Kink handbook?!?! What?!?!
I worked for an erotica house back in 2012 (as most people know) and one of the things I had to do was check the quality control on whether or not we were promoting sane, safe, healthy kink. They gave me a handbook. It contained things like bdsm safety, bdsm etiquette, std safety, general body safety and also red flags on how to spot an abusive dynamic masquerading as bdsm.
It was an infinitely interesting time in my life and my brain has never been the same since. Sadly I don’t seem to still have it. The last time I remember reading it was on my old pc, and my dad has since taken that computer and wiped the hard drive. Thankfully.















