Is there a term the opposite of cupio/kalos in the sense of being attracted, but not wanting a relationship?
Besides celibate? There are a few that /may/ fit, especially philto, but I couldn’t find anything that completely fits your description:
Agamy: “A state of not engaging in relationships or marriage.”
Amorplatonic: “Experiencing romantic attraction but only wanting to be in queerplatonic/quasiplatonic relationships.”
Apothi-: ”An orientation defined by repulsion. Whether or not they feel a type of attraction is irrelevant to them due to their repulsion towards the idea of being in that kind of relationship.”
Asocial-: “When you have no desire to be in real life relationships due to anxiety (usually social) or trust issues. The person can have relationships with people over the internet.”
Bellusromantic: “A word for people who are uncomfortable with, repulsed by, or otherwise do not want a committed romantic relationship, but are okay with or interested in some behaviors traditionally associated with romantic attraction. This term does not imply the romantic orientation of the person who uses it.“
Philto-: “An orientation in which a person can feel attraction and desire associated acts, but does not desire relationships and quickly gets bored with them. Coined from the latin root word ‘phil’ and the germanic ‘tol’.Note: differs from akoi- in that a philto- person will not necessarily mind reciprocation, only a formal relationship itself.”
~ Tath
