#soft dom things

[switch-puppygirl]

the best part of riding my love and facing him is watching his smile fade away and his face gets red and his breath get heavy and then he grabs my hips firmly and help me move up and down and and

[softdomhailie]

soft but stern words are just 😍

☝️☝️☝️☝️

"Do you want to repeat that?"

"I'll give you one more go at that answer, sweetheart, I must have misheard you."

"Are you done?"

"Do you understand?"

"There must be someone else in this room you're talking to, because I know you'd never dream of talking to me like that."

And then, calmly whispered, lips touching their ear? "You just wait until we're home."

Yep, here for it big time!!! 🤣❤️

[voidcow]

#SoftDommeThings

Few things make me as happy as helping an adorable sub do things that are domestic but that they need help with.

Getting up and getting dressed in the morning

Getting food/making food

Making sure they take their meds and stay hydrated

Really just... my favourite part of being a domme is making sure the adorable cuties who obey me take care of themselves and looking out for their happiness.

Be it Mommy, Goddess, Empress, or something more niche, I love taking care of others, whatever they call me.

[hailhailsatan]

I've been thinking more about how soft dom's use questions as a way for their sub's to feel that soft control? And to encourage communication? Especially if they already know the answer, and give you that look 👀👀

Are you sure about that, sweetheart?

Can you show me?

Is that too hard for you, darling?

Do you need help?

Are you excited?

Could you do one more for me, baby?

Are you going to sit nice?

Are you going to behave today?

Do you need to hold my hand?

And then, followed up with "well done, thank you, so good." because being praised for using your words is ❤️🤭🥰❤️

[switch-puppygirl]

aftercare idea: I kiss your whole body while I massage your hickeys and apply cold compress to the scratches, cuts and marks I covered you with

[soft-hearted-brat]

would you kidnap someone in a hot way

I am a soft dom with sadist tendencies at best..

I’d have to get a lot stronger and better at using rope…*sigh* the girls want that anyway, I can’t win here…

could I? probably not. but would I try if my sub wanted me to…? maybe...(like yeah that could be hot tho…I get it) anyways, thanks for the ask!

[3lizabee77]

Went on a lovely lunch date yesterday with an older gentleman who was quite nice. We laughed and talked and even got a little handsy with each other (thank you, alcohol). There was a little bit of kissing too, which i wasnt thrilled about (not a fan of PDA), but he later apologized for assuming I was okay with it. I mean I didn't exactly push him away but it was more of a rabbit in the headlights just going along with things type of reaction. He will be more mindful going forward.

He was generous with the compliments during the course of the date, but one of the things he kept saying was, "you're so normal!" And I kept wanting to correct him. He has NO IDEA about my littleness. All I could say was that there were things he had yet to learn about me but it wasn't yet the appropriate time to go into those things.

I was able to divulge as much as being kinky and my kink being a subcategory of BDSM. He assured me he was no clueless vanilla and there was probably nothing I could say that would shock him. But he also understood why I would prefer to wait and see if things go in an intimate direction before having the kink conversation.

I just get the impression that as an older, seemingly old fashioned straight laced alpha male, he isn't going to understand littlespace. And yes, I know that if someone doesn't get it and isn't open to getting it, it's not the right situation for me. It still sucks to be judged and misunderstood.

I feel like this is when having a littlespace peer group would come in handy...

[3lizabee77]

Ladies are we aware that there are spots other than the G??? Last night the chef made a surprise appearance and brought along his [not so little] friend. And by friend I mean of the plastic variety. Without going into too much detail, he helped me to achieve what's called an A-spot orgasm. I'm sure my neighbors thought I was being murdered. While it was certainly a moment, to say the least, I can't help but worry this will result in a UTI...guess we'll find out! I'm proactively chugging water and I took my daily cranberry supplement. 🤞🏻