Honestly I kind of was ignoring River for awhile, but I am thoroughly pissed off with that man once again.
First of all, both he and Lorynna have participated in faking a screenshot of @/never-tell-me-what-to-do admitting to supposed "rape". This was after River claimed he believes that NTMWTD was a minor, so River aided in the spread of very harmful misinformation of a person who he believed was a minor (although I'd like to state that there has been no evidence provided that NTMWTD is a minor besides pure speculation on River's part, and him believing that NTMWTD is simply "too immature" to be an adult, obviously because any intelligent and mature woman would be flocking towards River and his genius ideas! /s).
This isn't the first time River has been innappropriate with minors (and people whom he believes to be minors), as he has repeatedly dm'd minors regarding the issue of him manipulating and abusing his wife, and he also attempted (and failed miserably) to manipulate and guilt trip myself (I am 17, you can have a look at our argument on my page starting here).
Secondly, he then went on to accuse NTMWTD of being a TIM:
(credit to @grunfeld-river-archive for the screenshot)
The content of this screenshot are heavily ironic, the jokes write themselves honestly, as he himself is a prime example of the "TIM" writing style. He also claims he doesn't get involved in radblr and stays out of our tags and online space, and yet he involves himself in our drama.
In this screenshot he is also accusing NTMWTD of being the owner of the satire @extgirl account and the archive blogs which collect proof of River being abusive and overstepping boundaries within the radblr community.
And yet, he is not only aiding in accusing an innocent woman — one whom he believes is a minor — of rape, now he is falsely accusing a woman of being a male simply because she rightfully disagrees with him. This isn't the first time he has done this:
(credit to @grunfeld-river-archive once again, I won't be adding anymore evidence in this post to prevent cluttering, but if you check out her pinned message you can easily find more evidence for all of my point in this post. Massive thank you to the owners of both the archive blogs for taking their time to document everything River has done! 🫶)
He continuously accuses women who disagree with him or call him out of being TRAs or TIMs. I think it's fairly obvious that this is a tactic he is using to silence any woman who speaks out against him, and an attempt to shun them from the radblr community. He is a known manipulator, a known misogynist, and a known abuser; is it really that far-fetched that he would hold accusations of being a TIM over women's heads, threatening to get them shunned from the only community they can speak freely, simply because he doesn't like that they dislike him?
I'm making this post not only to call River out (again), but to encourage other women to feel confident calling him out as well. He truly may try to accuse you of being a TIM, but they are simply accusations from a very, very clearly insecure man who knows he means nothing; he has nothing to add to the world, the only power he has is whatever power he gets from his abuse of women. Do not let him get to you. Do not let him scare you into silence. Do not let him take your power. Speak out against this man and put him back into his place; he's gotten way too comfortable in places where he does not belong.
And lastly I just want to say that @/never-tell-me-what-to-do does NOT write like a man, it's actually laughable that he even tried to accuse her of this in the first place. It is very obvious that she is a woman. Men write with a certain arrogance, a certain aloofness about them, see: @criticalriverboating / @river-grunfeld. As I said earlier, hee is a prime example of the "male/TIM" writing style. NTMWTD is a confident and passionate woman which clearly comes through on her posts, and while I have my issues with her, claiming any different or saying that she is a male trying to infiltrate female spaces, is inaccurate and wholly misogynistic.
