#selfship confession void

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This may be the autism talking but does anyone else sometimes have to interact with your favorite F/Os/their sources at arm's length cause if you engage directly you get so excited you feel genuinely overwhelmed or am I Strange and Unusual

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I said it before and I'll say it again

Selfshipping being rebranded into yumeshipping and becoming a trend should never have happened. Now it's all a popularity contest. Who has the cutest SI or OC, who has more merch and cutesy commissions. I miss it when it was just selfshipping and we were all more or less weirdos doing cringey things 🥲

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To my fellow disabled selfshippers: You deserve love

♡ You're allowed to imagine/make content of your F/O(s) helping you keep up with your mobility aids

♡ You're allowed to imagine/make content of your F/O(s) tracking when you next need to take your meds

♡ You're allowed to imagine/make content of your F/O(s) taking care of you on your lowest days, when flare-ups feel like they'll never end or you can't get out of bed

You're not "hard to love", "a bother", or anything like that. They love you, romantically or otherwise. They want to see you comfortable and happy. You don't have to be miserable all the time. You can make cute scenarios that include your disability, add it into your sona's lore, and think of ways they'd lift your spirits or stand up for you. They love you, not in spite of your disability, but because it's part of you

This especially applies to selfshippers with conditions society likes to ignore. NPD, ASDP, schizophrenia-spec disorders— ones so bad you need constant bedrest, aids, or caretaking. They'll never judge you for any of it. They'll make accommodations for you anytime. They want you to feel loved

You deserve to feel loved

I love you /p

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I wish that some people didn't treat selfship tumblr like a popularity contest. Everyone should just have fun and be happy! Focusing on followers and who's the more popular selfshipper of which f/o is very unhealthy imo.

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imagine your f/o. that's it.

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Hey non artist self shippers, I see you! You're just as important and valid as everyone else, okay? You don't need to draw to be loved the most by your f/os (⁠^⁠^⁠)

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Yeah my f/o did all that. No there's no excuse. Yes I am still kissing them sloppy style.

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