stiles sfw alphabet pls šššš
For those that don't know, there is an SFW alphabet hehe. Rectifier has ace-friendly options, so though the guys are down to get their freak on, they are also very open to being with potentially sex repulsed mc's or mc's who prefer general intimacy over sexual.
Stiles himself is asexual, and though he isn't sex repulsed, it's not where a lot of his specific intimacy comes from.
Thank you for the ask Len!
A = Affection- Stiles is affectionate in a very passive way, he'd rather show you through daily actions as opposed to big words or grandiose gestures. Like making you your tea how you like, covering you up with an extra blanket, letting you sleep in (and totally not because he also wants to or anything...)
B = Best friend - Stiles as a best friend isn't all that different from how he is as a lover. For him, his best friends are people he respects the most, whose values and opinions he cares to listen to.
C = Cuddles- Adores a cuddle. Can't get enough, he can also cuddle all night since he tends to get really cold at night.
D = Domestic- Stiles was married once, so domestic life is one he is intimately familiar with. He does what he can to not be a burden in your life. He's very aware of how lazy and lackadaisical he can be with certain tasks, but he makes sure he's never like that with you and you guys' relationship. So he will cook and clean, slowly but surely.
E = Ending - If Stiles broke up with someone it would be pretty clinical. He'd talk it out like they're at a work meeting or how he delivers especially sensitive medical news. If Stiles feels the need to break up with someone it's because he's lost general feelings for them and has let that part of himself die. He tends to hold onto things forever.
F = Fiance(e) - Stiles is a slow burner, for reasons that are spoilers for his main route conflict. Stiles isn't looking to jump headfirst into another relationship. Also, because he's older he's convinced that part of his life is over. So it'll take a while before he settles down. Though, when he does, he will give it all his limited energy.
G = Gentle - Stiles is very tender and gentle. He's sensitive to the emotions of others, and never pushes as he's had his own boundaries and such overstepped. Stiles is very intelligent and aware of how words, little actions, and such can affect people.
H = Hugs- Loves hugs, but isn't physically affectionate with friends or really most people. In love though, it would be something reserved for you both. He also gives nice hugs, since he's so tall and can rest his chin on the top of your head. He can lean his weight into you.
I = I love you - It's going to take awhile, but Stiles knows what he wants. And if he's in love there isn't much he can do about it, other than accept and deal with it.
J = Jealousy - Stiles likes to think he isn't jealous, but he is. He likes to think he's above acting so childishly. But when it comes to his partner, the bond you guys have is something that he isn't willing to share. A sassier side of him certainly comes out, trying to take down the pursuer with his sharp tongue.
K = Kisses- Stiles has to be comfortable to kiss someone. He likes them, but there is a certain expectation that comes with it so he's always been a bit hesitant. But when he's comfortable, kisses are like hugs, something he only shares with you. They are soft, maybe a little cold, but soft. Not dry and chapped. He has to dip down to kiss you, and enjoys having your arms around his neck when he does so. It's worth a little back pain.
L = Little ones - Stiles is an uncle, so he's very good with kids. He's level with them, he demands respect, and knows just what to do when they start acting out. Though he wouldn't ever want to be a father, far too much responsibility.
M = Morning - Slow, quiet, and comfortable. Stiles' morning routine when the world isn't in a state of disarray would have him laying in bed for 2 hours before he crawls out of bed. Waking up is a feeling Stiles hates a lot, but with someone there beside him to wake up to, it makes it a lot more bearable.
N = Night - Stiles winds down very quickly, nights are short, Stiles always attempts to read his book, but ends up falling asleep with it in his lap. You're forced to turn off the lights and tuck him in almost always.
O = Open- Stiles is careful with how open he is with people. As a doctor in an active warzone, you never know who is a spy or who can say the wrong thing to someone. He's very thoughtful and strategic about how he speaks with people. So if he ever discloses how he's feeling, then you know you're someone special.
P = Patience - It takes a minute for Stiles to get fired up, but some people (cough PERCY cough) are really good at getting under his skin. Even so, he can get angry and not act on those feelings, feeling like expelling that kind of energy is never really worth it.
Q = Quizzes - Stiles remembers anything you say to him. He could easily recall your birthday, your fears, your favorite foods and how you like it prepared. He's super attentive with those he cares about.
R = Remember - For Stiles his fondest memories of you are those where you were patient with him, where you didn't push him when he wasn't ready. He admires your willingness to wait for him, and give him the space to open up in the way he wants to.
S = Security - Stiles is very protective over you, he wouldn't hesitate to do things he'd never do for your sake. He doesn't let people in very often, and he isn't scared to put his life on the line for yours.
T = Try - Stiles is a great date, he is detail oriented and would ensure to be on time, pick out what you like, get a gift, have things to talk about. He's prepared, mature, and responsible.
U = Ugly - Stiles' ugly side is that he can hold a grudge like no one's business. Even if he doesn't act on it, he will never forget how you made him feel and it takes awhile before he can move past even the most mundane betrayals. He will never let it go that you woke him up an hour earlier than you'd agreed to, for example.
V = Vanity - Stiles once used to care about his fashion and how he presented himself, but with life, war, and age all those things became the least of his concerns. He looks how he looks, he doesn't think he's unattractive, and even if he did, it doesn't mean he's not attractive in other ways. Being pretty has no bearing on how good of a friend or doctor he is.
W = Whole - Once Stiles lets you in, he can never feel complete without you there. It's what's so scary about love for him.
X = Xtra- A fun fact about Stiles is that he is actually Wren's brother in law, Stiles was married to Wren's older brother at one point. A very long time ago...
Y = Yuck - Stiles doesn't like a partner who can't take things seriously. Who don't accept responsibility, or are generally content to let the world go on without doing anything to better it.
Z = Zzz- Stiles is literally sloth. Sleeping is his favorite pass time, if it was up to him he'd sleep the rest of his life away. If you let him sit in one place for too long he is 9/10 going to be asleep in minutes.