with them; you’ve impacted each other enough to actually know each other. And to know someone is to love them. So you make someone the right person and they make you the right person. There isn’t someone the right shape out there for every person – that has to happen in relationships. That’s why relationships get better, because we allow mutual impact.

- Natasha Lunn, “Conversations on Love.”

[thedaimoncoach]

"Riconoscere la tua fragilità, il tuo dolore e la tua incompletezza è una cosa piuttosto romantica da fare. In realtà, un’eccessiva auto-ammirazione ti taglia fuori dalle altre persone, mentre un impegno con la tua stessa vulnerabilità è la chiave per costruire un legame. Quando si tratta di amor proprio non si tratta tanto di amare se stessi, ma di accettare che tutti gli esseri umani hanno i loro lati meno impressionanti, e quindi i tuoi lati meno impressionanti non ti tagliano fuori dalla possibilità di avere una buona relazione. Non significano che sei una persona terribile che non merita amore. Vogliono solo dire che sei parte dell’umanità." #NatashaLunn, #ConversationsonLove Per leggere tutto l'articolo, visita il blog del mio sito thedaimoncoach.com #thedaimoncoach #valeriasquillante #daimon #daimonfriendly #daimonlove #daimonsex #daimonlife #counseling #coachingmilano #coachmilano #counselingmilano #counselormilano #lovepologist #lovecoach #lovecoaching #coachingdellerelazioni #shadowworker #sexcoaching #sexcoach #coachingsessuale #counselingessuologico #psicosintesi #antroposofia #rudolfsteiner #robertoassagioli #massimoscaligero #soulawakening #spiritualawakening https://www.instagram.com/p/CXiMkbOsMq3/?utm_medium=tumblr