ADHD and quitting: there’s also a good sense!
It took decades. Not years. Decades.
Us ADHDers DNF (= do not finish) so many things, that even leaving a book that doesn’t click with us ends up feeling like a failure: here’s another thing I started and will never finish.
After decades of forcing myself through books I did not connect with so as not to “quit”, I realized I’ve been wrong all this time.
A better, more correct way to look at this is - here’s me re-evaluating and realizing that this specific effort is simply not worth it!
Today I quit reading Terry Pratchett’s “The Colour of Magic” a third way in. Not because it wasn’t good, not because I’m a bad reader, and certainly not because I’m a failure.
The book is funny and cool, but at the moment I need characters to deeply connect with. This is not that kind of book.
Glad I realized this was the reason for my very slow advancement with it!
As a farewell to Pratchett, here’s a quote that seems like a description of the path of an ADHD thought: 😁
“In his somewhat defenceless state a stray thought, wandering through the dimensions in search of a mind to harbour it, slid into his brain.”
Starting T. Kingfisher’s “A Wizard’s Guide to Defensive Baking” now!